My girlfriend is going to separate, and I have been separated from my girlfriend for many years, and

It's only been a little over a month, and it's normal for the girl to follow her friend's persuasion to move out. If you are worried, you can go to see her often, tie her heart with your love, and if the heart belongs to you, are you still afraid of the ex who has broken up. Don't be afraid to be a fool, who is not a fool in true love?

Is the love that cares about gains and losses still called love, and it's not what you want.

If you love, love bravely, don't be afraid of being hurt, why think so much. The most basic thing for two people to be together is trust, how you think of others, others will see you. It's good to have a clear conscience.

As for separation, I think your girlfriend is still doing the right thing, she doesn't know each other very well, and she also needs distance.

It feels like there is no love between you, only games, this ex, that ex, I advise you to open up more, live more chic, what to do, it's useless to think too much, she should be with you, she can't stop you from leaving, going with the flow is the foundation of life, learn to enjoy life, don't have nothing to worry about yourself. Good luck you want to open some!

She's not in a hurry, what's your hurry? Pay attention to maintaining balance, one-sided feelings, I always feel. It's not good, it's going to be tiring.

I feel like you're tired, tired.

The deeper the love, the easier it is to be hurt, so show your love appropriately! If you succeed, you will advance, and if you don't succeed, you will retreat.

Care more about her、、、 if you touch her, she will naturally live with you、、、

She just listened to her friends....It's really not good for you to live together for a short time...Understand her...

If you live together, you won't change your hexagram? It's too fast, and there's a lot of excuse for that.

I think the subject came here to ask if he already had the answer in his heart, but he was still a little hesitant; So you come to seek help from outside forces, and then help you make up your mind.

There are many practical problems that need to be solved in two places.

It is said that long-distance relationships are very hard, but this kind of hard work can only be experienced by the parties themselves.

For example, it is also a large expenditure economically; In the event of a holiday, the two can finally meet, but the cost of the journey really needs to be weighed.

Therefore, only the parties themselves can have a deep understanding of the taste.

If you are not willing to give up this feeling, then go on firmly.

You and your girlfriend have been in love for many years, and although I feel very tired, we haven't broken up yet, so I think there is a real relationship between the two of you.

You must know that there is nothing difficult in the world, only those who are afraid of it; If you do decide to move on with your girlfriend, many of the problems can be solved in other ways.

The simplest is that one of you changes jobs and goes to the city where the other person is. Nowadays, there are so many opportunities for talent recruitment and mobility, it is impossible to find a job.

If you decide to break up, you will make a decision early, don't drag the mud and water, delay yourself and delay the other party.

If you decide to break up, then it's better to break up early; For both men and women, youth only lasts for a few years. Instead of waiting for no results, it is better to let go of each other and fulfill each other.

When I encounter emotional problems, I generally persuade and do not discourage. It is a blessing for two people to be able to be together in the previous life, and it is the fate of several generations to be able to get married. Since you said that you have been together for many years, it means that you love each other very much, so don't break up easily.

Nowadays, because of study, work, and family reasons, many young couples have no choice but to become long-distance relationships. In a long-distance relationship, because of the distance between two people, they can't see each other for a long time. Therefore, there will always be some small quarrels, but they will soon be reconciled, because there is an emotional basis for two people to become a couple, and you agree to go on in the future, and you will overcome all kinds of difficulties.

But after all, the two of them are not together, and they miss each other but they can't see each other, and their hearts are full of sadness and helplessness. Over time, the heart gets tired. Is anyone thinking about breaking up in such a situation? My answer is: don't break up.

Love is beautiful and great, it is not easy for two people to be together, not to mention that you have been together for many years, which shows that both of you love each other deeply in your hearts, if you propose to break up, it is undoubtedly a huge harm to the feelings between you.

Also, after you break up, can you meet someone who is more suitable for you than the other person? The answer is no, if you break up, it is impossible to find a girlfriend who can always be by your side, and the relationship between two people for many years is not something that can be replaced by a casual person. Presumably you must still have your girlfriend in your heart, you still love her very much, she loves you very much, you should have confidence in your relationship.

Long-distance relationships are not easy, but as long as there is hope in your heart, don't give up easily. The reason why you are separated is for a better life in the future, you are both working hard for each other, and a long-distance relationship is the difficulty you need to endure. As long as you survive this time, as long as you survive until graduation, and you get married, you can be together forever.

Once, my best friend's sister, she and her boyfriend were in a long-distance relationship when they were in college, one in the south and one in the north. The two have been together since high school and have a very deep relationship. But because of the long-distance relationship after going to college, the two of them couldn't see each other, and they quarreled, and life was very difficult.

But none of them mentioned breaking up, and they persevered until graduation. After graduating, they finally worked in the same city, and later they got married. Everyone can see that they love each other, and I think that's probably what marrying love looks like.

True love can stand the test, a long-distance relationship is nothing, as long as there is love in your heart, you can stay together.

A long-distance relationship is a thing that requires great perseverance and courage, I just graduated and went to Hangzhou, and my girlfriend went to Shenzhen, we experienced a long-distance relationship for half a year, during that time we often miss each other, at that time we both felt very tired, fortunately we did not give up on each other, and also withstood the test of long-distance relationship, and then I went to Shenzhen, and the two lived together. Although it was only half a year, it did make me feel the cruelty of a long-distance relationship.

Needless to say, the bitterness of a long-distance relationship must not be said, even if you haven't experienced it personally, you can feel it, and the person you most want to be by your side when you encounter something can't appear, that feeling is very uncomfortable, which is why so many long-distance relationships eventually break up.

In fact, if you decide on a long-distance relationship, then you must be prepared and have a plan to end the long-distance relationship in the future, rather than starting without any plan, so you often can't give the other person an answer. Reality is a terrible thing, and for long-distance relationships, there are too many unstable factors that affect the relationship between the two parties.

For long-distance lovers, there are undoubtedly only two outcomes, one is to end the long-distance relationship, and the other is to break up. If you feel tired and even want to break up, but you still love each other and have a deep emotional foundation, then all you have to do is find a way to end the long-distance relationship and get the two of you together sooner rather than go on like this. In addition, I feel that the relationship between two people has really faded and I can't give each other happiness, so choosing to break up is not a way to get rid of it.

Love requires the joint efforts of both parties, and in a long-distance relationship, you need to redouble your efforts, if you don't have the courage to continue like this, maybe breaking up is really the solution, if you have the courage, then please don't give up, work together to create your life, and end the long-distance relationship as soon as possible.

If you feel tired with him, then it's time for you to break up, in love, you won't feel tired, if you feel tired, it means that it's not appropriate.

I believe everyone should be familiar with long-distance relationships, some people may have experienced it, and some people should be experiencing it. It is undeniable that a long-distance relationship is indeed painful and difficult, but because of the deep love for each other and the dedication to this relationship, even if the long-distance relationship is difficult, everyone has been persevering. So how to solve the long-distance relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend?

Or how should a long-distance relationship get along? I have summarized a few points that I hope will be helpful to you who are in a long-distance relationship.

1. Be sure to communicate more.

Communication is very important for two people in a relationship, especially for people who are in a long-distance relationship, communication is also the most important thing. Maybe some small things can be solved with a hug, but because it is a long-distance relationship, there is no way to hug, and it will become a big problem. Then at this time, you must communicate well with the other party.

No matter what, as long as you say it, then the other party must be able to understand, so you must communicate, you must say it.

2. Be sure to accompany each other more.

3. Be sure not to disappear for no reason, but to respond to everything.

Because it is a long-distance relationship, many times two people do not know each other's life on this day, so you must pay attention to it at this time, and you must not disappear for no reason. Maybe you have something to do, so at this time you must take a minute or two to talk to the other party, even if you don't have time to say it, you must tell the other party when you are busy. Responding to everything is the most important thing to pay attention to in a long-distance relationship.

I usually call him **, the two of them talk about food, talk about parents, and make do with feelings, so that there won't be too much generation gap.

This situation is not allowed to occur on its own. In the case of separation, you may have to break up or quit your job to decide together, because separation will lead to many changes, and it is impossible for you to deal with it.

We often agreed to meet once a week, so we could sort out a lot of things.