I broke up with my girlfriend and I still can t let go of her, what should I do? 20

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Learn to let go, I've had such an experience, a man's husband, you should be ambitious. Since you can't let go, she has already made it clear to you. What more do you want to do!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    That day, my friend asked me: What should I do to love someone? I smiled and said to him: In fact, everyone's view of love is different, and if you say it right, it is called enlightenment, but I am afraid that if you say it wrong, it will become misleading. That's too bad! 」

    If you are also confused about love, perhaps the following passage can give you some inspiration:

    To love someone, to understand, but also to understand;

    To apologize, but also to thank;

    We must admit our mistakes and correct them;

    Be considerate and considerate;

    It is to accept, not to endure;

    It is tolerance, not connivance;

    It is support, not domination;

    It is a condolence, not a question;

    It is to confide, not to accuse;

    It is unforgettable, not forgotten;

    It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything;

    It is to pray silently for the other party, not to ask for many of them;

    It can be romantic, but don't waste it;

    Feel free to hold hands, but don't break up casually.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There's a love called letting go, don't give up a forest because of a tree! It's better to concentrate on studying, if you're good in all aspects, are you still worried about finding a girl?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You may not know that love cannot be measured by money and your family.

    You always feel that he is not worthy of you.

    I always feel that your family conditions are good.

    What do you make him think.

    When you're with her, it's definitely something that makes him feel very depressed.

    Or maybe you suspect him or something.

    Once a woman changes her mind, it is difficult to recover.

    Maybe it's too tired.

    Really, really. Take a break.

    You're a man, you have your things to do.

    Study hard.

    The future will be better.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think since you're better than her in every aspect, maybe she's under a lot of pressure.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not a panacea, it's hard to adapt at first, time will help you solve everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is a warm past and a good memory!

    As long as you remember, love doesn't change ..

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's still young, just talk about a few more.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    2 people will get tired of staying together, you know, ?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Feelings are inherently uncertain, you don't know when he will love you, let alone when he will say that if he doesn't love, he won't love.

    Because of this, women often think crankily, suffer from gains and losses, and often ask men "Do you love me?" just because she is insecure.

    When she really likes you and gives you all her love, she also wants to win your love and hopes that you can treat her sincerely, but not all hopes can be realized.

    In fact, whether a man loves you or not, it is not without traces to follow, as long as you observe carefully, you can also see one or two, there is still a difference between those who love you and those who don't.

    In these three aspects, the more a man "minds", it means that he really loves you!

    He will mind your association with other members of the opposite sex.

    Everyone has their own ideas about whether they can have friends of the opposite sex after falling in love or getting married, some people will feel that as long as they are not the other party's ex or the like, ordinary friends don't matter, but some people feel that since you are with me, then you should not have friends of the opposite sex.

    If that friend of the opposite sex likes you and wants to pursue you, such a person of the opposite sex will naturally refuse, otherwise your partner should not be at ease, don't say anything" He is just my good buddy, "The man who really loves you, he is as nervous about you as you are to him, and he will also be worried about losing you."

    He will mind if you don't have him in your heart.

    If a man truly loves you, he will also be jealous and "angry," and his jealousy and anger are nothing more than that you don't love him enough and don't care enough about him in your heart.

    He will mind if he joins your circle.

    Men and women are the same, if they really like each other, they will hope that the other party can introduce him to his relatives and friends, and let him integrate into his circle, which represents his true recognition and acceptance.

    When a man loves you deeply, he will naturally mind whether he has joined your circle, whether he knows your friends, and even at that time, he wants to know your friends more than his own friends, his psychology is nothing more than because he is closer to you and can understand your life better.

    The more you love your man, the more he will mind these little things, not so much that he minds, but because he cares.

    Only a man who cares about you will mind your association with other friends of the opposite sex; Only a man who cares about you will mind that you don't have him in your heart; Only men who care about you will mind if they join your circle or not.

    When he has you in his heart, he will become a child, and even have a lot of childish practices, and this is nothing more than because he loves you, don't think that those who don't mind anything are really good to you, and if they don't mind, they don't care, and not being jealous can only show that they don't love you enough in their hearts.

    In this life, you may meet many people, but the person who loves you like this may be the only one, and you will be loved!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The daughter's breakup is a daughter's business, you can't let it go and there is no way, you can only force it to let go, because it is his decision to live because he doesn't need him, and it is also his decision that you can't control him, don't feel confused about this matter, it will outweigh the losses.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you want to let go of a person quickly, first of all, you have to tell yourself that it is no longer possible, make your pressure a little less, to accept a new life, most people can't let go because of habit and unwillingness, if you can't get it back, then let yourself die, learn to let go, don't let the other party always stay in your emotional world, WeChat** should be blocked, don't expect to be friends in the future, if you can't let go of her, it is impossible to be a friend in the real sense, it will only make you more uncomfortable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think if you're going to break up in the future, then break up. There was no good result in this issue. You can't be with you without outsiders.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When I say separation, I want you to take the initiative to be eager not to separate.

    Mainly because she's tired or disappointed in you in some way. You should calm down and talk. There should be no guesswork with each other.

    Feelings can't stand the wait, if you don't want to give up, you should actively strive for it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If your girlfriend wants to break up, you can communicate well, find out the reason for breaking up, and make amends for this reason.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Travel wants to break up, what should you do? As long as it's like a breakup, it depends on your ability. You have the power to get him back.

    Your ability is just that he is determined to break up with you, no matter how much you chase it, it's useless? The twisted melon is not sweet, and when it is time to put it down, I think I advise you to put it down. There is no grass in the world.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What if you want to break up and you can't let go? Then you don't love you anymore, what can't you let go of or should let go, you can love him silently in your heart, and then after a while, this stage will almost pass.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your girlfriend is going to break up, and you can't let go of this relationship, which means that you can't change the fact of breaking up, but you pay more for this relationship and are more satisfied with each other, and the relationship requires the joint efforts of both parties, since your girlfriend has made the decision to break up, you are powerless to change, so you should look forward and start your love life again.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you can't let go, you have to let go, because she doesn't love you anymore, and if you don't do any remedy, then hurry up and do it, maybe there will be a reprisal. But if you have done all kinds of unsalvage measures and still can't get back, then you have to learn to choose to give up.

    Giving up is the salvation of yourself, but also the continuation of the love for each other, after all, live a good life with the person you love together, in the future you may find the person you love more, and bless each other to a better tomorrow is what you should do.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When you are not willing to give up this particularly precious love, you can give up your identity, you can promise your girlfriend that you will love her more, as long as you lower your status, the girl will agree to your request.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you really can't let go, then try to redeem her and move her for the bits and pieces of your common relationship, but if she can't accept it, then we can only choose to break up happily.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you want to break up and you can't let go, then I think you can develop a new relationship, you can meet a new suitable woman through the introduction of your family, so that when you enter a new relationship, you may forget about your girlfriend.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's very normal for two people to be unable to let go of their feelings, what you need to do is to find out why you broke up, and then correct it accordingly.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can have a good talk with him, I hope to resolve the contradictions between you, don't separate, after all, it is impossible to continue to be together after the breakup, you must think clearly.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you really can't let go, you should first think about whether you have done something wrong, if you say that you have done something wrong, correct it in time, and promise the other party not to do the same bad things in the future, if you say that you have not done anything wrong, then look away, maybe the other party has their own ideas.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let's tell me this, if a woman is sure to separate from you, you can't pull back even eight horses, because this is that people just don't want to have anything to do with you, so they want to break up with you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think there's anything you can't let go, if he wants to break up, you don't have to make compromises, it's very humble to keep it, it's useless, just let him break up, you promise him, don't be discouraged, you can continue to find a person you like.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello landlord! If she wants to break up, it means that she doesn't love you anymore, and what else is there to let go of such a person who doesn't love you! If you can't be a couple, it's okay to be blue-faced, but don't be boring! .Hope mine is helpful to you, hope!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then you should try your best to redeem and impress him with your sincerity, your girlfriend is going to break up with you now, but you can't let go of him, you still love him in your heart, that can only rely on yourself to impress him with sincerity and try to redeem it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You also want to break up, what should you do if you can't let go? If your girlfriend wants to break up, you have nothing you can't let go, there are few people nowadays who can't let go, and they don't pay too much, even if they pay too much, both of them have to pay, besides, if people want to break up wholeheartedly, it's useless for you to redeem it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You can't let go only for the time being, but you have to figure out why you were broken up, and if the other party says that you can't meet the situation, then you can only let go.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you can't let go of him, then you have to work hard, if the effort has results, that's the best, if the effort has no effect, no matter how hard you try, it's useless, then let it go, after all, if the woman wants to break up with you, he is very decisive.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Love each other, when there is a problem between the two parties, two people should sit down and have a good chat, understand the existence of the problem through communication, and solve the problem in time, so that they can better protect the relationship between the two parties!

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