When a child throws a tantrum and scolds his parents, what to do when a child scolds his parents?

I think this kind of person is just underwhelming!!

This kind of person who doesn't know gratitude, doesn't know how to feel sorry for others, should be beaten hard!

Call! I'm thrilled !

What about this kind of person! It's not anyone's fault that you're unscrupulous when you grab a little, and it's not your parents' fault!

It's his fault! It's he himself who doesn't want to be cured! Or maybe it's better to suffer some setbacks and then don't let others take care of the aftermath! ~

Of course, if he's been mentally ill and now looks better, then it's a different story! Then that uncontrollable! If that's the case, you may lose your temper because of a sentence unconsciously, and I think it's better not to follow him!

There must be someone who can control him! Blindly following it will only make him stand on the pole.

All right! That's it.

Hope you can solve the trouble soon!

Above!

I think if he keeps shouting like that, you will be thorough, in this case, just call 120 for first aid, didn't he say that he himself is mentally ill? So good, since it's a patient, you have to go to the hospital. No one should be shared, and it is impossible for your parents to give birth to you and have to support you for a lifetime, and you will be given whatever you want.

It doesn't make sense.

Otherwise, you can tell him that you say you are mentally ill, you say that you have seen a psychiatrist, then you can bring the diagnosis. Without a diagnosis, do I have to believe what you say? I have to make sure if it's true.

If you are sick, as a family, we will take care of you, but it is impossible for you to live at home, in case one day you get sick and kill us. If you're not sick, you'll live like a human being.

I used to be like this, and I became a doctor for a long time with psychological problems. If you want, I still hope that you will explain the specific situation again, and I am willing to help you. I don't have time yet, so I'll continue tomorrow.

It is recommended to ask a psychiatrist, after all, it is not professional on the Internet, in case there is a real problem, it will be delayed.

Children who scold their parents: Parents should reflect on whether it is their own reason to learn to respect their children, and parents should change their own education methods.

1. Parents should reflect on whether it is their own reason.

We have to reflect on whether we have bad behavior habits, for example, some parents are very strict with their children's key education, requiring their children to be civilized and polite, but they do not play an exemplary role, like to speak foul language and laziness, which will have a subtle impact on children, and children will gradually learn from their parents' bad examples.

2. Learn to respect children.

When you ask your child to do something or change a certain behavior, you must ask for the consent of the children themselves, if the child is not willing to do it, then the parents should educate the child or ask the child in an inquiring tone, how do you want to do this, if the child says that it is successful, he will be happy, and the child will also feel that the parents value him and respect him very much.

3. Parents should change their education methods.

When parents get along with their adolescent children, they should never be tough with their children. Parents should first change their own education methods, give timely encouragement to their children where they do well, do not hit their children when they do wrong, and tolerate their children's mistakes.

Only by being a parent who is good at change and learning, has a good idea of the child's rebellious behavior, accepts the child's imperfections, and believes that the child's rebellious problem is only a problem in the process of growing up. If parents do not adjust their education methods in time and do not provide assistance for their children's growth, children may go further and further on the road of rebellion.

First of all, we must realize that this is a stage of behavior in the child's growth process, and it is not that the child has learned badly. Secondly, we need to be cold about this behavior of our children. If you don't respond to your child's verbal bomb, your child will gradually find it boring and uninteresting, and he will not use it anymore.

We parents should pay attention to our words and deeds and create a civilized language environment for our children.

First understand the situation, why scold, understand the cause of the matter, and then teach him by example, don't scold him, tell him that it's wrong.

If a child scolds his parents, he should be disciplined severely. If this behavior is not stopped, it will encourage the child's misbehavior. Certain coercive measures may be applied.

When a child scolds his parents, parents must not use swear words to scold the child, which will teach him a wrong way of education, take persuasion, reason, and communicate peacefully.

Such practices should be stopped in time, because this is a great rebellion, not only immoral, but also pointed at by others, and needs to be stopped.

In this case, then as a parent, you must educate your child well and don't let his behavior and habits continue. When parents should be strict, they must be harsh.

In this way, the child is too immoral, why scold the old, scold you, you can give your child, reason, if your child is older, he understands everything, you tell him, he should understand.

When a child is scolded by his parents, some children are in a rebellious period, they will scold back, and then some parents will strengthen their control to know it, and the child will be scolded and cried.

When children grow up, there are often some mistakes, in fact, this is very normal, but there are also some parents who think that when children are doing things, they must not have some mistakes, if there are some problems, they will beat and scold the child, and even shout loudly to order the child, which will leave some shadows in the child's heart.

Parents beat and scold which is clear about the harm to children:

First of all, it will make children afraid of parents, and will make children afraid to contact parents, and when children have some problems and need to consult parents, children will not dare to contact. It will make the child afraid that in the process of discussing with the parents, he will say the wrong thing or offend the elder of the family, and the parents will be beaten and scolded.

It will also make children violent, because they have been beaten and scolded by their parents for a long time in the family, Yuan Xun will let the child in kindergarten, or when playing with children of the same age, violent behavior, children want to try what it is like to hit people, and even when they encounter some problems, they only learn to use violence to solve various problems.

At the same time, it will also make the child very withdrawn, and even make the child insecure. Because in the process of children's growth, parents need to be constantly comforted, and even need to speak softly, if you shout loudly for a long time, or hit the child, it will leave a big shadow in the child's heart, and it will make the child become very cowardly and dare not speak loudly.

1. Adopt appropriate psychological defenses.

Some people, especially adolescent students, may be tempted to talk back and scold back after being scolded by their parents, but you will find that this will only make the relationship between parents and children worse and deepen the conflict between parents and children.

Others may be introverted and sensitive by nature, and they may remain silent after being scolded by their parents, bearing these negative pressures and negative emotions alone.

Psychological defense mechanism is a kind of psychological protective coping style that people show when facing difficult situations and frustration experiences. However, neither of these methods is particularly suitable.

There are two constructive defense mechanisms in the face of parental scolding. The first is identity, which is the main developmental task of adolescents, for example, if our parents criticize our shortcomings, then we will identify and grasp it and accept our own shortcomings.

The second kind of celebration is sublimation, we transform the negative emotions after being scolded into positive actions, which is often said to "turn grief and anger into strength", which is conducive to the healthy development of body and mind.

2. Correct emotion regulation methods.

If you are often hit and denied by your parents, and often scolded by your parents, then you must have emotional problems, such as being easily anxious, nervous, or easily depressed and sad. To solve this problem, we first need to know that these are all normal emotional changes.

Then we can use rational emotions** to alleviate our negative emotions, which believes that the key to causing people's emotions is not a specific event, but people's unreasonable and incorrect cognition of this event.

To put it simply, if we feel worthless after being scolded by our parents, or feel that we hate our parents, it is an unreasonable and incorrect cognition. Unreasonable cognition can be summarized into three types: absolute, over-generalized, and extremely bad.

What we need to do is to convert these unreasonable cognitions into reasonable cognitions, such as seriously reflecting on whether we have the problems that our parents said, and encouraging them if we have corrected them, which is the correct and reasonable way to regulate emotions.

3. Avoid the tendency to be emotionally abused.

Being scolded by parents, often being hit and denied by parents, can be seen as a form of emotional abuse by parents towards their children. Since children learn through observation and imitate their parents' behavior, it is very likely that you will also learn to treat others emotionally if you are abused by your parents.

To avoid repeating the mistakes of the past, you need to remind yourself to avoid having emotionally abusive tendencies. This requires you to first find your parents' actions before they abuse you, for example, before your parents criticize you, they will have a gloomy face and look angry.

If you can detect this information in time, then you will be able to avoid your parents' emotional abuse of you, which can reduce your own tendency to emotional abuse. Make your emotions more stable and avoid relationship problems, as well as parent-child relationship problems in the future.

All in all, children who are often hit and denied by their parents are painful, they have experienced a dark childhood, so it is even more important to know how to adjust their mentality after being scolded by their parents, so that they can repair their childhood trauma, grow from the trauma, and become a better version of themselves.