Blind date, an inscrutable existence, how to be good?

Sympathy for the same disease, it's better to go with the flow, you can't force it, even if you can't force it for a while, you can't force it for a lifetime, if you don't like it, you can't force it to be together in the end, it's not a scorer, it's even worse.

Long-distance relationships are the most unreliable, and often some people in love will end up breaking up because of long-distance relationships, not to mention blind dates.

I believe that love at first sight is right, but we also have to face the reality, get along with each other to know whether each other is suitable or not, love is to face the test of reality after all, can not escape, in the beautiful love in the face of reality are vulnerable, love and reality itself are contradictory, how can coexist, accept fate, I personally think that the marriage in reality is still to find a suitable oneself, only in this way can you live a lifetime, the premise is also to like yourself, the important thing is that the conditions are not too harsh.

The opinions of relatives and friends don't matter, you have to face your own life, you have to be responsible for yourself, don't do things that you regret on impulse.

On your own, have faith.

Find a man who loves you, and one day his love will move you Then the two will be happy and a good life will come.

Be optimistic about reality.

I'm here to complete the newbie mission, so I wish you a speedy blossom and fruition.

In fact, for marriage, blind date is a shortcut, and there must be some key elements of mutual identity with each other on a blind date, such as living habits, region, family environment, etc. On this basis, you can slowly find more attraction points and get along, and you can organize a small society.

I also encountered such a problem, I was introduced to a girl, the first time I met and took her to the park to play, rowing, roller coaster, had a lot of fun, talked a lot at night, I felt okay, I chatted on the mobile phone online, I felt like I could move after chatting for two months, and we got along for a while.

I feel okay now, and she promised me to come back in two months, because it's not far away, and we will play together on the weekends. Now I'm getting married next year, and the house is bought, and it feels good.

In short, everything is fate, and fate depends on whether you cherish it or not.

...Question addendum: The questioner is a woman, a person who is overly rational and extremely egoistic, and some thoughts are difficult to change once they are formed! When looking for ethereal love, I also hope to have the support of theory! Eccentric and conservative.

Same with me. Let's be done.

Hey, sympathy, I just can't let myself be addicted to the world of the Internet.

If you're well-off, then don't think about it, show your love to that girl a little! Your marriage is coming!

Blind dates are a way of socializing, a way to introduce singles to each other. Blind dates are usually introduced by parents, relatives and friends of both parties, and can also be carried out through blind date platforms, marriage and dating** and other channels. The purpose of a blind date is to give both parties the opportunity to get to know each other, so as to explore whether there is a possibility of mutual attraction, and then establish a romantic relationship or a marriage relationship.

During the blind date process, the two parties will communicate to understand each other's basic information, hobbies, personality traits and other information, so as to decide whether to further develop the relationship. The blind date process usually consists of two stages: the first stage is the first meeting, a simple exchange to get to know the elderly; The second stage is further in-depth communication, including dating, meeting activities, family meetings, etc.

In the process of blind date, both parties can choose whether to continue the relationship, or choose to end the relationship.

Blind date is a traditional culture that stems from the respect and maintenance of traditional family values, and it is also a way for single people to find their other half in modern society. With the changes in society and the transformation of personal values, the way and purpose of blind date are also constantly changing. Today's blind dates pay more attention to the free choice of both parties, and also emphasize mutual respect and equal communication.

Blind date is a kind of existence, a way to introduce single people to each other.

The meaning of blind date is to help people find a suitable partner for themselves. Blind dates can help singles meet different people, broaden their social circle and learn about other people's lives and personalities, giving them the opportunity to find a partner who matches their interests, values and lifestyle.

In addition, blind dates can also improve the social skills and confidence of singles, allowing them to learn to communicate with strangers, learn to listen and understand, and understand how to shape their image and personality traits. At the same time, blind dates can also allow singles to better understand their expectations and needs, so as to better prepare for their marriage and family.

Of course, blind dates aren't the only way to find a partner, and some people may prefer to find a partner through friend introductions, social networks, or other channels. But either way, it's important to respect the needs and expectations of the other person and yourself and be open when looking for a partner.

Blind dates are one of the common ways in the process of finding the right love partner. Like people who have met on other occasions, for blind dates, it is also necessary to determine whether there is a possibility of a romantic relationship after their own expectations and the communication between the two parties.

However, blind dates don't need to force yourself to make a final decision at the first meeting. It takes a certain amount of time and communication to get to know each other, and it is recommended that the person being dated should give themselves and the other party more time to get to know and understand each other, and not make a hasty negative or affirmative decision when the communication is not deep enough. At the same time, don't attach too much importance to blind dates, treat them with a peaceful mind, and be clear about your expectations and bottom line.

Ultimately, whether or not it is necessary to determine whether a relationship is related to the feelings and decisions between you and your blind date. Any relationship needs to be based on mutual respect and understanding, and it is necessary to think rationally about one's own feelings and needs and decide whether to further develop the relationship. Regardless of the outcome, be honest and respectful of yourself and the other person, and don't put yourself or the other person in an unfortunate situation.

I think it's too deliberate, and I like something natural.

For the longing for love, most people's thoughts, in fact, are relatively the same.

It is hoped that I can meet a person by chance, and then naturally know each other in getting along, and gradually develop into a couple, and after a certain amount of getting along, I will naturally enter into marriage, and then support each other together, and go to the future together.

Such a step will make people feel more romantic and more reassuring.

And if it's a blind date, although it's a blind date with a person, it doesn't mean too much, but it's just to get to know each other, as for whether there will be development in the future, whether it is possible, and then look at the future situation, but anyway, the blind date is to get married.

From the very beginning, each other has the purpose of falling in love and getting married, which invisibly makes many people feel very stressed.

It's like, it's not so romantic, and it will make it impossible for you to get along with someone easily.

No matter when, there is no way to forget that the other party is a blind date, and I always feel a little uncomfortable in my heart, and I have a responsibility, and I can't do it like treating an ordinary person of the opposite sex, just go with the flow.

And in this process, there are always some people who have just met each other, and the other party looks like they are his, and they will definitely get married to each other, and this kind of scene is really embarrassing.

Speaking of blind dates, many people seem to have some experiences that are not so pleasant.

Sometimes, I clearly stated the requirements, and what others introduced was just not at all, and sometimes, many people were obviously messy, and they didn't match each other at all, and the disparity in conditions was very large, and they were not all the way at all, but they just happened to be single.

When the person introduced by others is not good, of course a person has the right to refuse, imitation socks are only at this time, and others will say that they have high vision, too picky, and don't know good at all, be careful of being single for a lifetime or something.

In addition, being introduced by others to some things that are not reliable at all, or even much worse than themselves in all aspects, it is inevitable that many people's hearts will feel that they are not so comfortable, and even doubt themselves.

When a blind date is always so unhappy, I have nothing to do, even if I see a lot of people, I still end up alone, and I don't like blind dates very much, which is of course very normal.

It's not necessarily that I don't agree with this approach, but I really can't trust the people who introduced it, and I don't want to be disappointed again and again.

After all, if you don't succeed too many times, it will hit your self-confidence very much, and it will offend a lot of people.

Many people really don't want to face that kind of scene again and again, wasting their time and energy, and money.

<> blind date, it is easy to get "hurt" in the heart, and it is not easy to get along with people. People often say that feelings are cultivated, and two people who are "matched" in all aspects, why are there no good results, people are really strange things Many people who don't seem to be compatible feel good! Just imagine, in a class in college, there can be several people of the opposite sex who are suitable for themselves, and the same environment is not easy to find, not to mention the huge city and thousands of societies.

Blind date makes us understand that it is not easy to be in the vast sea of people, the right time, the right place, and the right person! So when you meet someone you love, don't miss it.

If you want to get married, you must marry someone you know on a blind date. Because only the person you are dating is suitable for marrying you. You don't have to marry someone you don't know on a blind date.

Because if you marry someone who is not a blind date, your marriage will be tragic or unhappy. I know that every man wants to marry Bai Fumei, and every woman wants to marry Gao Fushuai, but most of the above blind dates are not Bai Fumei, not Gao Fushuai.

I've always thought of blind dates as an escape, a compromise.

Emotionally, it means that you have given up something important, chosen to throw in the towel and give in, and are open about your powerlessness.

Because normal love is full of too many unknowns, unknowns about each other, unknowns about the future.

In free love, love is random and non-purposeful, so you can enjoy the serendipities and surprises that love brings, and you are unprepared until you like someone. Unlike blind dates, with a strong sense of purpose, you are ready to like him, accept him, or if you are not satisfied, you can change to another person, this kind of deliberate and directed like is not as real and unforgettable as free love.

Because any deliberately expressed emotion will inevitably make people feel stiff and rigid.

Free love is accompanied by huge risks because of its unknown and uncontrollable, for example, when you like someone, you have to consider whether he likes you or not, whether he likes someone else, whether he likes you, how he will marry you, there are too many. Wise quotes about love.

And the blind date, the blind date at least shows that they are all single and have the intention of getting married, even if they feel that the two people are not suitable in the end, there will be no embarrassing and sad situation that you like him and he doesn't like you.

Many people who are not suitable after a blind date will never see each other for the rest of their lives, and it is difficult to remember them again. If the blind date doesn't work out, it's hard to become friends. I often think that a blind date is a relationship with an obvious purpose, and people who can't go on a blind date may not be able to succeed if they start as friends.

And free love is often a mutual affection when they are very familiar with each other, and it is difficult to reach the level of "familiarity" in the only few meetings after the blind date. There are a lot of wonderful things in life, some things, some people.

It's a very good existence for me, maybe my boyfriend in the future will be met through a blind date.

I don't reject blind dates at all, on the contrary, I am still looking forward to it.

Because of my personality and work, I never met a new boy, so I remained single after graduation. But I really want to find a boyfriend.

I've seen handsome boys, but I don't dare to talk to them. It's really humiliating in case of rejection.

Blind dates won't be like this, it can be regarded as giving each other an excuse to get to know each other. And as long as the blind date is normal, I think it's okay to get to know each other. So for me, blind dates are not scary and not ashamed.

If it doesn't feel appropriate during the blind date, then say it well and end the relationship. Wouldn't it be great if you could meet a very suitable person through a blind date?

So I told my mom that if there is a suitable partner, she will introduce it to me, and I don't reject blind dates. Of course, my mom just gave me a blank look and told me to find a boyfriend myself.

rejects people who go on blind dates, or they don't want to fall in love now; Either you already have a favorite object or a dating partner; Or I just feel that the blind date is embarrassing.

But for me, a blind date is a good existence that might solve my single problem.