There should be a basis for choosing the date of engagement, and what is the importance of choosing

Male: 1985 [Yi Chou Niu] on the 15th day of the sixth month of the lunar calendar.

Female: 1987 [Ding Mao Waiver] The twenty-third son of the eleventh month of the lunar calendar.

This [Yiwei] month is the [auspicious month] for the two of you to get engaged, and there is no [opposition] that is unfavorable to your bride [Ding Mao Wai]!

The auspicious day of the zodiac that awaits you two in the month of July 2011 is:

For your reference) July 04, 2011 Lunar Calendar 06 (Big) 04 Monday Chonghu (Jiayin) Sha Nan [Qinglong] [Wu Weng Day].

July 06, 2011 Lunar Calendar 06 (Big) 06 Wednesday Chonglong (Bingchen) Shabei [Fixed Day] [Zhoutang Day] [No Day].

July 10, 2011 Lunar Calendar 06 (Big) 10th Sunday Chong Monkey (Gengshen) Shabei [Jin Gui Wei Day] [Wu Gu Day].

July 11, 2011 Monday, June 11, 2011 Monday Chongji (Xinyou) Xixi [Zhoutang Day] [Tiande Cheng Day] [Bujiang Day].

July 19, 2011 Lunar Calendar 06 (Big) 19th Tuesday Chong Snake (has been) Shaxi [Mingtang fixed day] [Zhou Tang day].

July 31, 2011 Lunar Calendar 07 Month (Small) 01 Sunday Chong Snake (Xin Ji) Shaxi [Ming Tang Fixed Day].

I wish you all happiness and happiness!

1. Parental opinions.

The date of the engagement is generally to respect the opinions of both parents, and the engagement is also a major event, and the old people will be more concerned, so it is best to discuss the engagement date with both parents before deciding.

2. Family situation.

It is also necessary to consider according to the actual situation of both families, and the auspicious day chosen should take into account that the elderly on both sides will have time to participate and witness the festive scene with everyone, so it is also important to consider the physical condition of the elders on both sides. If one of the elders is unwell, they should be diagnosed and treated in time, and then make plans after recovering their health, and do not rush to arrange happy events, otherwise overwork on auspicious days will aggravate the condition.

3. Time and weather on both sides.

Also consider the time of both parties, generally choose the holiday may be wiser, such an auspicious day is more memorable, but also with relatives and friends at home to have a relaxed and festive holiday, in the holiday is also a very meaningful thing.

Or you can also choose auspicious days according to seasonal weather changes, the weather in January and March will be colder, and the weather in April and June will not be cold or hot, and there will not be much rain, which is the best season to choose auspicious days; 7 In September, the weather was very hot, and there were frequent torrential rains; 10 December, the weather cooled down.

4. Avoid single day, choose double day.

The engagement date is the same as the holiday, which is a good choice. The advantage of this is that friends and relatives will have time to attend the engagement ceremony, and the wedding will coincide with the holiday, the atmosphere is warm, and the bride and groom will also enjoy the joy of the holiday with their friends and family on the wedding day, and at the same time, they will be infected with the festive atmosphere of the wedding and wish the wedding blessings. However, due to the majority of newlyweds getting married during the holidays, it is still necessary to pay attention to booking wedding banquets and hotel fleets in advance.

5. Good days and auspicious days.

First of all, the date of birth of both men and women is calculated to calculate the most auspicious wedding date, this date "auspicious day" must be a day when there are "nobles", and the five elements are suitable for happy events, and can not clash with the man's wealth star and the woman's official star (except for the many financial officials).

How to choose an auspicious day for engagement:

The method of calculating the auspicious time of engagement is to use the date of birth of both men and women to calculate the most auspicious date of engagement, and this auspicious day must be a day suitable for happy events on the five elements, and cannot clash with the zodiac signs of men and women.

Pay attention to the date of birth of the bride and the date of birth of the man and others. The date of the parent's birthday should not coincide with the auspicious date of the engagement, but it is absolutely appropriate to get engaged during that month.

When choosing an auspicious day, the day is more important than the month, and the month is more important than the year: the first thing to do is to choose the season of engagement according to the envisaged form of engagement and the local climatic characteristics. At the same time, you also need to consider how easy it will be for friends and relatives to attend the engagement ceremony.

If there are a lot of friends and relatives you want to invite who are not working locally, you should choose to be in ten.

1. May Day and other long holidays. Secondly, consider the work and study situation of both couples, and try to avoid distractions caused by organizing an engagement ceremony before the exam or during the project research stage. After considering the above factors and selecting the approximate range, you can choose the date according to the birthday situation of the two people.

In general, choosing an auspicious day for engagement should follow these basic principles:

1. It is better to be in harmony: The heavenly stem or earthly branch of the four pillars of the daily lesson should be five and six, and it is not appropriate to choose the pattern of rushing battle. Harmony leads to marriage harmony, and war leads to unstable marriage.

Second, the yen should be angry, and the official seal has roots: the engagement day is the most suitable official seal. The official star represents the husband star, the wealth star represents the wife star, and it is not advisable to be prosperous. The main contract of the star is the marriage contract, which is prosperous, and the foundation is solid. Fourth, the yen should not be used without gas on the four waste days.

3. The official seal should be thoroughly dried: the official star is dry, on behalf of the civil affairs clerk on duty, the official and the student seal, the work is smooth, and the marriage certificate can be obtained smoothly.

Fourth, the most suitable day B noble person in place: choose the day to go out to do business, day B noble day or time is quite favorable, indicating that there are noble people to help when going out, twice the result with half the effort, relatively smooth.

Fifth, it is not advisable to choose the day when the peach blossom is full: if you misuse the peach blossom day, it is easy to cause peachy right and wrong, which is quite unfavorable to the marriage.

6. Try not to clash, punish or harm each other with the lives of both men and women.

7. The five elements of the chosen day are best used by the gods who like to use in the fate of both men and women.

8. It is not advisable to choose the four absolutes and the four departure days.

9. It is not advisable to choose a pattern that is too dry.

Refer to the engagement auspicious day selection.

Engagement is generally not very elaborate, and the customs vary from place to place. We generally choose the third day of the lunar calendar. It's better to do this on the 13th or 23rd, for example, on the third day of the first month. March 13 and so on. The main thing is to be auspicious, the meaning of being born early.

It's different when you get married, and you have to choose the date of the two of you's birthdays.

Summary. 1. The death year of the engagement date.

The date of engagement and wedding is arranged in which year, in the traditional wedding banquet is very particular, generally placed in a normal year without special circumstances, there are taboos in the year of no spring or the year of double spring. The year without spring is that there is no spring day in that year, and the double spring is a year with two spring days, which is also unlucky, and is believed by many people that both men and women are easy to marry twice.

In some areas, it is believed that the double spring year is good, which is understood as the meaning of double spring and double happiness. Moreover, it seems that everywhere there will be a situation where you cannot choose to be engaged in your natal year.

Choosing a date for engagement is taboo.

1. In which year is the date of engagement and marriage, it is very particular in the traditional wedding banquet, and it is generally placed in the normal year of the vertical and book-shaped shed, and there are taboos in the year of no spring or the year of double spring. The year without spring is that there is no spring day in that year, and the double spring is a year with two spring days, which is also unlucky, and is believed by many people that both men and women are easy to marry twice. In some areas, it is believed that the double spring year is good, which is understood as the meaning of double spring and double happiness.

Moreover, it seems that everywhere there will be a situation where you cannot choose to be engaged in your natal year.

2. The death day of the engagement date is in the folk, the marriage, the full moon and other happy events, the double happiness day and the single day are taboo, which means that good things come in pairs, and if the wedding is held in a single day, it means that it is unlucky. For example, some numbers also mean some unlucky statements. The homonym of the number three is scattered and concealed, and there are places where birthday and engagement are taboo on this day, and birthdays, congratulations, and gifts are also taboo on this number.

The homonym of the number four is the same as "death", and the folk taboo of this number is like Zen accompanying foreigners to taboo thirteen, and the general hotel number will not have 4.

3. Many times you may not notice that the three months of March, July and September of the lunar calendar coincide with "Qingming", "Yulan" and "Chonggong" respectively, which are all traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for happy events. 4. The date of engagement should avoid the birthday of the parents In traditional science, the day of engagement must avoid the birthday of the parents, if the day of the engagement and the birthday of the parents are on the same day, there will be a conflict, which is extremely unfavorable to the life of the two people after marriage. In order for your married life to be as sweet as when you are in love, you must choose the date of engagement before choosing to get engaged, so that you don't have to worry about some details with peace of mind.