What to do Is there any point in maintaining a marriage?

After reading what you said, I think it is a wise choice for you to leave, you can't choose to accommodate, some things can be accommodated, like this kind of thing, you can't accommodate it for a lifetime, just get a certificate and start calculating money, such a man, you be careful, while you are young, you have to choose your other half, this is more important than anything else, you have to choose what is really good for you, don't accommodate, wait for you to live for a few years, when you can't bear it, then it will not be good for you to remarry, remember the most important point, Marriage is the happiest thing in a person's life, if you don't feel happy, then end it early! Wishing you happiness!

Divide the money clearly, pay him back when he should return it, come back if he should come back, and then let him get out of the way, there will be no way to live in the future The man who says this kind of thing obviously disrespects your parents, including you, and you will suffer and die when you marry into their family.

Giving up is also a kind of happiness, there are too few such men! I don't know responsibility, I don't know love!

Don't want such a husband! If this continues, he will only go too far!

If he really likes you, he won't be so careful!

I advise you to turn back as soon as possible, don't pull such a man!

It's a pity, not to mention wasting your youth, but also wasting money, this kind of man is scolded by everyone, weigh it yourself, no one wants to suffer for a lifetime, and now you haven't collapsed, and you know to ask someone, and when you really collapse, you may already be in a psychiatric hospital.

It doesn't make sense! This is just the beginning for you, and you will have to suffer later!

This man is powerful,,, but you're not bad either. I also know that he is crying poor... It's better not to understand your money. Or he borrows a pole to climb...

This kind of marriage, don't be in a hurry, wait to think about it, don't regret it in the future.

Money, money, such a man is really boring! Kick him, and it's a sin to have him!

Sister, how could you choose this kind of person? It's better to leave now than to leave after having a baby! Hurry up.

.No, how did you fall in love with him in the first place?

If you use "maintenance" to describe your current state of marriage and future development, then I don't think you need to maintain it. But if you ask, is it necessary to improve such marriages? I'm pretty sure of you:

It is necessary. Because it is much easier to improve the current state of married life than to give up the new choice.

If this is indeed the state you described, then you should think carefully about when your marital status began to become like this, and what caused it? I don't believe that your marriage is in this state of dissolution from the beginning, because such a state cannot enter into marriage, unless the focus of your needs is not emotional, but something else.

Since you can ask questions, at least it shows that you have a positive mindset about solving the problem, which I think is very important and a very good place to start. Since your description is too simplistic, it is difficult to give more specific suggestions to improve your existing relationship. But improving the relationship itself is not difficult, you just need to understand the other person's needs and then meet the other person's needs.

The deeper your inner needs are, the easier it will be to improve your current relationship. Therefore, only by observing and communicating with your heart can you find out that the other party's needs are in the first place, and then it is possible to meet him. Don't feel humbled and flattered because of this, emotional relationships are always a two-way street.

A healthy relationship between the sexes can satisfy both parties at the same time, and your efforts are not only fulfilling the other party, but also achieving yourself. It's really not that hard.