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It depends! Good friends are also divided into situations. For example, my high school friends only see each other every year during the Chinese New Year, of course, sometimes they will meet during the holidays, but they rarely communicate, and when it comes to the New Year, they still have a good relationship.
Of course, there are also some friends who don't contact each other for too long, and their feelings will fade. If it helps you, hope!
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Some friends will be like this, those people are not like confidants, no matter how good they are when they are children, they will be strange when they grow up, but some friends although they have been together for a short time, but they are very cordial when they meet, and there are some feelings and friends that will be lost as we grow up, so we don't have to maintain it specifically, let it be, feelings are like sand, and the more you want to catch them, the faster you may slip away.
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It depends on what kind of friend it is, if it's a good friend, it won't affect it, if it's an ordinary friend, I'm not sure, but I still often contact my friends, so that I can enhance my feelings.
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I think so, because I have a friend like that, we haven't been in touch for a year and we haven't been in touch much, and when we go back, the relationship fades.
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Since you have chosen love, you must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him when he (she) is happy, happy together, and comfort him (her) when he is sad. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. Loving someone wants him (her) to be happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.
Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, an unfading token....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. Believe that if you only have love, happiness will definitely exist
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Are you sincere enough with your friends? Are they really your best friends?
Choose your future with the most mature mindset.
Real friends, ordinary friends.
An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. A true friend has the shoulders to make your tears water.
An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names. A real friend has their** on the address book.
An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning.
An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps. A true friend will ask why it's only called now.
An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.
An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out.
An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest. A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.
An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.
An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever!
When you want others to see you as a true friend, you have to do it yourself! See if you treat them as good friends as you say above! If you do, they don't think of you as a good friend! Then such a friend is not worth making!
You can meet new people on the go! After all, there are still good friends in the world who can find the right one for themselves!
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I have a deep understanding of this, and Fa Xiao has known each other since childhood, but then he dropped out of school, I also went to high school and college, and the time to contact him is getting less and less, at first we will still talk and laugh when we meet, but then there will be less tacit understanding, the memory of the past joy is getting shallower and shallow, and the feelings will slowly fade away, after all, people are going forward, I think this is the trend of time. But we still had a deep friendship.
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If there is less contact for a long time, there will be less communication and understanding, less topics and common language, and the two sides will become unaware of what to talk about, or even have nothing to talk about, and the feelings will fade.
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Because if they don't keep in touch for a long time, they will have a lot less common topics between them, and they will be slowly replaced by other friends, so that the natural relationship will fade.
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Because feelings are like blooming flowers. If you don't defend him, he will naturally wither, and only good friends who are in constant contact will. The more you go, the better.
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You didn't keep it anymore, and I didn't look back, just like that, no wind, no rain or sunshine, and it ended without illness.
On the day when the flowers bloom again, will there be a time for people to reunite?
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I think all relationships need to be maintained, and only you have enough nourishment for a family. Feelings can grow and grow stronger, otherwise they will wither.
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This is an inevitable phenomenon. Everyone has their own trajectory in life. Maybe they will break up while walking, but the person must accept this breakup. There is no feast in the world that will not be dissolved. Especially for friendship, it can't be forced. The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water.
There are different opinions on this topic about how feelings are diluted. I think the reason for the weakening of feelings between friends is not that there is little contact, but that the distance between two people is long. There are always such friends in life.
Disappear around us unconsciously. You wouldn't even think of contacting him. But the strange thing is that the other party has not contacted you either, which is embarrassing.
So whether it's a matter of face or other reasons, we don't want to take the initiative to contact this person anymore. It's a bit awkward to meet for a long time. It can only be said that they are not real friends.
I think true friends can withstand the storm. I haven't been in touch for 10 years, and I'm still an old friend after we met. That's what a true friend is.
This friendship can withstand big waves and sand.
For example, we always remember one or two friends who have not been in touch for many years, but the feelings for this friend will not fade at all. Maybe this person was our playmate when we were kids, maybe he was a neighbor's child. This feeling is the purest and can withstand the baptism of time.
I believe that true friendships are not diluted by time.
There are many kinds of friends. Some of my friends are general friends. You can say a few polite words when you meet, but if you don't see each other for a long time, you don't have to contact each other.
But some friends are important. It's the kind of person we can't give up in our lives. It doesn't take long for such friends to connect with old friends.
My view is that the connections between friends don't have to be blurred, at the very least. Friends who have little contact and weakened feelings can never be said to be true friends.
Although when we grow up, we all enter the society and strive for our future lives, but if you don't maintain your friendship well, then you will get together again in the future, after all, friendship is also time-limited.
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I very much agree, because even if two people are good friends, they need to share their lives, so that they can have common topics, otherwise the two people will slowly become strangers.
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Identity. I didn't talk to a lot of my friends anymore, so they didn't talk to me anymore, and I didn't talk to them anymore.
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In fact, I agree with this sentence, because many people's words, they are not in touch, and the feelings will really fade in the future.
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1. Those who think this way are generally students, who think that friendship is important when they are young, and that love is important when they grow up, brothers are like siblings, and women are like clothes, which will definitely not fade away.
Only communication between people will make you have different emotions, if there is a lack of communication between people, then, your relationship will naturally stagnate. Therefore, when you and your former friends do not have any communication and intersection, the key will be stagnation, and the freezing effect will naturally be formed. Although some people may feel that your relationship has weakened or deteriorated because of a long period of non-contact, for most once good relationships, whether you are away or in the middle of the day, the relationship will not change after all, I am still here when you come, and I am still here when you leave.
This feeling is as if no matter how much time passes, I am still me, and the feeling and memory of you will never change because of life, so it will not change because of time or no intersection. Or that's what we call "winemaking", which only gets mellower with time.
2. I didn't contact it, so I treasured it. Topics between people often need to be accompanied by intersections to generate topics. If there is no intersection, then in the case of chatting, Wu Kai will easily have a situation where the bull's head is not the same as the horse's mouth, and he doesn't know what to talk about to resonate with the other party, and he doesn't know how to share his emotions.
Therefore, when two people have no intersection and no topic, it is easy to cherish this relationship in their hearts. Maybe you need to wait until one day when you intersect with each other again, you will take out this relationship and recall the beautiful past of Lu Zidi.
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In my life, I have friends who have known each other for a long time, but now I don't often have contacts, and I will occasionally contact them, but such contacts are becoming less and less, and there may not be a contact once a year or two, so I think most people are the same as me, there are people who know, but friendship is no longer there, each has its own life, if there is no intersection with each other, there is no value, there may be less and less contact, or between real friends, there is never a need to stick together all the time, It doesn't have to be something to do together before you talk about it. It's that when you're proud, she's happy for you from the bottom of her heart. You fall, and she's the first to run and help you up.
You admire her from the bottom of your heart, and she is also sincere to you and never pretends. You support each other's decisions, and even if they are wrong, you have to accompany each other to complete them. Lovers may be replaced, playmates may change at any time, but you know that there is one person who no one can replace.
When I'm tired of everything, I think of you. The thought that you are living and existing somewhere in the world makes me willing to endure everything. Your presence is important to me.
Good friends are getting fewer, but good friends are getting better and better. So in my impression, I can have friends who have known each other for seven years, and there is no broken contact, but friendship can't be talked about, and it's impossible to be together every day, so I think the feelings between friends can only be said to know each other, not friendship, because people are getting farther and farther away now, and most people are in this situation, and the vast majority of friendships are time-sensitive and phased. I used to have a lot of good friends in junior high school, high school, and college, and I had a lot of unforgettable good times together, and I used to talk about everything, encourage each other, and play tricks on each other, and I felt that I would always be good friends with each other.
The friendship of the student days, really sincere and simple, makes people very nostalgic, most of the people who know after leaving the society, they only know because of the work relationship, most of them are nodding friends, drinking and eating at the workplace, talking about cooperation, polite to each other, but there are a few friends who can be called deep friends. Land slippery.
But many of the very good friends when they were students rarely saw each other after graduation and separation, and even a large number of them never saw each other again.
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Summary. Hello dear, I'm happy to answer for you, the reason why the relationship between friends is getting weaker and weaker: the estrangement of friends is because they look down on the world, and it is boring and boring to interact with friends.
Why is the relationship between friends getting weaker and weaker.
Hello dear, I'm happy to answer for you, the reason why the relationship between friends is getting weaker and weaker: the estrangement of friends is because they look down on the world, and it is boring and boring to interact with friends.
Friendships may seem strong, but they are actually illusions, and they are so fragile that if you don't continue to operate, your friendships will drift apart. The more people grow, the more mature they will be, the more they will focus on the family, and they will spend more spare time and more spare time on the family in their daily life, so as to enrich the life of the family.
She just said I was going to make her heart attack.
What is the reason for it, dear.
What's going on?
I once didn't want to get her something, and she insisted on letting me take it, so I tried to find a way to hang it on her hand.
Dear, is it because the other party can't take it and let you help her get it?
At that time, we went to do the laundry, we both took a lot of things, a lot, she used my laundry detergent and asked me to put it in a clothes bag (which was dirty clothes), but I was not happy, I didn't want to take it and put it in the clothes bag, dear, because of this thing the other party is angry.
How long have you been together?
It's been 3 years. How do you usually treat each other?
What about the other party?
The two of us quarrel once a week over trivial matters, and we are sometimes hot and cold together.
Who took the initiative first after the quarrel?
I take the initiative. Are you taking the initiative every time, or are you the ones most of the time?
What kind of attitude does the other party have?
I hope you can take a step back to look at the problem no matter what happens, if you always think of yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter, and you will never see the solution to the problem, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, if you can take a break from your story and sit in the audience to watch your own story, I think you will be able to understand more things! You must also know what you should do now. In fact, love is a kind of fate that does not clean up more chaotic, in your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best, other people's answers can only be used as a reference for you, the final decision is still your own decision, you must not take other people's answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who will know your own things better than you? >>>More
I think it's like this, no matter how good the relationship is, if you don't contact you often, after a long time, everyone will become dispensable. In this life, we have had many friends around us, some of whom can accompany you for more than ten years or decades, some may just be friends at a certain stage, and some are even one-sided. At the fork in the road, we laughed at each other and told each other that the future was long, but we forgot to ask when we could get together. >>>More
No, it's just that after giving birth to a baby, I have to take care of the baby and don't have time to care about my husband, so I usually have to care more about my husband, after all, my husband is also very hard to work outside.
No, if you really will, it proves that your relationship is not deep and not hard If you really love each other, no matter how far away you are, you will be in each other's hearts, and you both feel that it is the closest and happiest ......
No, they have common interests, hobbies, abilities, ideals, values, they appreciate each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, support each other, be honest, affectionate and righteous, tolerate each other and have no exclusivity, this is a real friend, a real friend will not lie to you! Beg.