What do parents do when their children lie?

I don't know when that innocent child started lying. Definitely hungry. In order to play with toys not hungry, not hungry.

Obviously in good spirits, but pretending to have a stomachache and a toothache, crying and shouting not to go to kindergarten. It's not my business that I threw the toys all over the place, but I lied that other children did it. Parents will wonder if such a young child starts lying from an early age, and that can grow up.

When children are most likely to lie when smart parents do this, children unconsciously "lie".

This usually happens to children in the 0-3 years old stage, and strictly speaking, this cannot be a "lie". At this stage, the child's cognitive ability is in the stage of developing from purposeless memory to purposeful memory. As a result, many things are not clear about the children's own memories.

On the other hand, children of this age have a weak and unstable understanding of time, space, sequence, etc. That is, they sometimes understand, and if they change to something else, they may not understand again. Specifically, first of all, it's about what happened, what happened in **, who acted on what.

At the same time, they will have a lot of different imaginations in their heads, and the distinction between imagination and reality may sometimes be less stable or mixed.

When we go to verify the specific process of what happened to the children, he may cause the so-called "lies" that we adults see, because the memory is not clear. It is also important to note that the language development of children at this age is much less than that of adults. So when they put it into words, it's either not clear, or we can be misinterpreted as a child's "lie".

Of course, this can also happen to children over the age of 3. That is, their perception of things is inconsistent with their parents or with objective facts. But they don't know what they know is wrong or untrue.

For example, we sometimes ask our children to complete certain tasks, but our standards for completing this work may be different from those of our children.

The child thinks he's done, but we don't think he's done. We may think that he is lying, but in fact, the child himself is not consciously deceiving us. Solution, children under 3 years old, parents encounter this situation and cannot first reprimand the child with morality.

Because at this time they do not have a good understanding of morality. Because complex feelings such as shame and guilt have not developed well, they cannot be experienced. At the same time, this strong emotional response from parents can make them feel fear and fear.

What parents should do is to communicate with their children and then understand why they lie like this, so as to avoid the children from slowly forming a bad habit in the process, which is not good for the child's development.

When children lie, parents can ask them in a tactful way if they are lying, and then they can tell them that lying is not good and should let children admit their mistakes in time.

When a child lies, what parents need to do is to criticize and educate the child so that he can realize the harm.

Parents should point out their children's mistakes, show that they are not doing so, and let them correct them.

At this time, we can use encouragement to let the child admit that he lied, we can say to the child like this, the baby's mother knows that you are a good child, you never lie, so the mother believes that you will tell the truth to the mother, right? As long as you talk to your child in a very gentle tone, your child will definitely tell you what he really thinks, and it will also help your child develop a good habit of not lying, and it will also improve communication between parents and children.

When a child lies, parents must first understand why the child is lying. At the same time, be sure to punish strictly. Telling him to lie is wrong, so there is a certain punishment. If you are honest, if you do something wrong, you will sometimes get a certain amount of praise.

Parents at this time. We must educate our children strictly, give them severe punishments, and let them know that lying is punishable, and that children cannot be shielded, and that children develop the habit of lying, and it is difficult to change them again in their lives.

1.Fear of punishment.

Fear of punishment is an important reason why most people choose to lie, and it is also a child's instinctive self-preservation. In this case, parents should reflect on whether they have severely punished their child for making mistakes. After all, everyone makes mistakes sometimes, parents should not be too harsh, if children can grow up in a relatively inclusive family environment, it is easier to develop a sense of responsibility to bear mistakes.

2.Talking nonsense for a certain purposeSometimes the child does not have a very clear intention to lie, but only to achieve a certain goal. For example, parents tell their children that the children who eat all the food are the most well-behaved and sensible, but the children secretly throw away part of the rice just to get praise from their parents.

In view of this situation, it is recommended that parents usually encourage and praise their children's efforts, rather than the results of their efforts.

3.If children find out that their parents are openly lying, they will feel that lying is not a serious matter, so the role of parents is also very important. When parents find out that their child is lying but refuses to admit it, stop interrogating him step by step, which will only make the child find a way to make up more elaborate lies.

Secondly, when parents expose their children's lies, do not blindly accuse him or ask him why he is lying, the best thing to do is to tell children that you do not need to lie, because you have the ability to bear mistakes, and your parents' love for you will not change because you have done something wrong. It's inevitable that children will lie. But you have to tell your child what lies you can't tell, especially if you learn to be honest with yourself.

When children grow up, they begin to have their own secrets, and lying is a phenomenon that every child has. So there's no need to rush. You yourself have to find out your child's motivation for doing so first.

After that, tell your child whether to tell the truth or be exposed, to be honest, but relatively, which lies are not allowed to be there and what things are not allowed to lie, you have to tell your child.

Parents should stop their children from behaving like this, which is a bad behavior, and they should also be allowed to develop honest and trustworthy practices, and they must be honest when they encounter things, and they must not lie.

When parents find out that their child is lying, they need to correct their child's behavior in time. Tell your child that they should be honest. Cultivate children's integrity from an early age.

When the child lies, what the parents should do is to educate the child more patiently, and the parents should still give the child a more accurate guidance.

The child's behavior should be corrected immediately, and the child should be aware of the consequences, and the child should also establish a correct value and a correct way of behaving.

Parents should tell their children that they should not do this, and that they should speak up about anything they encounter, because this is not the right way.

We have to tell the child softly that lying is very bad, and we can also tell her the story of Pinocchio, in addition, we must tell the child that the courage to take responsibility and admit mistakes is a good child, and a lying child, when one day this lie is exposed by others, others will no longer trust him, and there will be no good friends.

If the child lies, parents must communicate with the child sincerely. And don't label your child casually, be sure to lead by example when doing things. It's not a bad thing for a child to lie, because lying is a manifestation of human nature.

Lying shows that the child has his own thoughts and judgments, and is one step closer to growing up. Children lie for fear of being punished by their parents, and sometimes they can't tell the difference between reality and imagination, so in between, children will lie.

In the face of lying, the family must cooperate with the child as much as possible to satisfy the child's desire to perform. At the same time, it can also guide the child to the positive side, some parents are particularly strict, as long as the child behaves well, they will meet all the needs of the child. If the requirements are not met, the child will be reprimanded or even punished.

Children lie in order to please their parents, and the children themselves are imitating their parents to do things. Sometimes a parent's lie will cause the child to keep it in mind, and some parents are particularly strict, and after the child makes a mistake, they will punish the child to remember the lesson, and do not pay attention to the child's heart. This kind of education can put children under pressure and then compromise, and it will be difficult for them to recognize their mistakes.

Don't call your child ** or a liar because of a few lies, this kind of label is offensive to the child, and it will also strengthen the child's desire to lie.

Because the child will think that since you have already said that I am a liar, then I will sit back on your words. If you want your child to be honest and trustworthy, then parents must be such a person to be able to let their child be such a person. Children's careers are already very small, and they will learn how adults do.

If parents often say a lot, the child will feel that this is right, so when facing the child, parents must learn to be cautious in words and deeds.

If you are in front of the public, depending on the situation, sometimes you still have to give the child face, but in private you must explain it clearly to the child, the child cannot lie, you can tell the story of the wolf to the child, so that the child can experience the importance of integrity.

Parents must criticize their children, and when they lie, parents need to expose their children's lies and make them face their mistakes.

It is very wrong for a child to lie, and if parents find out that their child is lying, they should criticize and educate them. Correct your child's values. Otherwise, it will go astray.

Parents should stop their children as soon as possible, and should not let their children continue to lie, otherwise they will harm their children, and they should also tell their children that they should change this shortcoming in life.

Adults must stop it immediately, and tell children that lying is not correct, and if you keep lying, adults will no longer believe you.

As a parent, you should tell your child that this practice is very incorrect, which will affect the child's three views, will also affect the child's future life, and will also make the child's friends very few.

Parents should understand their children's mentality, grasp the reasons why their children lie, educate them through storytelling, and tell their children about the disadvantages of lying.

Children are often excusable for lying, but lying is never an act that can be harassed, parents should explain to their children that lying is not an appropriate way to meet their needs, and if there is any need in the future, they can tell their parents directly, rather than lying for too much purpose.

Treat your child's intentional lies and carefully analyze the reasons. In daily life, parents often make promises in order to induce their children, and forget afterwards, the child's hopes are disappointed, and they find that their parents are deceiving themselves, and their parents are also lying, so the children will get some incorrect "experiences" from it. Therefore, when dealing with children's intentional lying, we should carefully analyze the reasons and treat them differently according to the specific situation.

The famous story "Pinocchio", you have to tell your children that children who don't lie will be liked, and children who lie won't, no one knows the truth at first, and then others won't trust you.

We need to guide it correctly, try to guide it out, let him say it himself, he said it today, if he doesn't admit it himself, we parents should clearly point it out and tell him that it is not right.

I think parents can tell their children that it's not right to do this, and if you do it again, I won't like you.

When the child lies, he should be disciplined in the corner of his parents' eyes, and Yancheng must let him develop the habit of lying?

I've learned a story about Franklin when he was a kid, and it's about lying.

When a child lies, parents can show the story to the child first.

After the child has finished reading it, the parents and children share their thoughts after reading the article, and the child knows that it is wrong to lie.