What can I do if I live to 20 and have no close friends?

It is difficult to find close friends, and your current situation also has something to do with your personality.

You can try to be cheerful.

For example, participate in more activities, so that you can get to know more people.

If your classmates don't contact you, you can also contact them first, someone has to speak first, so you can say it first.

The relationship between classmates will be weak if there is no contact, after all, everyone has different jobs, different ideas, and different experiences, and it will not be the same as when they were in school before, and there are changes.

Of course, you can also find friends among the people you know now, don't let people think that you are difficult to approach, be more proactive, be positive, let everyone see your hopes and ideas, and they will accept you.

People hone different personalities in different environments. You are an introvert, and you don't have to be born with it, so get in touch with your classmates, friends, or colleagues. When you meet, take the initiative to say hello, and the friends around you will also drive your emotions.

When I was in school, I was also more introverted, but after I went to class, I was able to enter this society, and I changed unconsciously, and my personality was much more open, I liked to laugh and live happily. It's a day to be sad, it's a day to be happy, so why not make yourself so happy? Being friendly to your friends will also have unexpected effects.

I just want to tell you that classmates and friends are not the same, classmates do not necessarily mean that they are your friends, classmates and friends are not the same grade, so you graduate Classmates also have less contact with you, but this is also normal, people go to tea and cool, so you don't have to be too sad.

Don't be in a hurry, friends can't come in a hurry It's rare to have a confidant in life, and some people don't have a bosom friend in their lives. Besides, you're only 20

You pay attention to your interactions with friends, see who you can talk to, and then slowly develop

I would like to send you a word: everything is fate, and you will be safe with what you encounter

It's not that they don't want to be your true friends, it's that they have their own habits and sometimes can't take care of you, so add me as a friend 569259493

The most feared thing is to be snubbed by a good friend...

Is it because I'm a Scorpio?,I really have few friends.,I've always been very honest about making friends.,But,Others will never treat you like you treat him (her)!!

Open your heart, put your body down, and take the initiative. There are no friends who can't be discussed, and remember to bring a sincere heart.

It's looking for close friends, not expanding networking, and it was a little different at that time.

The goal is to become bosom friends with cheerful women.

way, you can use the way of writing a letter, the first letter inside the top to write clearly, yes"I want to find a close friend, I am very introverted. I'm always embarrassed to find a friend, and I want to be a pen pal with you, okay? "Do this if you're a student.

Because the psychology of the person in the inner item will have a lot of words, you may be embarrassed to say it at first, but as soon as you say it, you can't stop!

If you have already gone to work, you often go to a restaurant with your colleagues, and it doesn't cost much to go to a small restaurant, and you can make friends, because no one can say who will be used in the future. Eat together often. Slowly you will be cheerful. You'll have more chances to find close friends.

When pen pals are very acquainted, they automatically become very good friends!

I've read a sentence: don't think about whether others like you or not, think more about what you are worthy of others' likes, and the reason for using it in you is almost the same!

Always emphasize that you don't have a bosom friend, why don't you take the initiative and strive to become someone else's bosom friend first?

This should be your own problem.

Make friends with your heart, and you will reap the rewards.

People are selfish, in a hypocritical life, you must learn to adapt to every environment, those so-called friends, are hypocritical, but you must also learn to laugh and communicate with them, of course, it's not that there are no true friends, maybe it's just that you haven't met yet, I think you should understand that people are like this, when you have money, you are with you, there are always so many excuses when you are in trouble, you should not expose them, because everyone is the same, always have to think about yourself first, So if you want to survive in this society, you must also be fake, of course, you don't have to be a true friend of yourself, take your own sincerity to meet your true friend, isn't there a sentence that is bound to die for a confidant, although it is not as serious as he said! True friends, I don't think you haven't met them, it's just that you haven't seized this opportunity, do you have your own sincerity to greet each of your friends? If you do, then prove yours"Friends"False

Take the initiative, find like-minded people, and gradually become friends with her.

The first floor is right, usually, your father and mother are your best friends, if you feel that you have no friends, just call your mother, if you are twenty years old this year, you are likely to be an only child, then you should communicate more with your parents. I wish you good health and good luck, hehe.

Why can't you take the initiative to make friends with others?

There must be someone around you who wants to be your bosom friend, so keep an eye out for it.

Hey, I'm 22 years old and I don't have a close friend!!."

Soulmates are hard to find, and confidants are hard to find. It's just that the time hasn't come yet, so there's no need to rush too much.

I understand your situation, I have experienced it, you can find your own opportunities, open your heart, there must be!

I'm 22 years old, and I have a lot of friends, but I haven't found it yet, boss.

It's not a failure, how can it be so easy to be a bosom friend.

My mother once told me that there are only interests between people, maybe this is too cold, but this is absolutely the truth, friends may just be the interests of each other, I can only say, true friends are not easy to find, but friends who exchange interests with each other, we can slowly deal with a few.

Moreover, now people are all different, maintain a certain degree of vigilance, and must communicate with each other, but also guard.

Can I be? I had a friend, but not only did she not treat me as a friend, but she also stole other people's things, including mine, and she was not a good person. But not everyone is like that

Within the limits of what you can bear, do your best to help others, and don't worry about how much others have taken advantage of you and how much you have suffered. For example, you can help other people cook, etc. No matter how big or small someone has something to do, you can see if you can help.

A friend is not a person who rejoices with you when you are happy, but who is sad for you when you are sad.

Hello kids! A friend is the one who is happy when you are happy, he or she is not happy when you are not, and especially the one who criticizes you outright when you are wrong. Be happy, don't let him (her) be depressed with you!

In a lifetime, you may have many friends, or you may not have any friends, let alone 15 years. Friends, on the road of life, we have been looking for it. Happy, maybe you can be happy and sad together?

If it weren't for a confidant, how many people would be willing to cry with you, people are always selfish, and no one can say that I will always be selfless. If you're in a bad mood, you don't have to have friends to comfort you, you can slowly relieve yourself by doing what you like, listen to songs, go shopping, etc. Hehe, remember to be happy every day.

That is, you can't do things for others. Hurry up and improve it. Otherwise, if you don't have friends in the future, your life won't have a little color.

I'm just like you, hehe, someone told me that when you fully understand the way of life, you are ignorant.

Probably not, this needs to be contacted more.

There are many friends, but it is difficult to find a bosom friend, but there is still a long way to go, and I believe you will find a bosom friend.

Self-reliance, self-reliance, do your own thing.

It's not that your friends are useless, it's that you yourself won't make others feel troublesome, or you can't see you sad! If you are sincere to others, others will also sincerely return to you!

Lived for 15 years and had no friends?

I guess you brought this question up after a conflict with your so-called friend, right?

In fact, everyone has friends, it's just a few.

It's useless at the critical moment" - maybe they couldn't do it, or they were in a bad mood at the time, but in fact, friendship at your age is the most genuine.

Cherish others, and others will cherish you.

By the way, you can learn to empathize.

I hope you get out of the bottleneck of friendship!

What do you do to others, friends don't need too many words, mainly in heart-to-heart.

I don't know if you are a woman or a man, if you are a woman, then you should know that women have to learn to be independent

Some people haven't lived for 38 years.

I don't tell you the profound words, the confidant doesn't exist in the first place, but there are a lot of friends, and there are friends all around. You're only 18 years old, I'm 20 years old, it's not the same, when you are very good to someone, you have to eat with her, cry, laugh and share everything, you may decide that she is your confidant. Later, you find out that you are all for the sake of your friends, which means that you are not aware of your current situation.

It's not that they want to benefit you, it's that you're willing to be benefited, and then wait until you find out before you say to him, "Ah, you're using me." I'm sorry for you or something. ”

You have to tell yourself that no one can trust you, including yourself, not to make you wary of everyone, but to be tactful and hide yourself deeply. It must be lonely, isn't it you or someone else who can experience loneliness? Maybe you will take a shortcut to find someone who is also lonely to be friends, and people who are both lonely must know a lot about loneliness.

That kind of person can't be a friend, isn't there a saying that a group of carnival people are lonely or something.

Don't think about these wastes at the age when you should be studying, and make yourself strong to be able to appreciate loneliness. At the same time, we must understand that people are inherently lonely. Don't think about someone who understands you, even if you don't say it, you can know the ** plot by looking at your eyes.

In this world, unless you change your mindset and get out of the self-centered mode, you will find that it is not as bad as you say.

I guess that's unlikely! For the sake of profit? Hehe......You're thinking too highly of yourself.

If you really don't have a close friend, you can only blame yourself. A close friend is not just someone else who knows you, you also have to understand others. Friendship is meant to be cared for together.

There is such a saying, "Others are concerned about whether you fly high or not, and those who care about whether you are tired of flying are real friends......"Got it? You also have to give, and you are the first to find out when your friends are in trouble. Maybe it wasn't someone else who abandoned you from the beginning, but you pushed everyone away!

It's easy to change yourself, sometimes let go of your posture, let go of your temper.

I think you should probably look within yourself for the reason.

I remember the history teacher said that there are no eternal friends, no eternal enemies, only eternal interests, that's it, growing up means loss, we have all gone so far that we forgot what we set out for... Also, no one can only accompany you for a ride, no matter how good a friend is, he can't stand up to his own self-reliance...

I've got a lot of them, ha, how did you do it.