What is it like to be unmarried for life? What kind of sadness is it to be unmarried for life?

No one else understands why you don't get married, but only you know it, and you won't be able to, so it's better to live alone.

At first, I feel quite free, unrestrained, and the whole family is not hungry when one person feeds for the whole family, but as I get older, I will feel more and more lonely and have no one to rely on.

I know an aunt who is in her fifties and still unmarried, and I feel very cool to do the work I want to do, and I take time off to travel if I don't want to do it, which is much happier than those of us.

What is it like to be unmarried for life? I think it's similar to the experience of being single, it's just the length of time you've been single, some people think it's good to be single for a long time, and some people feel like they want to fall in love when they're single. The experience should still be divided into people, individuals have personal experiences, different people will have different experiences, maybe as they grow older, their moods will be different, and the experiences are not the same.

My neighbor is also an unmarried man in his 60s. He has never been married in his life. I have been working in other places, and I retired a few years ago and came back, living in a house by myself.

During the holidays, his brothers and sisters would gather at his house to play mahjong. Usually, he watches TV at home alone, and sometimes his godson will come to stay for a few days. It feels good to be alone.

It's very free, you can do whatever you want in this life, just take care of yourself, but in your old age, you will be a little lonely and want to have children with you.

I feel that it is a very brave thing to never marry for life. You may feel lonely and helpless, but you also have a lot less trouble, so I don't agree with or disagree with it.

You will feel lonely, with no wife, no children, and only one of you. I am also very lonely in my heart, and it is good to want someone to accompany me to chat.

I know an aunt who has never been married, has a good temper, and there is nothing weird about it. She bought a storefront room and opened a small shop selling books, newspapers and magazines. I raised a pug, and I raised it like a daughter, and I took it with me everywhere.

The people I know around me don't have a deep relationship with her, and sometimes they talk about her, why don't you get married, etc. Personally, I feel that she has a sense of loneliness hidden deep in her heart, and she is unhappy.

People who have never been married for life may be free from many worldly troubles, and they only need to calm down and get along with themselves every day, and after a long time, they will get used to and fall in love with that way of life.

In today's society, there are many people who have never been married for life, maybe they have a person in their hearts who can't forget, but in fact, they get used to it after being single for a long time.

Oscar Wilde, a representative writer of British aestheticism, once said: "Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance", so being unmarried for life is not such a terrible thing as imagined. Because, for many people, it is good to have love, but if you can't find the right person in your life, or some people are asexual, then living alone may be a more suitable lifestyle for yourself and making yourself more comfortable.

Because, as long as it is reasonable on earth and does not harm others, we should respect it, not feel strange. However, the reasons for lifelong unmarried are complex and varied, so they should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

In fact, many people in Japan today choose to live alone and never marry for life, rather than traditional marriage. Moreover, many people think that this is very beautiful. However, there is a disadvantage that when these people are old, they may not be able to take care of themselves, and there are many news reports that many people have died at home for a long time before they are discovered.

Miyuki Nakajima is a famous Japanese singer, and Chinese songs such as "The First Dream" are covers of her Japanese songs. She is still single, but I believe she thinks it is more suitable for herself.

Therefore, if you are unmarried for life, if you are voluntary, it may be more suitable for your lifestyle. If it's because of other tragic factors, it's worth sympathy.

If you are not married for life, you will feel very lonely, because a person's life is very long, and if a person walks down, he will face many difficulties.

People are usually unaccompanied. Sometimes there is no one to take care of me when I am sick. When I get old, I am even more helpless, probably because of this sadness.

This is a kind of helpless sadness, you will admire his persistence and loyalty, but you will feel sorry and helpless for it.

In your old age, you may feel lonely when you see others enjoying family fun and you are alone. There is also a very uncomfortable feeling in my heart, and when I want to talk to someone, no one can listen.

In fact, sometimes everyone's thoughts are different, and there is no need to think too complicated about this situation, and sometimes it is decided according to his thoughts when you are single.

Hello friends, there are cases in which unmarried men exist for life, not for nothing, mainly in the countryside, thank you.

I will feel that it is good to live alone, there are no constraints, and I am very free.

I feel that I am good to live alone, and if I have a significant other, I may be very uncomfortable.

I feel that it is very beautiful before old age, after all, many people are not happy in marriage now, and they live a more chic life alone, and there will not be too much pressure and burden, but in old age, it may be more desolate if there is no one to accompany them.

I think it's a lonely experience, because there is very little person in life who can really talk to you, and there is less fun.

It should be the feeling of loneliness and old age, and it may be very good to satisfy one's spiritual life, and the spiritual realm of this kind of person should be quite high.

Probably because loneliness is accompanied by life, the people around me have changed and changed, or there is no stable partner around you, and the sense of freedom is still very good.

It must have been a particularly lonely experience. Because in life, marriage is an indispensable emotion.

Being unmarried for life is a very cool experience in the early stage, but when you are old, it is estimated that you will be a little lonely and lonely, and you will inevitably be a little lonely when you see others in pairs, and you have children who are busy.

It should also be a relatively good experience, a person is free and carefree, and many times does not have to consider the feelings of others, and lives a very free and easy life.

Feel envious and admired, and feel sad, because people who have never married for life have enough time and energy to do what they want to do, and they live incomparably free and free, which is enviable, but I also admire them for having this courage; But there are two sides to everything, people who never marry have the energy to solve many things when they are young, but when they are older, they will live a more miserable life, because without the care of their children and their wives, they will live very hard, which will make people feel sad.

Each has its own way of living, there is nothing wrong with being unmarried for life, freedom, one person feeds the whole family and does not go hungry, as long as you feel good about yourself. Ignore the worldly eyes and go your own way, not to live for others.

Nowadays, the social pressure is particularly great, the garage and so on, as well as the bride price of the daughter-in-law all need money, and the family is not rich and can only rely on their own efforts, but most people are still only in the stage of part-time work, and it is good to be able to solve their own food and clothing.

I don't have any opinions, as long as I am happy, why do I care if there are married people, they have their own lives, they have ideas, don't be strong if they don't want to, it's so simple to live the life you want.

Have a personality, not be swayed by the world, live in the moment, and be a boutique among people.

I am 43 years old this year, unmarried, may be the reason for my personality, I don't like to get together since I was a child, so, I don't feel lonely or anything like that, I feel that I live alone very chained, free, will not be bound by marriage, now I am carefree, I will regularly play out of travel, see the outside world, I can continue to spend my own on what I like, now I have my own house and car, I also have my own circle of friends, many times friends gathered, They all envy me for the delicacy of my life, and I look a lot younger than my peers, and I think it's because I have a young heart and haven't been baptized by married life.

I used to have a neighbor downstairs, an aunt in her 60s, and every time I went to work or got off work, I could see her downstairs. She has never been married, she lives by herself, her parents left her a few houses in Zhaoshan, except for the one she lives in, the rest are rented, and she has been living on rent. Sometimes when she is idle, she will also pick up cartons and bottles and other things to sell scrap.

I often buy things online, and there will be a lot of cartons, and after getting acquainted with my neighbor's aunt, I will keep them for her. And my aunt will often give me some food, or vegetables and the like. Once, when I was going back to my hometown, I was taking a lot of things, and my aunt was staying downstairs, and when she saw it, she had to help me take it and send me to a nearby station, which was very moving.

She would often come upstairs and chat with me, which was drifting in a foreign land for many years, and meeting one of the best neighbors, of course, could also feel her loneliness. Later, I moved, and I never met again.

My mother has an uncle who is unmarried for life, listen to my mother, the uncle is young and handsome, talented, and good writing, many matchmakers come to the door to say kiss, but he can't look down, and then once went into the city to see friends, it rained on the road, and he hid from the rain at the door of a family. Then a woman opened the door and asked him to come in to hide from the rain, and the two of them were moved when they opened the door. But the woman is a dusty woman, although the man is not high and Yinchang minds, the man's mother just refuses to agree, seeing this situation, the woman doesn't want to be embarrassed by him, and finally leaves without saying goodbye, I don't know where Qi Padao went.

For filial piety, I can't marry you, for love, I won't marry for life, when I go back for the New Year, I still see the uncle, the uncle is always sitting at the door and doesn't know what to look at, maybe still waiting for her.

After contacting the sedan chair Kai with many unmarried people in their 30s, he found a phenomenon that he lived every day, and the money he earned every month was crazy to enjoy life, and he was really happy like a fairy, and the whole family was not hungry when he was fed. But they told me that in the dead of night, they are very lonely and lonely, there is no pillow to talk to, quarreling with their partners has become a luxury, and there are no children around to laugh and laugh, they feel that life is not fun, and sometimes eating alone, even if it is full of delicacies from the mountains and seas, it is boring to eat.

We just moved here and there is an eldest sister who lives under this building, who used to be a middle-level cadre of a unit, retired at the age of 55, and is now 60 years old. People are quite good-looking, have an elegant temperament, and usually greet them with a smile. She has never been married all her life, and her parents have long gone.

There is only one person. My wife likes to be close to people, and I don't care about chatting with her when I walk for a few days, and the two of them also left **. Some people who know her situation, shook their heads, and said that the conditions of this woman were still very good when she was young, and she once talked about her boyfriend, and the two of them really loved each other, so thick that they couldn't get separated, and when they were about to get married, their boyfriend suddenly had a car accident, and when the woman arrived at the hospital, her boyfriend was speechless, her eyes looked at her, and tears were falling out, and the woman hugged her boyfriend tightly Cong Cha, and then, helplessly, watched her boyfriend's body getting colder and colder.

After the boyfriend left, the family and the people in the unit were enthusiastic to find a partner for the eldest sister, but she refused, one day my wife asked her gently, eldest sister, in this life you can't let go of a person, and never married, is there a moment, do you regret it? Sister Zheng didn't say anything, and tears slipped silently in her pale eyes.

There are also some single old people in their 60s and 70s, I talked to them, they generally think that the biggest regret in this life is not having a son and a half daughter, the saddest thing is to watch other people's children and grandchildren eat group dinner, they seem to be abandoned by the world, everything has long felt strange, and I feel that I have failed to live a lifetime. People who have been single all their lives are not full of beauty, lack the joy of human nature, and their hearts are full of defects, so I strongly recommend that it is best to have a companion in life, or go to the monk to find a place to cultivate, so as not to worry about it.

When Yin Changchen went to school abroad, the landlord was in his 50s, a woman who was unmarried for life, she was not happy, lived alone, very lonely, she regretted her willfulness when she was young, until the late Zen year, when she was sick and needed to go to the hospital, she didn't know that she needed someone, friends have families, it is impossible to accompany herself all day long, even if there is a child who has not grown up to accompany her to the hospital quickly, she is not so lonely and sad.

In fact, whether or not to get married depends on personal wishes, and there is nothing wrong with being happier and more comfortable if you are single. But fear of marriage is not a reason for celibacy, a person's negative energy is too great, and I feel that men are unreliable, women are unreliable, etc., in fact, you are single and not necessarily happy. So happiness does not depend on marriage, but on your attitude towards life.