Can I still maintain such a marriage?

Meet unreasonable people! There's really nothing she can do, but look at her family's attitude towards your father! It's infuriating.

How to say it! If you don't have children, I can help you get an idea, just get a divorce as soon as possible! But what you have to think about now is still focusing on the child, maybe your daughter-in-law is not mature and has no ideas of her own, always listen to her mother, you can talk to her well, after all, it is the two of you who live.

In the future, when the old man is gone, she will listen to whom. There are some things that must be said, explain it to her, if you are still obsessed, it is better to break up. I hope you can get away from your troubles soon Good luck!

I think, 1 The money for the engagement is your wife's own money, and she doesn't have to say anything if she doesn't give it after you discuss it with her, because it's her own money, and she has the right to give it to you or not, but it doesn't affect your feelings, it's up to you.

2 Your wife listens too much to your mother-in-law, the key is that your mother-in-law is not very reasonable, this is not easy to do. And just looking at the matter of giving birth to a child, she is holding on to the money, this is still her own daughter, and she takes money too seriously.

3 Your wife is also wrong, if your father is not good so he is not filial, it is still human nature.

If the 4th dimension is not maintained, it depends on your own assessment of your feelings for your wife, can you tolerate these excesses of your wife and her mother's family? Do you still want to think about what to do with your children, and do you want your children to live in a single-parent family? Weigh it yourself and the answer will come out.

Or just send the child to a healthy family while the child is not too far away, and find a reasonable person with some ability in the future.

It's better to communicate with your daughter-in-law, she must still love you very much, otherwise, she will not give you a child, she has put her whole life on you, treat her well, and your baby, if you really want to leave, you must be more uncomfortable than now, live well, marriage is a persistence! Come on!

Amitabha, I really sympathize with you... I've seen something like this, and it's useless to be reasonable for people who don't open their minds. They are for money, and there is no conjugal affection.

You recite the Buddha, worship the Buddha well, accumulate virtue and do good, and there will definitely be a way out.

Women are so powerful, sometimes men should really think about it, when men are rich, their wives are obedient, I don't know if they like men's money, or something else. Once you don't have money, you don't even recognize your husband.

I'm really not saying that men shouldn't work hard, but I really despise women like that.

I despise women who can only live a rich life and can't endure hardship.

But, for the sake of the child, you bear with it, man. If you are a man, you have to endure it, do something promising, and show them it.

Worship the Buddha more, be kind to others, and work hard, and you will definitely get better.

Nan Wu Great Pessimistic Guanyin Bodhisattva, may the Buddha bless you

First, your wife is not mature yet.

Second, your wife has no filial piety. Such a woman is not worth nostalgia.

Thirdly, such a woman, living a life, you will be very tired and hard.

Fourth, retreat early and give each other space and freedom.

If you can't solve the conflict between you and your wife, it's better to leave, and now you can find another one when the child is young. Otherwise, you will quarrel all day long, and it will have a great impact on the children.

Persuade you not to leave, after all, you have a child, your parents have to be filial, unless your father is too bad to her, then there is nothing to say, if your father is good, then this woman has to talk about it, because it is an elder. Recently, my family is like this, my brother and sister-in-law are divorced and have no capital to mess around, I really don't know what they do.

Personal opinion Find another one

It's a person who lives a lifetime, such a family is helpless, and the child is innocent

I don't know how

Leave, let your wife regret going.

As a gay man who has come out, I feel very sympathetic to your situation, because you must have not known your husband's sexuality before you married him. It's not nice to say, he's just cheating on marriage. In my personal opinion, I feel that you should get a divorce.

Due to the restrictions of China's national conditions and the influence of traditional thinking, at least more than 80% of comrades eventually entered into heterosexual marriages, which led to the emergence of another huge group, that is, homowives. Unfortunately, you are now part of this group.

It cannot be said that all same-sex wives are unhappy, but the vast majority of same-sex wives live very depressed lives, live very discordantly with their husbands, and often suffer from all kinds of cold violence.

What I want to remind you is that you don't compromise just because you are a woman, and feel that there is no way to continue life after divorce, everyone is an independent individual, and there is no question of who can't live without whom.

And do not choose to live with patience just because you have children. The happiness of your children is just as important as your personal happiness, and you don't have to sacrifice yourself to maintain this meaningless marriage. And if you live in a false marriage, your children will not necessarily be happy.

If you are reluctant not for the above two reasons, but purely because of love for him, then I'm sorry, I'm going to brutally shatter your illusion that sexual orientation doesn't change.

Especially from homosexual to heterosexual, that's a fantasy, so you must not try to influence your husband through your love. It's cruel, but it's the truth.

I don't know what your actual situation is, but even if you know that your husband is gay, you still want to be with him, and that's your personal freedom.

However, you may never get love in him, and the encouragement is just an illusion. This is a lifelong thing, but it's not as simple as "Zhou Yu beats the yellow cover".

The Buddha said that it is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a marriage. But I really want to be a wicked person for once, and I advise you to give up this marriage.

There is a lyric that says, if you can't hold the sand, it's better to raise it. It's not yours, no matter how tightly you hold it, it's useless, but the more you go back, the more painful you will be. It's better to let yourself go and start a new life.

Whether you should maintain it depends on your thoughts, if you really like it then find a way to continue, if there is no love anymore, then what are you doing together reluctantly.

This depends on your own heart, just follow your own heart.