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That's because you love it enough!
Your love is too selfish!
If your love is greater than your hatred, then you will smile and bless, even if your heart is still so reluctant!
I love someone, he may love me now, maybe, but for various reasons we can't talk about relationship issues at the moment, he doesn't even make friends with me, because he is afraid that he will remember that I can't concentrate on studying! He loves me more than any boy I have! He was very attentive to me!
I can't forget all the kindness he did to me! Even if he has a girlfriend now, I can't help it! You love him after all!
Wouldn't it hurt you if you hurt him?
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Try to avoid them, time will dilute everything! Try to hear some pastel ** or watch some poignant stories!
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The past is unbearable, so I let go of myself and others, and it is very sad to hate because of love, and my lover has become an enemy, and I am very sad.
I'm just like you, you're a girl, I wanted to kill them at the time, but then I thought about it, was it worth it? It's not worth it, even a single tear of mine is a waste!
Have fun!
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The best solution is to forget.
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Is it a psychological problem??? Go check check.
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Feelings of love and hate should be decisively let go.
The feelings of love and hate can be treated in the following ways, the first pair of people love and hate, that is, they can't let go of a person's performance, in order not to become a person like the other party, it is the best policy to decisively let go of this relationship. In this process, many people may be separated and combined, and two people will torture each other, especially like this, it is better to keep a good memory, if you continue to torture each other, maybe in the end, those good memories will slowly wear away.
The consequences of love-hate feelings:
If you experience this feeling in an intimate relationship, then there is a good chance that you are experiencing a more insidious form of mental abuse. Compared with physical violence, sexual violence, and direct verbal humiliation, this kind of abuse is easy to be detected and recognized, and even both parties in the relationship may not be aware of the abuse. But emotional abuse can cause significant harm and can lead to anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts or behaviors, and post-traumatic stress disorder.
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Love-hate relationships can often be too involved and exhausting for a long time, so you need to start learning to stop, not to care about the other person, and to do what you have to do.
The feelings of love and hate are that they can't take it and can't let it go, and they can't give it up. When you encounter this situation, you must first calm down. Think more about reality. Then force yourself to stay away, and after a long time, you can let go and you won't be entangled anymore.
Loving and hating someone is usually due to the following reasons:
1. Fear of rejection:
While being attracted, he also felt fear, afraid of being rejected by the other party, so he rejected the other party first, Hongsheng did this, if he was really rejected, he could reduce some damage, or at least gain some sense of control, and reduce some anxiety about the unknown.
2. Can't trust each other and don't want to get hurt again:
Trusting strangers is a difficult person for someone who has experienced trauma, and even harder for someone who has some similarities to someone who has hurt themselves in the past.
You may deliberately keep your distance from this person and treat them coldly, just like a person who is always unconsciously protecting this part of the body during action after being injured and not letting it touch anything else.
3. You are insecure about your appearance (charm).
Discovering that we are in love with someone may have the urge to run away or go into hiding, and we may turn our shy, unprepared feelings into anger towards that person ("It's all your trouble!"). You make me so uncomfortable! In fact, at the heart of this anger is the distress of insecurity, shame, and low self-esteem.
4. People who think that attractive people are arrogant and show superiority everywhere:
Perhaps it's because the light in others makes us more sensitive to our own shadows, jealous of the attention they receive and the privileges they receive (whether real or not). <>
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Summary. First of all, 1Learn to let go.
Because you once loved him, when you lost him, what was once love may turn into hate2Go for a career, make money, and when you have your own achievements, look back and see what it is 3Go on a trip and let yourself relax, after all, it's not like there's no one in this world who can't do it 4
Say bad things about your other half 5Keep loving. Life is short, don't let yourself be too wronged.
What if both sides love and hate.
First of all, 1Learn to let go. Because you once loved him, when you lost him, what was once love may turn into hate2
Go for a career, make money, and when you have your own achievements, look back and see what it is 3Go on a trip and let yourself relax, after all, it's not like there's no one in this world who can't do it 4Say bad things about your other half 5
Keep loving. Life is short, don't let yourself be too wronged.
I'm in high school now.
Five years of classmates, the two of them now love and hate her, she made me green, she also regrets it, the two of us hurt each other, and then calmed down, I still like it a little.
Have you ever asked yourself if you feel like you can go back to the beginning?
I wasn't cool at first, and now I have a partner, but I can't like it at all.
It's very uncomfortable for five students to be in the same class every day.
That means I still like the girl who hurt you.
If the two of you have hurt each other and now calm down and want to reconcile, you can accept everything he has hurt you before.
She changed what I would.
Are you sure you don't mention hurting each other in the real fights in the future?
And she promised you that she would change.
Walking her own path also left her a path to happiness
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It's very simple, you're too bored Don't be so direct as the puppet says, try to find something you like to do, such as thinking of some small pets Here are some recommendations for hamsters Hehe Very cute little things, scatter your feelings a little to other places You will have a sustenance You won't feel so painful Live a little more sensible Friend.