Can friends continue to be friends like this?

After reading your profile, I would like to briefly share my personal thoughts.

First of all, I think that your own family is relatively well-off, while your friend's family is relatively poor. At this point he may feel that you are not at the same level, he thinks that you will not be true friends with him, and if you are still nice to him, he may think that you are watching his jokes. So when you encourage him, he may have some impatient expressions.

Secondly, you also think that he has a prejudice against you, why? Sometimes you can think about it from a different angle, you are on top, he is below, he needs your help, but he also has his self-esteem and face, he feels that you will look down on him, and be with you, as if reminding him all the time that he is not as good as you, he is jealous and envious of you. He doesn't want to live like this, but he can't live without you, so he has to take advantage of you.

Finally, in my opinion, he doesn't cherish your friendship, he is just using you, if he cherishes you, if he cherishes you, he must communicate in time if he has problems, and he must work hard to improve, rather than blindly relying on you to support.

In addition, there is an old saying: friendship is as light as water. This means that there should never be any financial involvement. Especially when the wealth gap is relatively large, you should be more cautious in handling the exchange of money, and if you don't pay attention to it, others will be disgusted with you.

If you are a friend, one is like-minded, the other is a business partner, and a friendship like yours is not easy to last. How can it last without a common language?

Just show him your emotions.

Most of my friends are like this, because he has been married and has pressure, so sometimes he can't think of you as a friend.

Your help is right, but I personally think that even if it is help, it depends on the person, and it can be seen that your friend himself has no heart, is he really under pressure? If you have a heart, he will try his best to make money and pay it back to you, and he will be embarrassed if he borrows money from you more times, but he doesn't, he goes to the Internet café when he has a little money, this kind of behavior is really not like what a responsible man does.

So I think after you persuaded him, he still said that, you can consider not lending him again, because you did your best, didn't you?

If you have made it a habit for him to help him, then you really should let him change it. Maybe you should have a big fight with him the next time this happens, and tell him how you feel in your heart, after all, he will never know if you don't say it. Then let him think about it, and then you can lend him the money, by the way, you did it because you treated him as a friend, and hope that he will take your money and use it with a clear conscience.

Do you have a place where you need his help? Have it? Yes!

Do you think of him? That's what he said, but maybe he didn't think so! He has his own position and ideas!

Borrow money? Is it much? Can you accept it?

If you can accept it, go and help him! 20 years! It's long!

Treasure! When talking to him, tell him: 1. Low-level said:

God is not fair! There is no way! This is how the world is!

2. God is very fair, everyone has their own happiness, but you don't find it! Or you can talk to him with a Socratic question!!

It's better not to do it, since there is only money left, then there is no friendship at all.

The relationship between friends is mutual, and if you still want this friend, you have a drink with him, and maybe you think that he will only think of you when he is short of money, but what about you? When will he be remembered.

Yes, you are doing the right thing, enlighten him and encourage him, there is no job to look for.

Feed yourself as you can.

You are his friend, tell him that you will support him.

If, after a while, he is still like this.

Then let's consider not having this kind of friend.

That will drag you down.

It's not worth it either. Although it is a friendship of more than 20 years.

I will be reluctant to let go.

But in the long run.

There will always be an ending.

Since you're all sad, then why bother making this friend who doesn't need to be, this person is not your friend at all.

Just look at your title to know the answer, can't hey! The boss turned back to the shore!