I always feel that my fate is not very good, right?

No one has a smooth sailing trough when it's time to turn over.

When we are struggling everywhere for life, for family, career, but in the end we fail, at this time our hearts are lost, empty, in line with our own efforts are in vain, at this time it is easy to think that everything is fate, we struggle at the bottom, when we do not succeed, we can always blame all this on our own bad life, over time, we will more and more believe in fate.

When a person comes to this rock forest world, he is already destined to walk the road of life in the future, no one knows the truth and falsehood, no one can distinguish the truth from the false, but when we go longer and longer on this road, we have experienced more and more things, we will always unconsciously think of these things on the statement that fate is determined by heaven, only in this way can we comfort ourselves a little bit of failure.

There are similar words, one foot in life, it is difficult to find a fight, sometimes there must be in life, and there is no time in life to force it, all of which are almost the same truth.

In the eyes of those who are successful, they may feel that these words are not positive and affect the development of society, and in the eyes of successful people, thinking that you have not succeeded means that your efforts are not enough, or that the method is not right. Success is not for everyone, success in the eyes of different people, there will be different qualitative characteristics, and the success of others cannot be replicated. When we fail, we can get up and continue walking, the moment of failure, the mood is the most depressed and lost, these words can actually play a certain comforting role, if you fail, you are still happy and excited, can only say that either this is not a failure, or your mental state has a problem.

In life, we should not only think of these words if we fail, but we should also think that there is no end to the road, and in the dead end, there will inevitably be a glimmer of life.

Life seems to be long, but it is also very short, we should not be too forced on whether they are successful, do what they should do, have worked hard, only require a family harmony, career income can ensure the needs of the family, relatives, friends and lovers are healthy and healthy, then this is not a kind of success.

We can trust fate, but we can't just resign ourselves to fate.

The good things about my life are reflected in the following aspects:

1.There are always a lot of people who come to the rescue, especially in a pinch. For example, when I first joined the company after graduation, the direct leader I met was super good, but the president looked at me unpleasantly and wanted to transfer me away, so that I couldn't stay in the company and left automatically, and another good leader applied to the chairman and transferred me to her department.

2.There is a considerate, careful, and motivated husband (I hope it will not change in the future).

3.There is a smart, empathetic, and big-picture mother-in-law, who keeps supporting us when my husband doesn't make much money for the time being, and I don't have a job myself.

4.A lot of things can come true.

Wait a minute. Bad luck is manifested in:

1.Always draw the first number, the luck is really amazing. For example, teaching interviews, company competitions. But never get it.

2.It just so happened that our high school entrance examination abolished the total score system and adopted a grading system, but I gave up the high school entrance examination and chose to go straight to our school.

3.After graduating from junior high school, the top 20 students in our next class can go directly to the top four universities.

4.I was about to take the teacher exam, but there was an epidemic, and as a result, people all over the country were tempted to think about teachers, and now the competition is extremely fierce.

I wish I had a little better luck

Everyone comes to this life with all the karma of past lives. These karma is a collection of immeasurable good and bad karma in the past for an infinite amount of time, and if there is a substance, the whole void cannot contain it, and it determines almost everything in the life of a sentient being: from the inner mental personality, the physical condition, to the external environment of existence.

The karma of past lives will gradually manifest its results in this life, i.e., unripe fruits, equal flow fruits, and increased fruits. If there is no karma in this life that reinforces good or evil, then almost all of the life experiences that appear in this life are inspired by the karma of past lives. Of course, the flowers of this life bloom and fall, and the clouds can only appear in the established chronological order.

After understanding this, we will not have too many fantasies and feelings of loss about life, we will be content with fate without complaining, and we will calmly analyze the causes of defects in this life, so as to stop evil and do good, and create vitality for happiness in this life and the next life.

Therefore, fate exists objectively, and Feng Shui and Bazi are mathematical functions for calculating fate. Feng Shui is the geographical environment, Bazi is the astronomical environment, Feng Shui and Bazi have included all of a person's retribution, according to the report is the same, to show the positive retribution, so Feng Shui and the eight characters can calculate a person's fate.

If there is no accurate date of birth, you can only reason from the acquired feng shui where the owner lives, that is, the inside and outside of the acquired living environment, or the face of the owner himself, and then correspond to the acquired feng shui**.

In other words, the I Ching ** is just a reference, giving us a data point of view, so as not to go in the wrong direction, as long as it does not violate social common sense in normal life, do not do things that violate social ethics and morality, and often have a heart to help others, good luck will naturally follow.

It's just that when you can't compete with some powerful things, the only thing we can do is to grasp ourselves and say that people will be able to do it for a lifetime

In fact, there are only three things: God's business, you have to follow him, you don't force him, you can't get him, other people's business, don't follow the blind mix, save a little worry, your own business, you have to make your own decisions, don't point fingers at others.

Friend, fate is a very mysterious thing, which ordinary people can't see through, and it's not easy to understand.

Whether a person can succeed or not is inseparable from talent, hard work, and opportunities.

For individuals, all he can influence is the second factor, hard work.

Efforts include two aspects, one is the accumulation of ability, and the other is the adjustment of emotional intelligence.

Competence is the foundation of your success and is the inner basis. Emotional intelligence can make you have a higher horizon and more prosperous fortune, which can affect external conditions.

Ability and emotional intelligence are indispensable.

There is a saying that I feel very good, "Character determines fate, attitude determines height", this sentence mainly talks about the role of emotional intelligence.

I believe that there must be masters in the world who can see their destiny clearly and foresee the future.

If you find this master and let him give you a life, if he really sees his fate clearly and tells you his fate, and you adjust your behavior accordingly, then fate will not be accurate, then "fate cannot be called fate", then he and you are going against the sky.

If he tells you that you have made adjustments, it is also destined for him to tell you, and after you adjust, you will definitely conform to the arrangement of fate.

In other words, if you don't find him, fate won't happen, if you find him, he will give you a life, you do it, and fate will happen.

He gave you your life, fate told him; He doesn't give you a life, and fate tells him.

In this world, you must have heard a lot of stories of life relief, so have you noticed such a commonality: "That is, these masters all came to the door by themselves to tell them, and they all took the initiative to tell fortunes and solve people's lives."

In other words, it was fate that told these masters, you go and tell this mortal, he has to follow our rules. ”

The point I want to say comes out: "There must be a master who can see his fate clearly, and there must be no master who can change his life and change his fortune, because he can't do it, and what he does is also destined, he just executes rather than plans." ”

If this master really exists, there must be very few of them, maybe there are only a few in the world. So how do you know he's a master?If you know that he is a master, how can you guarantee that you will meet him?

Even if you do, how can you be sure he'll tell you?Don't forget, if there is this master in his life, he will take the initiative to find you, if there is no him in his life, you will find him in vain, he will not say, even if he does, you do it, then you will definitely go to fate.

So, friend, you should be content with the sky, for talent, hard work and opportunity, all you can grasp is the second - hard work.

Strive to improve your abilities and work to improve your emotional intelligence. Nothing is better than bad, it is always just what you think in your own heart.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone while walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place where the air is fresh, the surroundings are quiet, the light is soft, and you can move freely, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, silently saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

You're just temporarily frustrated, and there are fortune tellers who are more observant, and they can find out who has the latest version of the right to luck.

Which people have been unlucky recently, and luck and bad luck, many of them are random events, you don't have to bird them too much, relying on a so-called 'yin and yang five elements' old-fashioned theory to ** a person's future is ignorant, conceited and stupid, the future is not **, because the world itself is a chaotic system.

The crux of the problem of fortune-telling lies in "essentialism". Metaphysics is essentialist and will a priori prescribe a set of "definitions" to explain everything, so they are logically coherent from the beginning, and seem to explain everything, but they are of no use; Science is anti-essentialist, it admits its its own limitations, and through "conjecture-falsifiable experiments-revision" to keep existing theories close to objective reality, this process of closeness is likely to be eternal, so science may never have a seamless and explain everything, which is also the advanced point of modern science compared with the classical school.

How bad is fate, it is not good since birth or what problems have you encountered recently, what age are they, and the good or bad of fate is created by yourself.