How can I be truly happy? 20

You may have loved each other, and you may have liked each other, but for what reason have you not been able to be together? Maybe he can't chase you for the sake of righteousness between friends. Maybe you weren't together for the sake of your family's opinions.

Maybe in order to go abroad for further study, he didn't ask you to wait for him.; Maybe you met too early and don't know how to cherish each other. Maybe you met too late and you already have another person by your side.

Maybe you're too late to turn back, and the other person is no longer waiting. Maybe you're trying to get out of each other's hearts. ,, but even though you're not together, you're still friends.

But you know in your hearts that you care more about this person than your friends. Even if you can't just hold hands with him and go shopping, you can still be friends who talk about everything. He has someone he likes, and you will help him chase him verbally, but you don't really know if you really want him to chase him. When he is in trouble, you will do your best to help him, regardless of who owes whom. When your boyfriend and girlfriend are jealous, you will reassure them that you and he are just friends, but there will be a trace of uncertainty in your heart. Everyone has had such a special friend in their hearts in their lives, and they have very contradictory behavior.

At first, you were unwilling to just be friends, but after a long time, you suddenly found that this is the best. It's better for you to care about him like this than for you to be together and break up one day. , you'd rather be his friend and not be jealous of each other, so you can really talk about everything.

Especially so, you still know that he will always care about you. can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, what's wrong with being his special friend? ,,A lot of feelings,Because of wishful thinking,In the end, I can't even be a friend.,I often feel sorry.,It's a pity that some of the originally good friendships.,In the end, because the other party likes you.,If you don't react,This friendship seems to be difficult to maintain.,It's no wonder that some people will not take this step because of this.。 , because it's like a bet, after confessing, you either become a boyfriend and girlfriend, or you can't even be a friend. Some things are not expected by you, maybe the other person doesn't care, you can still be friends, but it's not as good as before. It's a pity, it's a pity!

But there is another possibility that you may never be willing to be just friends.

Yes, I am. But is that both of you're allowed by your personalities? Whether you can be friends or not, in fact, the root personality has a lot to do with it.

Also, if you become friends with him, do you really feel good? If being friends with him makes you happy, then go for it, if it only makes you more miserable, what if he is an ordinary person.

I think that if you really love, even if you break up, true love still exists without regrets and will not disappear because of the breakup. The so-called true love is to do everything for the good of the other party, and will not consider your own grievances and gains. If you ask yourself if you can do this, you can keep in touch, but this expression of love does require some appropriate means, and if it is not expressed properly, it will prevent the other person from starting a new life, and it will be painful to be immersed in the memories of the past.

If you can't do that, it's best not to keep in touch, otherwise it will cause unforeseen harm to both parties.

It's impossible, if you want to be friends with him, you can't do without him.

It is impossible for someone who has truly loved to become friends after a breakup.

Time will tell! I think so!

Summary. Keep your stomach satisfied every day. There's no worry that can't be solved with one meal, and if there is, it's two. Satisfying your stomach is the beginning of a good mood.

Keep your stomach satisfied every day. There is no trouble that cannot be solved by one meal, if there is a state tour fruit, then two meals. Satisfying the stomach is the beginning of a good mood.

Liberation or deity releases one's own emotional energy. We are often asked to be emotionally stable adults. Not daring to express our negative feelings, we slowly learned to suppress ourselves and cover ourselves.

Do a small group of things every day to help others. There is a saying: "Give people roses, and your hands will have fragrance." "People who are willing to care and help others will have stronger brain activity than others, and it will be easier for them to feel faster inside.

When you are upset, you can cry, and you will feel better after crying, but you must remember that when you are in a bad mood, don't listen to that kind of sad **, that will only make you more sad, more negative, and will not solve the problem at all, try to listen to some rhythmic **, let yourself be excited, so that you will not be uncomfortable. There is also the possibility of going online and venting your bad feelings. Find someone to talk to, or find a chat room where no one is around, and shout a few times on the microphone.

Or go listen to it. Or go sing and take a deep breath. Then exhale.

Deflect your mind and try to get in touch with something new or something you're interested in. Don't always think about things, count your pride, imagine that you are succeeding, reminisce about the glory of the past, and ignore your troubles and disappointments, do not dwell on the past, and do not feel guilty about your righteous behavior. Vent the depression in time, and when things don't go well, you can talk to yourself and comfort yourself.

Sometimes you have to look at the problem from a different angle, endure for a while, and be calm; Let three points, the sea and the sky. Learn to keep yourself calm, keep a normal heart, don't be overly concerned about small things, it's rare to be confused. In short, to make yourself happy, this is the goal.

Think of the good in everything.

It is to treat it with an optimistic and positive attitude.

I want to open a little bit too. It's like a very old story.

Same half a glass of water, positive people say: Wow! And half a glass of water.

And the negative person will say, "Oh, why is there only half a glass of water?"

Wake up every day and remind yourself to keep your day happy.

Don't let external factors affect you, that's to get angry with yourself.

Be friendly to everyone around you, and happiness and respect are always mutual.