Is it necessary to maintain a marriage like yours?

Nowadays, many people think that divorce is not a big deal, since a person can take care of children and earn money to support the family, so why bother with that person and often quarrel to make yourself sad? It makes a lot of sense. But if you are really separated, and you are alone with children and go to work, hard work is secondary, and the harm to the child is also to be considered.

If your emotional foundation is still passable, I think your marriage can persist again, redistribute the division of labor in life, let him be responsible for the children's education, and try to continue to live, after all, it is not easy to form a family together.

It depends on how your relationship goes, but even then I feel like I should calm down and analyze it. If you can't live together, you can relax separately.

In fact, changing a husband is not necessarily better than now. You can ignore your husband and treat it as a divorce. I'm just like this now, and I just treat him as if he is dead, and he spends his living expenses.

I don't pull it down. Maybe it's because my attitude is too obvious, and he doesn't want to get divorced, so he pays his salary every month. I won't talk about it like I used to.

I also made it clear that you can ride a donkey to find a horse, find someone with better conditions than me, and then give me 200,000 alimony, and I will divorce immediately, no opinion. Anyway, he didn't dare to go out to look for it for the time being, and it may not be the case in the future. In fact, it doesn't matter if I get divorced or not, the main thing is that he has the money in place, and I take care of the children by myself, I admit it.

The world is as black as a crow, and I am not a white dove.

Home and everything is prosperous You let him take care of the child for a year to try.

Hello, you are for the children, your husband is often not at home, he doesn't know everything about the children, he is also for the sake of the children, no matter what, you are all for the future of the children, it's okay to be separated without children, there is no complete home for the children, each step back, the sea and the sky, for the children, all forbearance, I wish you a happy family!

The husband and wife are separated, the husband and wife live in name only, and now that the children are older, if you can understand you, you really have no feelings for your husband, and you can consider breaking up. After a breakup, they can find a happy life separately.

In fact, such marriages will appear in most families, and if there is anything bad about the child, the man will blame the woman for not bringing it well, and the man's machismo. As long as the two of them communicate well, it is necessary to maintain, give the child a complete home, you can ask him to come back to find a job, take care of the child together, and you will be more relaxed.

How much money does your husband give you every month, and what does it mean if he is the same as if he is not.

If you have your own independent financial ability, then for the sake of your own happiness, you can find another person who loves each other.

This is just a normal quarrel, for the sake of the children both parties are responsible, your husband is just venting his emotions, you can ignore him, or let him take care of the children!

Let's see how the relationship between the two of you is.

If you use "maintenance" to describe your current state of marriage and future development, then I don't think you need to maintain it. But if you ask, is it necessary to improve such marriages? I'm pretty sure of you:

It is necessary. Because it is much easier to improve the current state of married life than to give up the new choice.

If this is indeed the state you described, then you should think carefully about when your marital status began to become like this, and what caused it? I don't believe that your marriage is in this state of dissolution from the beginning, because such a state cannot enter into marriage, unless the focus of your needs is not emotional, but something else.

Since you can ask questions, at least it shows that you have a positive mindset about solving the problem, which I think is very important and a very good place to start. Since your description is too simplistic, it is difficult to give more specific suggestions to improve your existing relationship. But improving the relationship itself is not difficult, you just need to understand the other person's needs and then meet the other person's needs.

The deeper your inner needs are, the easier it will be to improve your current relationship. Therefore, only by observing and communicating with your heart can you find out that the other party's needs are in the first place, and then it is possible to meet him. Don't feel humbled and flattered because of this, emotional relationships are always a two-way street.

A healthy relationship between the sexes can satisfy both parties at the same time, and your efforts are not only fulfilling the other party, but also achieving yourself. It's really not that hard.

Whether or not you want to continue your marriage depends on your own situation. If you feel that the marriage is still worth trying to make amends, then you should continue to maintain it. If you already feel that you have lost a talk about marriage, this situation can only be broken up by two people.

If you go on, you will maintain, and don't blindly settle for it.

It's not that there is no way to maintain it, but you have to adjust your mentality.