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Don't change this obscurity, otherwise it's not good for anyone.
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Are you doing something wrong.
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Although it is a relatively embarrassing thing to talk about your previous relationship with your new partner, I personally think that in the process of dating, if your other half asks me about this aspect, it is more correct to confess my love history to the other party, and the reason why I say this is mainly based on the following factors.
First of all, one of the most important prerequisites for couples to be together is mutual trust and mutual respect between each other, if you hide your love history from your other half, then it is obvious that there is a lack of respect and trust for each other, which will only make the other party have a very bad impression of themselves, and may even lead to the interruption of the relationship between two people, so in the process of dating, we should still be sincere enough, since the other party asked this question, You should be honest and clear to the other party, of course, the other party did not ask yourself this question, and there is no need to deliberately say it to the other party, so as not to make the other party feel that he still misses his former lover.
On the other hand, in the process of dating, confessing his love history to the other party is also showing his attitude to a certain extent, indicating that he has completely let go of himself for the relationship he once had, and this is also to give the other party a reassurance, so that the other party can really trust himself in his heart, and more importantly, it is also a foreshadowing for the two people to get along in the future and avoid conflicts in the process of communication. The other party can ask about their previous love history, and it can also show that the other party cares about themselves very much, which is also a good thing for themselves.
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If a girl takes the initiative to tell you about her past relationship experience, it means that he himself is honest with you first, and he also hopes that you can be honest with her, which means that the two of you can continue to communicate with each other, because two people are honest, and the ultimate goal is to save the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, so she has treated you with her most sincere heart, see if you will be equally honest with her?
I didn't know anything about this when I was a student, but there was a female classmate who often chatted with me, and confessed what kind of boy he had liked in the past, and what kind of ending ended in the end, I just listened to the story at the time, and I didn't go to my heart at all, but every time he told me the story, he would ask me, what kind of girlfriend should you find for a person like you, and then I realized that the reason why he talked to me about his past emotional experience, completely, just want to understand my emotional experience, to see if it is possible for the two of us to develop into a couple? After all, emotions are mutual things, people are honest with you, and you must also be sincere to others, so that the two sides can reach a tacit consensus.
It can be seen that a girl took the initiative to tell you that her previous relationship experience was premature, indicating that she already had a love for you.
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The past is the past, you can't say it too clearly, in fact, she knows that you have a past, but you can't tell the truth, slowly she won't pursue it, and you don't want to ask about her past, after all, this is not good for you.
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Keep these things hidden. When you're old, it's good to talk about it!
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She doesn't ask, you don't tell. If she asks, you pick the good and say. You get the idea.
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Some things are tacit.
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It's hard to say. One is the conservative type of woman, which can also be called the traditional type. The other is a part of the perfect type.
Men who have no emotional experience are mostly women's favorite types at first. But after getting along, there will be a lot of breakups, because most of these men are old-fashioned and not tactful enough.
Take your time, don't worry about this kind of girl Since you have a good relationship, she has a good impression of you and has fun!Come on, act on the opportunity, anyway, only you know her situation and know when to make a move. Love has to be spoken, be brave!
Brother, be ready to be a substitute, it doesn't taste good to be a substitute, really, if you have time to talk to him and ask him if he loves you or if he is ready to use you as a substitute, or ask if you love me, if you don't love it, then buddy, you don't ink, just look for a good one.
This question of yours is really difficult, maybe only the girl knows, the key depends on whether she feels that way about you. If she likes you, then maybe she has an inferiority complex about her past and wants to know what you think of her past so that she can make sure that you are acceptable to her. Anyway, if you like her and don't mind her past, then treat her well, and if she can say that to you, it means that you have a chance.
She's testing your patience to see if you can really accept her temper, personality, hobbies, ......At the same time, she is also thinking about whether she can accept you, whether she can get along for a long time——— be patient, brother! If you can't rush it, it's not the best if you can't rush it!
Summary. I shouldn't like it, because the three views are inconsistent. >>>More