I feel tired of my girlfriend sometimes, and I don t change how to communicate 30

You can try to change your girlfriend. This thing, if you should go, you will go, and if you don't go, you won't lose it; Men should be like men, and in the future, they will occasionally ask her to wash your clothes, cook and wash your feet, like a man, the hard should be hard, women can't be too used to it, the more accustomed the more problematic it is, be a man, at least you can afford yourself, I feel like she seems to be some... Without further ado, do it yourself!

The above personal opinion! I'm a man, by the way: the woman with the most words above said it, I don't approve of it, I feel that this is a selfish realization, asking for this and that, what about yourself?

I don't care at all, and a whole bunch of reasons come out! Dude, brother, I advise you, to be a man is to have depth, and to be a man is to have hardness!

Your girlfriend is fine, it's just that you're not a good fit for her, not the one who knows how to appreciate her.

When your friends say hello, it doesn't mean that all women think you're good, maybe you have a lot of problems in the eyes of some people.

No matter how good you are to her in front of people, it is just a superficial phenomenon, what do you think behind your back? Are you just good for her?

If you are really as your friend said, there is no such question, like a person, be good to a person, spoil a person, there is no reason, as long as you really give, she unintentionally let you be hurt, the other party noticed, will naturally change for you, but the most basic thing to do is tolerance and sincerity.

You have now become a 100% little man, and the love between men and women is based on the premise of mutual respect, mutual love, mutual care, mutual understanding, and mutual tolerance! It's painful to pay unilaterally!

Love is always 100 points, there is always someone who pays a little more, your girlfriend is not not thinking about you, but you don't understand the hardships she has paid for you, our situation is similar to yours, some people say that I am willful, saying that my boyfriend is considerate and gentle, but in order to let him stay with me forever, let him marry me, the idea of living with me for a lifetime, has paid hardships that many people can't imagine, I also have a lot of male netizens, whenever our relationship has problems, I will patiently listen to their suggestions, It's because of a man's mind that a woman can't guess. Cherish your feelings, she's fine!

You just pointed out her problem directly, my ex did the same with me, and in the end I was ignorant and gave up on others, and now I think about it, what people said was right, if he hadn't changed my personality, I might not be so happy by now.

You should clearly tell her the responsibilities she should take on as a girlfriend.

You'd better consider breaking up, I'll be mad if I were you. Wait until she regrets it、、、

You can adjust the way the two people get along like this:1I don't like this way of getting along with you for the sake of you, I'll be nice to you, and I want you to respond.

2.Be equal, don't completely overhead me. 3.

You have the right to choose someone else, if you don't want to be with me, if you want to be with someone who spoils you super spoiled, then you can go. 4.I also have the right to choose.

If you think you have to be spoiled to be with me, then we'll go apart. 5.I really don't want to be separated from you.

But if this continues, we can only separate.

The two of you should have a good talk, maybe after a long time together, some changes have slowly occurred, so it will become very tired, and when communicating, you should also find some shortcomings or deficiencies of the other party to correct, and choose a new mode of getting along, so as to enhance the relationship between the two of you.

The girlfriend who has been with him for a long time suddenly feels very tired, and needs to adjust the relationship mode of the two people in this way: always holding a grateful attitude can awaken the love between the couple; often say some words of gratitude to express gratitude, not only to let the other party understand that their efforts are very important to themselves, but also to keep her in mind at all times; You can recall the warmth of the past and often confess to enhance the temperature of love; Do what you like, go to some places that have been in love and have deep memories; Do something you've never done before and evoke the heartwarming moments that once were.

First of all, two people can change the way of communication, they can pay more attention to some life rituals in life, and they can stay at home to catch up on dramas together when they are resting, so that two people will not be particularly tired when they get along.

Although there are only four words in the mode of getting along, these four words include many problems. Just as a warm home is almost the same, a tragic home has its own tragedy. The same is true for the mode of getting along, the good mode of getting along is almost the same, but the mode of getting along that is not good has its own problems.

Why is it difficult to get along together, because the degree between the two is difficult to grasp. In a relationship, you can neither be too dependent nor too detached. The difficulty lies in the fact that when we are in love with someone, especially a girl, who is originally very autonomous, but often quietly depends on the other party.

Proper dependence is good for emotional stability, and can make the partner feel that he is needed, but if he relies too much, he will gradually lose himself. Second, it will continue to squeeze the other party's indoor space until the other party is forced to breathe.

Nowadays, it is said that in love, we have to maintain ourselves at any time and pursue perfection and independence, but it is very likely that it is very easy to patronize the completion of personal values in this whole process, and ignore the requirements of the partner, which leads to emotional alienation and inintimacy. It is common to see that men work hard and devote most of their time to work, and in order to give their partners stronger material conditions, they forget to pay attention to what their partners really need.

The conclusion of such situations is that the boys finally get the daily life they had been dreaming about based on their hard work, but the girls leave with a chill on the boys in the whole process.

So is there a suitable distance between the two of them, so that they are neither too dependent nor alienated? In the midst of toxic over-dependence and rigid solitude, there is indeed an inner area of physical and mental health. The dependence of physical and mental health is such an ability to work:

It allows you to combine intimacy and independence, to have a strong self-identity while relying on others, and to be good at asking for help when needed.

When using a physical and mental health dependency approach to living with those around you, everyone realizes that they have potential that they were not aware of, and the relationship between partners goes deeper. As for how to have such a physical and mental health distance, the two of them must explore.

I need to communicate well with my girlfriend, and I also need to change the way the two of you get along, because I feel very tired now, so I should change my current state.

In such a situation, you can conduct self-reflection, and then you also need to consider the feelings between two people, if you like each other very much, you need to adjust your state, and if the relationship fades, you can choose to break up.

Then you take the initiative to communicate with your girlfriend, and you express your thoughts like your girlfriend.

Only if your girlfriend realizes that there is a crisis in your relationship will he be able to change some of his bad behaviors and habits.

Because girls sometimes feel very tired of being together when they are vexatious or don't understand boys.

I think you still haven't met the requirements of your girlfriend, you should make yourself good and be a good man, so that your girlfriend will like you so that you don't feel tired.

You can communicate more with your girlfriend to see what the problem is, and if you can communicate and solve it, you can communicate and solve it.