How to manage an unfair love?

If you really love, just endure it, but if you want me to say that I have lived in the world for decades, why bother? Wouldn't it be nice to make yourself happier? Why do you always let yourself be so wronged?

I don't have the same point of view as the one upstairs, he said a big truth, I think people can do it really don't care about the impossible, don't lie to yourself.

Love don't care too much about fairness or unfairness, what can be absolutely fair in the world, since you love, you pay, in fact, it is the harvest. Also, your questions are too monotonous to be understood. If you want to manage such a love, you should learn not to care.

Life is a hard journey, we need to trek, can be with you, through the wind and rain, can only be one. Maybe you have an unforgettable love before joining hands, such a marriage should be cherished, both men and women should always have a sincere, gentle, grateful heart, and each other to work together in the family and career, share joy and success, and bear difficulties and misfortunes together; Maybe you are in a loveless marriage, or even a wrong marriage, but since you have finally chosen each other, you have the responsibility and obligation to bear the pain, loneliness and loss that it brings. We should always accept each other with a tolerant, trusting, and understanding heart, think more about each other's benefits and advantages, take on more family responsibilities, and do not say goodbye easily until absolutely necessary.

With the passage of time, when you come to the twilight of your gray hair, you suddenly look back, it turns out that human marriage is in the process of tolerance, understanding and shared responsibility to achieve a happy ending, showing your shoulders to bear for each other.

However, what you need to realize is that there will be no smooth road in love, love only has ups and downs, only tribulations, and then it is still flat, and then it can be happy. Only by sharing weal and woe can we recess to the existence of each other and the needs of each other.

To love someone is to love his or her shortcomings, strengths, love everything he or she has, and also learn to tolerate and understand each other; Stretching out your hands to have each other, it should be that while owning each other, you should work together with each other to cultivate your family and career, share joy and success, bear difficulties and misfortunes together, and tide over the wind and rain together. In this way, the love between the two parties will last for a long time.

Personally, I feel that I can't maintain the so-called fairness in the face of love. There is no right or wrong, right and wrong in the world of feelings. Each person's position is different, each person's pursuit is different, men and women think differently, their views on love, etc., each saying its own word, and it is impossible to maintain fairness.

Why?

1. Both boys and girls will think that it is unfair, they will suffer a loss, and the other party will take advantage. If you don't know the truth of giving, love can't maintain the so-called fairness.

2. Boys think rationally, girls think emotionally. The method of dealing with the problem, the boy pursues the result, and the girl pursues the process. Just like life travel, boys care about the destination, while girls care about the scenery along the way and the mood of seeing the scenery.

Girls pursue a touch of romance. Ask for boys. More time to spend with and reward financially.

Boys expect women to be caring, gentle and considerate, and empathetic.

3. Boys take the initiative to love and accommodate girls in order to gain the favor of girls. Girls have delicate feelings, and their material desires and emotional companionship are much greater than those of boys. I hope to be pampered and doted on by boys, and the sweeter the feeling.

4. Human nature is selfish, forcing others in their own hearts and cultivating themselves in the hearts of others. Afraid of losing, always want to take advantage. How can love be fair?

5. There is no fairness in love, only patience and tolerance. Be willing to give and not ask for anything in return. If you want to keep love fair, you have to pretend to be rock rock and change yourself, change your words and deeds with each other's preferences and habits, and change your personality and some habits in getting along.

The palace has changed, wanting to impress the loved one, cherish the loved one, and get the blessing of the beloved. Only in the face of love can the so-called fairness be maintained.