How can a person really grow up, and how can he be considered to be really grown?

In fact, growing up is not transferred by people's will, it is something that everyone can not control, because people must grow up, and they are always growing, everyone's growth path will be more or less confused and confused, this is very normal, and it can be understood, everyone in the process of growing up, always have to maintain some of their own nature, this nature is difficult to lose and change, do not deliberately change yourself to let yourself grow up. Growing up is divided into physiological and psychological growth and maturity, growing up is a natural law, but also everyone must experience, is a process of life, this process is irreversible, but also your mental journey, as you grow older, you yourself alone will face more things, your thoughts will be more mature, thinking will be rich, desire will also expand, at this time, your psychology will also mature, only psychological maturity you can be regarded as really growing up, but growing up is also relative, Relative to your past, you are growing all the time, growth is a process, for you, it is also the process of harvesting life, followed by of course the increase in troubles, responsibilities and obligations also increase, troubles are not a bad thing, the key depends on how you deal with it, when you encounter troubles and troubles, not just bear and accept, that is, the so-called hard carrying, but at the same time of bearing and accepting, you should be able to effectively analyze and dissolve, so that you can continue to recharge yourself, in order to better replenish energy, In this way, we can enhance the elasticity of our bearing capacity and the elasticity of our receptivity. This way:

In order to make yourself more courageous to face troubles and troubles, and also to make yourself stronger and more resilient. At the same time, you can also make your mind more mature, and you can make yourself grow faster and more stable, and you can also understand life, so that you can better understand life! Taste life and use your wisdom to harvest your life!

I wish you a beautiful, healthy and positive life.

When I can withstand the best, I can also accept the worst.

Leave it to time and feel that when you grow up, you will be old.

Be able to accept grievances and unfair things calmly.

When you laugh at yourself, you grow up.

Tell you that you have suicidal thoughts then you really have grown up!

I feel like I have a responsibility to take on.

I think so.

When people are young, they want to grow up quickly, leave their parents, leave their families, and have their own lives; But when I grew up, I realized that life is inseparable from my parents and family, and the more I wanted to escape before, the more I wanted to have. When I grew up, I realized that only family affection is valuable.

I often work overtime and don't go home to eat my mother's cooking, in fact, only I know in my heart whether I really work overtime or I want to use overtime as an excuse to reduce the time I spend listening to my parents' nagging. Once, I was very busy at work, and it was almost 1 o'clock that night when I finished everything. I remember very well that the alley home was very dark, and I walked very fast alone, walking quickly with my head down, without a trace of stop.

Suddenly, I saw a shadow in front of me, and my heart was pounding, and I was ready to go up and fight! But when I lifted it up, I found that it was not a drunken man or a lewd uncle at all, but an ordinary, powerless mother who just wanted to see her daughter return home early.

She waited there for a full 2 hours. It was then that I inadvertently discovered the silver thread on my mother's head. In fact, we should all know that every mother does not want you to be prosperous and rich. For her, the most important thing is the company of her children.

The sign of a person's maturity, in my opinion, is to gradually understand the importance of family, the greatness and preciousness of family affection.

Because at this moment, he not only takes into account his own interests and feelings, he knows how to appreciate the earnest efforts of his parents in the process of growing up, so he is willing to be grateful and reciprocate. Breaking free from the ego and devoting oneself to a tighter environment created by the family is growth.

I think that really growing up means being really independent.

1.Material independence.

If a person wants to really grow up, he must first be financially independent. Being able to support oneself on one's own ability is true independence.

2.Mental independence.

A person who can not rely on his parents, have his own thoughts and opinions, and be able to take responsibility for his own life is spiritual independence! It is also a sign that a person has really grown up!

3.Personality independence.

Having an independent personality and knowing how to think independently is very important for a person's growth! The sign that a person really grows up is a sound personality, an independent personality!

I think that getting married and starting a family is the real way to grow up, and a person or a partner has to support a family. I have an extra responsibility, and I am no longer the need in the eyes of my parents. It's a kid who cares about this and that.

It is the real growth, for adults to support a family independently. So you're in. Some of the problems you face in your life and work may need to be considered more.

A little more detailed, then. As a result, your circle of friends will also undergo some changes.

Because friendship is also a very important part of our lives, we must cherish friendship and learn to have good communication with friends, so that life will become better

1.Learn to understand others more.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.

2.Treat others with respect.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Communicate more about topics that the other person is interested in.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Learn to listen carefully.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Learn to praise each other.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.

I think the real growth is that you are no longer a child, you can do a lot of things that you want to do, you are no longer a child, you have to learn to take care of yourself, you can take care of others, you can do a lot of things that you want to do, and you are no longer a child. You have to learn to be independent. I think that's how I grew up.

In fact, I think that real growth is a person who can do what he wants to do independently, no longer need to trouble his family, no longer need their care, but can do what he wants to do independently. This is a real upbringing. Hello!

Real growing up means that you can do what you want to do by yourself, you don't need to trouble others, you don't need to rely on others, you have to learn to be independent. To really grow up is to be able to do whatever you want to do, without worrying about other people's thoughts and other people's eyes. Growing up really means that you can do a lot of things you want to do, and you can do a lot of things you want to do independently.