Chase a girl. She s not mature enough to be idle, steady... What is the definition of maturity?

has connotation, has a bearing, will hurt people, and can understand girls.

Hey, in fact, turnip and cabbage have their own love.

Maturity is not something that can be changed overnight, it is something that has been experienced over a long period of time.

Different ideas, different definitions.

It depends on what the definition of that girl is.

If a person is immature in his heart, he will not be mature no matter how he looks at it.

Tell her to fuck off Why are you looking for her when she is mature, mature men normally don't care much about feelings.

Maturity is the so-called embodiment of your words and deeds, first of all, there is a strong heart, and big men are more mature, because most girls like to have a sense of maturity, and maturity is not just to say that it has to be reflected in life

Find someone to fall in love with first, if you can stay for half a year, it proves that you are a little more mature, and then you still want to find her?

Get on the bus first and make up the ticket later, behind the success is either vicissitudes or dirty.

It's easy to make a promise in front of a woman.

A truly mature man will never easily make a promise in front of a woman, but as long as it is a promise he makes, no matter how difficult it is afterwards, he will work hard to achieve it, because mature men know that dishonesty in others is irresponsible for themselves. Any man who likes to make promises in front of women, and forget everything in a blink of an eye, really seems very ignorant, no one is a fool, once, twice, after a long time, they will no longer believe in you, and even be directly pulled into the unreliable blacklist by women.

Fourth, you can't control your emotions.

Mature men never lose their tempers, only immature men will let their tempers control themselves. Wasn't there a popular phrase on the Internet before? Tantrums are an instinct, and being able to control this instinct is the ability.

Mature men know how to forbear, can bend and stretch, and will not lose their temper with their closest family members, and only ignorant men will deliberately vent their own family members, the most typical proof is to be a grandson outside and an uncle at home.

Since he can find fault with you, it means that you really have a problem, and you need to experience and mature. If you have experienced more, you will grow up naturally, and don't spend time on children's love in the struggling grades. Work hard, boy, and you'll meet better ones when you mature.

Mature men will become gentle. If a man becomes more and more indifferent, has no enthusiasm for anything, has no enthusiasm for the people around him, always looks indifferent and cool, you think that you have become mature and downplayed, but in fact you are not, a person's growth is full of becoming gentle, gentle to the whole world. This kind of man is what makes people feel that you are a mature and attractive man.

Hello, there is no single criterion for what a mature man looks like. But I think the girl you are chasing is talking about ideological maturity, such as usually thinking about problems from the overall situation, what is the purpose of you chasing her? Is it for love or for marriage.

Where to buy a house if you get married?

Like, it's two people's thing with each other, and if you are rejected, I want you to say three words to yourself: it's okay. Because, your love has been expressed to the person you like. No matter what happens in the end, doing your best is the best outcome.

A mature man should be physically mature, mentally mature, and career-mature. This should have the accumulation of age, the older you will have, the more experience, the thinking will appear mature, and the career will mature after hard work. So after a certain age, men will mature, and there is no need to be in a hurry to become mature, but when you chase girls, you have to show the confidence of boys.

Feelings are a matter of two people, if you really like her, try to change yourself. Let yourself become a good man with self-confidence, responsibility, and a sense of responsibility.

This thing is really subjective! If a girl likes you, she thinks handsome even if you take drugs, and if she doesn't feel good for you, even if you are a rich second generation, she can say a bunch of excuses that don't like you!

Mature men, in front of girls, one must be sophisticated, two to what questions, to think twice before answering, in front of girls, do not behave too lightly, the girl's reminder shows that she cares about you, to work hard to do well, will become a mature man.

Then be a little more mature and think a little more. Don't think too simply.

How old is she Is your family very rich How can you not endure hardships Men have to endure a little hardship before they know how to cherish their family and cherish their lovers in the future Do you want to work or study These are not explained and cannot be answered further.

Mature or immature, first of all, it is manifested in the first feeling of clothing, it is recommended to start from the clothing aspect first, to see what style she thinks mature men are dressing, your purpose is to know what her so-called maturity is like; Secondly, maturity is manifested in speaking, the organization of language, whether it is organized, or is it as inorganized as a child when he speaks, he can say whatever he wants, and it is suggested that speaking can be divided into several points, which makes people feel ordered, as if they have been thought; Third, maturity is manifested in the aspect of dealing with the world, and whether the perspective of considering problems is comprehensive or one-sided.

There is no quick fix for this, only through your own experience to make you gradually mature and stable.

In fact, maturity and stability do not depend on hardship, it is a process, an experience; This takes time to slowly experience, in fact, your maturity and stability is shown through your behavior, when you want to confess to this girl, or pursue her, you have to reflect on whether your own behavior hurts this girl, maybe from your own point of view, you think it makes sense, but when you stand in the other party's point of view, maybe you are wrong, so learn to empathize, I wish you success.

Why do I think the girl you said is more suitable for me to like an older uncle like me?

Truth be told, he probably doesn't like you! If I really like you, she likes what you are... If you're not interested, he won't like you even if you become an uncle like me!!

Friends, don't worry about the road ahead! There are still a lot of good girls.。。 If it doesn't work, change your goal!

There is a person who admires the female writer Yang Jiang very much. When he was about to graduate from high school, he wrote a long letter to Yang Jiang, expressing his admiration for him and some of his life puzzles. Yang Jiang replied, pale yellow vertical row of red checkered letter paper, brush words.

In addition to greetings and some sentences of encouragement to the younger generation, Yang Jiang actually wrote only one sentence in the letter, which was sincere and unpolite: "Your problem is mainly that you don't read much and think too much." I still think this is the most succinct and simple summary of the mental distress of most people, including you and me.

Similar to my current situation, as long as you don't get into a fight, you can hit ** occasionally to prove that you still love her, not too often.

In fact, what is mature and steady. Just a casual word. Don't care, in fact, as long as the economic ability is average, it is almost the same as being good and sincere to her. Don't care about that maturity and stability.

Be assertive with her, speak logically, and be sensible

I also like one that's four years younger than me. But don't like me. You should go with the flow.

Slowly learn to mature, and see more about how others do it.

This kind of thing can't wait for it to go straight to the point.

If you really like it, you will become mature.

First of all, have confidence in your demeanor, don't blindly chase girls you can't chase, look at yourself, whether the conditions are comparable, you don't look good, you have to chase beautiful women, is it possible? Hit yourself in this way,

You can give it a try and see how she reacts to you.

Anything you want to try, maybe he likes you too.

Carina Lau once said: Men will never mature, they will only get old. The so-called maturity is just a lot of pressure on the shoulders, which makes people not have so much heart to live freely.

Mature, depending on how to understand it, if there has always been a disagreement on this point, then the advice is not to decide to get married too easily.

People will grow up slowly, you have to learn to empathize, you can take care of her, protect her. Try harder.

Sooner or later, it will become mature and steady, and it is a matter of time.

Learn to be mature, you don't feel safe.

You give her the utmost sincerity! Take it back to your parents!

Chase. Maybe you'll be with her. But it depends on her temperament.

There are really some girls who care about the age gap. I always feel safer to find a boy older than me as a boyfriend. So you have to show your mature and steady side.

Give her a little more security. Got it!

You first decide if your liking is impulsive or if you really want to go with her forever! If you can't give her what she wants, don't mess with her! Think about whether you can do it.

Then continue the brave pursuit.

Things are man-made, and it mainly depends on how she sees the way you do things.

It's too much like me before, I'm like this, if I like it, I try to chase it and don't give up.

The sense of security lies in your words, deeds, and manners! You look, dress, speak. all aspects of the surface. Or maybe it's a kind of excuse for her to break up! But it's also possible that your love life isn't enough to meet her needs!