The harder I try, the more afraid I am of failure, and what should I do if I feel very depressed?

When you work very hard, you are more eager to succeed, because you don't want your efforts to be in vain, so you are particularly afraid of failure, and there will be a lot of pressure in your heart, at this time you need to think about some, don't care too much about success or failure, as long as you work hard, there will be gains, but this harvest will appear in different forms.

At this time, it means that your psychological pressure is too great, you can let yourself relax a little, since you have worked hard, you should not be afraid of failure, at least you have struggled.

To engage in positive autosuggestion, as long as you work hard, even if the result is not good, you can bear it. There is no smooth sailing in this world, as long as we work hard and don't regret it.

Find your friends and parents to talk to you, and it will be much better to talk about the unhappiness in your heart, and you must also learn to comfort yourself, nothing is certain, there will be successes and failures, and you must be mentally prepared.

Don't think too much, if you don't work hard, then you will definitely fail, but if you work hard, you still have a chance to succeed, and you should enlighten yourself not to be too nervous and depressed.

Then put down the work in hand and stop trying, because you know that you will fail if you continue to work hard. If you do that, you will put a strain on your heart.

After all, after working hard for so long, you will definitely be afraid of failure, so you can't put too much pressure on yourself at this time, don't think about the consequences, and just do it seriously.

You have to tell yourself that you have put in a lot of effort, even if you are sold, you will not regret your failure, learn to adjust your mentality and dare to face failure.

No matter what you do, you don't need to care too much about the result, as long as you pay, there will definitely be a return, even if there is no return now, but accumulate steadily, there will definitely be results.

In this case, you should think about whether you have made a mistake in your own way and method, and I suggest that you can communicate more with your parents or elders to find out what you have and then correct it.

For the first time in college, I was preparing for Level 4, and I bought the materials early but was afraid to start. The thought of memorizing so many words made me mentally guarded, and I was reluctant to take the first step.

Wait until you feel a sense of urgency before you start memorizing the first word. Although the first step was started, it was not so smooth. When I memorized words, I was afraid of being seen by the people around me, and I wanted to escape when I encountered a slightly difficult word, which invisibly increased the pressure on me when I was studying.

When it came to the exam, I couldn't memorize the words and finish the questions. The result of this exam is undoubtedly a failure.

It is difficult for people who are afraid of failure from the beginning and who are afraid of being ridiculed by others to succeed. I know this very well.

The second time, I began to prepare for the fourth level exam. This time, I thought not only to succeed, but also to do well.

I've been memorizing words since the summer vacation, and I've been hard of hearing, and I've been listening to some articles subconsciously. Listen to every set of listening questions in the past test, and think about why you chose the wrong ones for yourself.

Slowly, the listening score improved, but it was also unstable. So I listened to the real questions every day before the exam, and even almost fell asleep the night before the exam.

After the exam, I already have a bottom in my heart about the answers. When the score came out, it was higher than expected, and listening became my pull score, and I never thought that my hearing could be up to 200 percent.

When you start to make up your mind to do something, just think about success and don't be afraid of what happens next. This way you are one step closer to success.

Success is a virtuous cycle. With the first success, the next step will be even more dedicated.

I worked harder for the second certificate in college. I don't care about the final result, and I don't care about the opinions of the people around me. Every day, in addition to taking professional classes, I read accounting materials, and I have less time to play than before.

Every day, I am worried that I can't finish watching online classes and memorizing knowledge points. I can only read books and do questions repeatedly.

When I checked the results and saw that I had passed the self-examination, I jumped up happily and couldn't wait to share my joy with my family and friends.

Many people should have felt the same way, when your efforts have been rewarded, the mood is extremely excited, even more happy than winning the lottery, because such success has a sense of steadfastness.

If you're scared to do it from the start, it's hard for you to devote yourself to it, and you're just going to be haunted by that fear. In the end, it will only be a failure, and then I can comfort myself with peace of mind: I didn't review well, this exam is too difficult, how can I succeed.

What follows is a vicious cycle of one defeat after another.

There are a lot of opportunities in life that slip away in this way, and you miss them just because you're afraid. The last regrets and regrets are not to be found.

Hopefully, every time the opportunity comes, we don't be afraid of too much that hasn't happened yet. Even if it happens in the process later, you should fight hard and leave yourself with no regrets.

Finally, I would like to share a sentence from Qingshan's book: Do your best to do what you should do, some people should take it seriously, and clean up the delusions of uselessness and loss.