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Kindness. Then you'll see for yourself.
Why don't you ask your family to get engaged and discuss it.
It's useless for you to go alone, it only intensifies.
Or just wait that year for his family to see your ability to live and the faith of love.
I remember a boy who said to a heavenly hour.
The key is not my heart.
It's what I do.
Good luck to you, God testifys.
As long as you are by my side, I can do anything, even if you are strong, I will give you happiness .
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Why the weak? You also said that she has her own strengths, so she can see your needs, but she can't accept it now. No matter what God does, work your own and conquer everything with practice.
Moreover, it is important to think about yourself, think about her, think about her father, no one should be beaten to death with a stick. Moreover, the expectation of happiness is everyone's only hope, but this wait may be very long, and some people may pay for a lifetime. You can't be impatient about this kind of thing.
I hope you and your lover can be happy like every sweet couple, not necessarily for a lifetime, but have the best time together.
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Bless you and bless her.
Since you love her so much, I hope you can be more considerate of her in your future life, read your description, she is a person with strong self-esteem, such a person will be easy to hurt others in life, maybe you can't fully understand it now, or you can tolerate it because of love, I hope you can persevere, this kind of girl, it is difficult to turn back after paying, I hope you cherish it.
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?I don't understand, can you be more detailed? What did you do, how did you bully the weak.
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I hope you can fulfill your promise.
Love you well and be a woman worthy of your love.
Bless you all.
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I don't really understand what the problem is.
But men should love their women.
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How to say, I wish you a lover to become a family member, and you must work hard for the future. The reality is actually cruel, and I hope you can be as strong as her.
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All right. I bless you.
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Every pair of lovers has an extraordinary experience, as long as the other party is worthy of love, cherish it! Love doesn't have to be vigorous, plain is true!
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Just follow what you have in your heart.
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Everything is fate, no matter what, you must be worthy of your own heart and worthy of her.
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It's unbearable, there's no need to endure it.
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Definitely not. The weak should not be bullied, but the weak often swallow their anger after being bullied, thus making the bad guys feel that you are easy to bully.
The strong will also be bullied, but the strong will fight back forcefully after being bullied, making the bad guy pay the price, so that he will not dare to bully him again.
So, when you are bullied, be sure to show your muscles, show your attitude, and concentrate all your resources and strength to fight back. You only need to win once, you will give yourself great confidence, and it will also give a strong deterrent to the bad guys.
Powerful people are also bullied, but they will fight back when they are bullied, and the power of the counterattack is terrible.
Weak people are often bullied, one is because of their cowardly attitude, submissiveness, and constant concessions, which makes people think that you are easy to bully. When you are bullied, you never fight back, never retaliate, and make the opponent feel that there is no price for bullying the weak, or the price is very low, then he wants to bully you to find a sense of existence to prove himself.
If you fight back when you are being bullied, shout "Believe it or not, push me into a hurry, I can do anything!" Or mobilize all the resources and forces around you to take revenge on the person who bullied you, and see if he dares to bully you next time.
So, see it, no matter if you are weak or strong, when you are bullied, you must first show your attitude: no matter what the price is, I must fight back, and I must pay the price for bullying. Your heroic attitude will make your opponents afraid, weigh their own actions, and thus change their behavior.
Note that the bad guys themselves will not get better, all we can do is show our muscles, rush forward, and let the opponent know that you will repay you, and you will pay a terrible price for provoking you, even if the two defeats will hurt the quarrel.
Whether you are weak or strong, when you are treated unfairly and bullied, your attitude is very important and will protect you from being bullied.
There are many things in the world, the two strong meet the brave wins, whether it is true or not, you must convince the opponent that you are really brave, in order to avoid becoming a loser, even if it is possible that everyone will end up in pieces if they miscalculate together.
So, got it, you need to show your muscles, show your fangs, and let your opponent know that there is a price to be paid for bullying you and hurting you. When the opponent weighs the pros and cons, he will not dare to act rashly.
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I don't agree with that
The idea that the weak deserve to be bullied is wrong, and we cannot bully anyone, nor can we be bullied by anyone.
Kindness must have a ruler, and forbearance must be measured.
As the saying goes, people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. If a person is always kind without a bottom line, he will naturally be pinched around as a "soft persimmon".
People live, don't always believe that patience is calm for a while, endure the calm in the end, unscrupulous but come, we can be roses, but we can't be without thorns.
The writer Sanmao once told his story in the book.
When Sanmao was young, her family instilled in her the idea of being kind. Under the influence of her parents' education, she has always believed that kind people are not deceived by heaven, and people are not bullied.
If you want to study abroad, Sanmao has always felt that his thoughts are right, all people are worthy of love and warmth, and all people are worth tolerating.
Under the influence of this kind of thinking, Sanmao is kind to others everywhere, she helps her roommates fetch water, make beds, and clean up in the dormitory, and she thinks that her kindness will get the same feedback from others.
I never thought that my roommate would take her help for granted, or even treat her as a nanny who could be called at any time, not only that, but her roommates would use her things casually, without considering her feelings at all.
Finally, Sanmao couldn't help it, and in front of a dispute with her roommate, she broke out completely, and her actions surprised her roommate and made her respected.
Sanmao wrote in "West Wind Doesn't Know Faces":
If kindness is just blindly giving, then this kindness, I'd rather not. ”
The world is too hot and cold, and people's hearts are as ruthless as wolves. In this world, if you are kind without a bottom line, the world will gnaw you to the ground.
Living in this world, our biggest stupidity is to believe in the goodness of human nature without a bottom line, if our kindness and forbearance, in exchange for worsening the harm, it is the coolest to turn our faces directly.
To be a man, turn your face when you should turn your face.
I have seen such a sentence on the Internet: "Not showing mercy to the wicked is also a kind of cultivation." ”
Couldn't agree more! We can be kind, but we must bring a little edge, otherwise kindness will lose its meaning, and it will encourage the arrogance of the wicked.
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