I m always picking fault with my boyfriend, what should I do?

Love is inclusive, but it cannot be indulgent. No one can predict what will happen in the future, all you have to do is enjoy every day she has with you. Wishing you happiness!

My girlfriend is like you, sometimes she will be like me No one is perfect, everyone will be a little bit of a fault The key is to know the fault and correct it She sometimes says what I say really... It makes me feel like I'm not as good as her dog, and she also wants me to be more perfect, but it makes me feel that such a girl is too stingy and too calculating, and the boy will always be tired and will leave one day. So.

I think the two of us are very similar, I am like this, our personalities are very different, so there are always a lot of things that are not used to him, but I love him again, after a lot of points and combinations, I understand that he also really loves me, love him, love all of him, as long as it is not a problem of quality, you can tolerate and understand! When you want to get angry, think about how good he usually treats you, and tell him tactfully that you don't like him like that, and you should feel sorry for him, and think more about the other party, so that it can last for a long time. I wish you all happiness!

Feelings don't last forever. Be realistic, what do you do, and one day you will leave. Even if it's not the two of you who want to break up. Death will come to you.

Cherish the present.

If so, how can you talk about loving him? It's only worth your verbal change, you don't love him as much as he loves you.

Let's get rid of your current habits.

Think about it from another perspective: If your boyfriend hurts you so much? You can bear it.

Men are sometimes as fragile as babies.

You also know that you are wrong. Apologize to him.

He'll understand.

Never hurt the person you love and love, something will happen one day.

You also know that you were spoiled by your parents since you were a child.

It can be seen that your boyfriend loves you very much, and if he doesn't love you very much, he won't bear your brutality and willfulness for a long time.

It also reflects that you are very dependent on your boyfriend, and you believe that your boyfriend loves you very much, so you lose your temper at him unscrupulously and play tricks.

However, you also have panic in your heart, afraid that one day, your boyfriend can't stand you and gives up on you.

You understand that it is not a way for you to continue like this for a long time, but you have developed a habit of being dissatisfied with your boyfriend and losing your temper at him uncontrollably.

So the only way you can do it is to get rid of your bad temper and learn to be gentle with your boyfriend. Even if your boyfriend is really not doing well in some places, there is really something wrong. You also have to talk to him well and let him correct it. First of all, you need to fix your own problem.

Love is not a war, you need to take care of each other, men also need to care and love, love your boyfriend well.

To love someone is to love everything about him.

Take this to heart!!

Your boyfriend is always finding fault with himself, maybe he wants to make you better, if he has a good attitude you can forgive him! If he hums, you just find fault with him, let him feel it, and then talk to him and ask him what kind of mood he feels. If he still doesn't change, just change his boyfriend, and believe that he has this strength.

Answer: In this case, you have to communicate well with your boyfriend and show him your attitude, because loving someone is a process of mutual tolerance and mutual correction. If he has been critical of you, and has gone too far, you must show him that you are unique, you can point out my shortcomings, but you can't be critical of you, you have to talk to you.

When I asked questions, I felt that everything I was doing was wrong, and I slowly lost my confidence.

He just blindly blames you and corrects your little mistakes, and you also feel that you have no self-confidence.

This is not for you, all you get is negative energy.

Then it's not worth it to maintain this relationship that makes you unhappy anymore.

Now that's the case, so like him as long as it doesn't go his way.

I can guess it's all your fault.

Question: He goes to work, I go to school, those values conflict, he thinks I don't understand anything, say the wrong thing, just say I'm disappointed in you, think about it.

Values are different.

He's suppressing your self-confidence.

And then I'll tell you that I'm for your good, right?

Moreover, I feel that he should be a bit machismo, that is, he is the only one who is wrong with you.

You have to be centered on Him.

The question is right, that's it, the accusation is not right, that is not right, but he also said that it will not hurt me, it will be good to me, he likes the cold war, even if I do something wrong, he doesn't say it, he ignored me for four days last time, and he usually doesn't coax me, I don't know whether to save face or how to answer no.

This relationship. I can see that you are trying to make things right.

Anything you will be able to do.

Could it be that you will be on him in the future?

Typical self-centeredness.

The routine, you make you pay for him willingly.

But you're going to be tired.

You're aware of what he's doing.

Question: Yes, I endured it again and again, but I felt that I was lying to myself, believing him again and again.

Stop losses in time. You only have one life, and you have to live for yourself.

Not by looking at the look in his eyes.

Question: I'm a freshman at the age of 19.

You're only 19 and you're young, and you're going to meet a lot of great people.

If he beats your self-confidence.

The person who doesn't deserve to really spoil you is going to be you.

Tolerate you don't hesitate anymore, you're sure.

Will he change for you.

If you can. Then you won't be asking questions here.

If you want to continue, you won't be too anxious here.

So, to send the mentioned, you are very young, don't lose the most beautiful time you deserve for him.

Maybe what I say doesn't like it.

However, this must be what I have to say.

Because I want you to be happy and live for yourself, you are only 19 years old and one is 20 years old.

Time is gone, the pain is left, and your self-confidence is gone.

Question: I remember everything you said, I'm so grateful to have you help me when I was lost, you told me a lot, I really appreciate it, I also understand what to do, I'll live a good life in the future, and I'll take it as a growing experience, thank you very much.

I didn't have anyone to guide me back then.

Now I can help other people, and it's also a kind of amending for the past.

Your boyfriend always likes to find fault with you, which means that he is not tolerant of you enough and does not respect you. For such a boyfriend, first of all, you can communicate with him well, understand his true thoughts, if you can communicate well or he has changed, you can continue to get along, if it is still like this, I think you can consider breaking up, because you must be hurt by getting along for a long time.

should be separated. Don't change yourself for the sake of a person, if he can't accept these little faults of yours, there is no need to be together.

At this time, you should tell him that everyone has problems, but as a couple, you must tolerate each other's problems, otherwise you can break up.

Who knows what a conscience person without conscience looks like, praised by others but belittled by his own people, you tell him one thing is just to find a topic for each other, and finally give you a thorn, what problems are caused by you, you have to count down your dislike of you to highlight your own greatness in order to cast a sense of superiority, then I will learn from you, attack each other every day, quarrel every day, and end up unhappy every day. I can't show if I'm unhappy, I'm looking for something when I say it, so let's be obedient, the key people who don't force the number will only get worse, and they will be beaten every day! Those with low emotional intelligence will not coax people and will not let out rainbow farts, even if they are still phosgeneous, if you have a mine at home, you still look like Wu Yanzu who didn't lose his hair when he was young!

It's all good for you in my heart, but it's like a fart when I say it, <>

Let you persuade yourself after listening: Ah, he's good for you, ah, he just doesn't say it well, ah, he still loves you, ah, he doesn't really dislike you, ah, he's just a knife-mouthed tofu heart, ah, he's still young (almost eighty years old, and pretending to be tender), ah, he's playing with you......When I'm in a good mood, I can take care of myself, but when I'm in a bad mood, my mother just wants to kick you to the wall and can't shovel it down with a shovel. When I first got together, the fish nanny is now three years old, oh man I hope the relevant departments can give me a reasonable rectification reply, thank you!

Today's venting is done)! Alas! But maybe I flashed my neck when I passed by in my previous life, and I can't turn back.

See you next time. > possible reasons are as follows:

1.He is just this character, he likes to pick on others, and it seems that only he is perfect.

Like my ex.

I've never seen a boy who talks so much, and he can find a lot of fault for others in front of him.

2.I can't love you enough.

Subconsciously feel that you are not his perfect girlfriend, and you are not in love enough to be willing to tolerate and accept your shortcomings.

In short, if you can bear it, you can bear it, and if you don't want to bear it, you can tear him.

Or girl, try to pick his thorn next time and see how he reacts.

I think you should choose to break up with him, if a guy always finds fault with you, then there is only one reason, it means that he doesn't love you at all, otherwise how can he not know how to tolerate you?

Good afternoon, how is your boyfriend who has nothing to do?

Usually he is not mentally balanced and wants to get your attention.

Let you care more about him.

The inner desire to be noticed is externalized in behavior.

Questions. You're wrong.

He was a self-centered man.

<>I didn't have breakfast in the morning, the clerk came later than us, he asked the clerk to go next door to eat a bowl of noodles, and after we came, I asked him if he still needed to buy breakfast for the clerk. If he eats it, I'll buy it, and if he doesn't, I'll buy both.

I'm okay with what I say, but hehehe.

I'm speechless, there are a lot of similar things every day.

A self-centered person just wants others to revolve around him.

That's right. Whatever he says is what he says.

He doesn't care what others do, but others must follow him.

He's a very egoistic guy and he's smart.

He won't say a word of nonsense.

To be honest, it's so speechless, it's obviously out of tune, and if you can't stand it, let's separate.

It's important to find a boyfriend who is a good fit.

It's true. His style means that he will not coax people, especially straight men.

If you are speechless for a long time, it is recommended to talk openly and do not hide it in your heart.

And you have to think carefully about whether you want to continue with him.

It's an emotion you can't digest on your own. So get rid of it quickly. The best thing to do is to ask whoever is giving you emotions.

Good evening, talk to him more. If you continue like this, a bad mood will also affect your health. If you have an idea for him, just communicate with him.

At this time, the best thing to do is to choose to break up, because your boyfriend is not particularly happy with you and will often deliberately find fault.

I think it's okay to cut ties with him for a while and let your boyfriend think calmly, and maybe he's thinking about your strengths rather than your weaknesses.

You should cut off contact with your boyfriend for a while, let him calm down, think about the problems between you, maybe he will be able to change this practice.

I think you should also find fault with your boyfriend and make him feel bored in order to be reasonable.

When he finds fault with you, you can also find fault with him in turn, compare your strengths with his weaknesses, and maybe your boyfriend can reflect on himself.

I don't think he likes you. So I hate you very much. In the face of such a boy, I think you should break up.

This is really what every girl wants to know the most, why are you always keen to find fault with me even though she has done so well? Have you seen the movie "Qiandu"? It's a very old one, it is a large-scale work of William Chan and Zhong Xintong, in addition to the highlight of large-scale, their way of love is remarkable.

They live together in a very small room, the room is full of crafts that two people like, there are quilts that Gillian likes, and there are also equipment that Wei Ting likes, they are very harmonious when they are quiet, and they look no different from ordinary lovers. But whenever they quarrel, they are like enemies of the other side, smashing cups, smashing chairs, and even speaking ill of each other, and fighting.

One of the most important points between their quarrels is that they like to expose each other's shortcomings and some extremely bad habits, and when one of them says one, the other will refute the other, and it will become more and more intense, as if it were like a machine gun, endless. Of course, the result is that they break up, who can stand the quarrel and keep talking about their shortcomings without bowing their heads to me and saying sorry for such a relationship? My little problems are also what I have, and I am the only one in this world, if you can bear it, you can bear it, and if you can't bear it, pack up the package for me and get out of the way.

That's what a lot of girls think now, right? I really know too well, and there are many girls who treat princess disease as a personality.

Secondly, if your friend tells you that you don't have this problem at all, of course, the premise is that your friend tells the truth, then your boyfriend still continues to pick again and again, that is your boyfriend's problem, then you must sit down and communicate seriously, if you don't communicate, I'm afraid you will have to say each other's shortcomings at the flashpoint of the two like Wei Ting and Gillian, and the result is that you will be in situ **, and you will break up and see each other from then on. If you still cherish it, talk to him, he will first say the reason, and then you will explain it slowly, don't be angry, be good, at least respect must be there, if you really don't have this problem, ask him not to say it again in the future, on the contrary, then change it, anyway, it's a bad problem, and it's a lot of benefits to change it, change for your boyfriend, become better, I will feel very honored.