How should I reply when a girl confesses How to reply to being confessed

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is a very happy thing to have a girl like you, don't be in a hurry to reject her, you can tell her first, it's too sudden, you can't react a little, tell him that you can be friends first, if she hears your reply, and no longer cares about you in the future, you can leave it alone, if she continues to associate with you, it means that she likes you more deeply, and she won't give up easily, you can try to date her, if you can, accept her. The most important thing is not to let these things affect the mood of studying.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hehe, it's normal, you can try to explain to her your goals at this time, such as getting into a good university, or something, so as to divert the focus; Then it's about being frank and lenient, telling her how you really feel, and I'm sure she'll understand.

    Hope it helps.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's just say that I don't want to have a girlfriend before the college entrance examination, and then talk about it after the college entrance examination! This is the most normal way to refuse, although it is not explained, but she must understand!! There is also a purely entertainment reply: Sorry, I like boys! Haha, pure entertainment.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on the situation. It's a yes to say yes, but it's important to say that you won't laugh at her, you won't tell others, and you won't deliberately alienate her because of this, and everyone will still maintain the previous relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. What do you like about me?

    2. Can you be friends?

    3. If you can rank in the top xx of the whole level in each exam, I will consider it (this is the next policy, hurt you and hurt my reply).

    Anyway, it's right to treat it with your most sincere attitude, and you ask yourself how to do it so that you don't regret it, and you can not hurt people's hearts.

    It's important to study more in high school (unless you don't want to).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you want to date, say yes.

    If you don't want to socialize, politely say no, just like handing out a good person card, or ask her good friend to help.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You just said that you are in high school now, and you don't want your studies to be affected by your feelings, but what you have to do now is to study hard, and you also want you to work together, not for anything else, for yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Brother: It only shows that you are charismatic. When you like her, but she doesn't know that you are the most painful. Since she likes you, you just let him find out your shortcomings in 1 month and make him dislike you!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Say this: Thank you for not hating me, but now I want to focus on my studies and don't think too much about other things, you should be able to understand!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can give him a higher goal and say that if she reaches it, she can consider it. This will not only motivate her, but also give you time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're fine, but we're not on track, so let's be friends.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Try to get to know her first, if you like it, you can date, if you don't like it, you don't want to refuse, don't hesitate!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, ......Well, there's no special emotion but I don't hate her, which proves that it's still possible to like it!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1. Thanks for liking

    It is a good thing that others like it, it means that you have something that attracts other people, or you are beautiful or have a pleasing personality or an interesting soul, it is the shining point in your body that attracts the other party, and the other party will like you and confess to you, it is worth being happy to be noticed by others, whether you like the other party or not, sincerely express your gratitude to the other party, and thank the other party for their love and attention.

    Second, explain the reason

    Don't be vague about rejecting others, one is not enough to respect the other party, and the other will leave hope for the other party, if you really don't like the other party, a decisive and neat refusal is the respect for the confessor. Therefore, when rejecting others' confessions, it is necessary to explain the reason and express the reason clearly, but pay attention to the sincerity of the tone. Be sincere, don't be contemptuous or disdainful.

    3. Affirm each other

    Rejecting other people's confessions can also properly affirm the other party, confession rejection is a more embarrassing and sad thing, and may cause self-doubt about yourself, so you can properly affirm the other party, praise the other party's advantages, and express the reasons for disagreement as much as possible from your own perspective (for example, you are a face control, and you feel that the other party's appearance does not meet your own standards, at this time, it is not that the other party is not good-looking, but that your own requirements are too high, and then affirm the other party's other advantages in a timely manner), euphemistic expression, reduce damage.

    Fourth, respond according to the occasion

    If it is a relatively large confession, there are more mutual friends, you can choose to agree first, and then quickly ask the two to talk in detail in private after agreeing, explain their feelings and embarrassment, or do not respond directly to ask the two to discuss privately, so as to save face for the other party and make their demands clear, but it should be noted that if you agree to the other party's confession first, and then have a private detailed discussion, you must be as soon as possible. Otherwise, the longer it drags on, the harder it will be to speak.

    The key to rejection with high emotional intelligence is to put yourself in the other person's shoes, minimize the other person's uneasiness and embarrassment, and express your personal wishes clearly to avoid misunderstandings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, I'm glad to be able to ask you this question As you said, how to reply to be confessed This depends on you, if you accept his confession, it must be a promise, if you don't agree or don't want to do this, you want a shopping guide, or you feel unsuitable now, or you don't want to fall in love now, it's just to let it, I wish you a happy life, can I answer it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it's someone you like, but you don't want to agree to the other party quickly, you can tell the other party that you think about it first, and then tell the other party through WeChat that you have thought about it, think his proposal is good, and approve it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    We must dare to love and hate, so if we like it, if we don't like it, we don't like it, and we must not be embarrassed because of embarrassment. Because two people can't be compromised together.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    How is it not a two-way love, just refuse it tactfully, after all, what you like is the best.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you agree, you agree, if you don't agree, you will refuse directly, so as not to delay everyone's time!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Say yes a little later, and be tactful when you refuse.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello! Some people will encounter confessions, and people will be overwhelmed. In fact, it depends on the individual's situation!

    If you don't like the other person, just say, "I'm too young to get married so early." Or, "I want to focus on my studies and ignore emotional matters first." ...If you like him, you can go after me like this: "If you think you're good, come after me!"

    Or, "It's up to you!" ”…

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1. Free and easy humor: After the defendant is white, if you want to refuse for a while and don't know how to respond, you can consider making your tone as free and easy as possible, and refuse in a joking tone, such as a very popular sentence, I treat you as a brother and you want to sleep with me! Suitable for both men and women.

    2. Self-deprecation and ridicule: Generally, the defendant wants to refuse with humor, because he doesn't want to hurt the other party's face. You can try to use self-deprecation and self-destructiveness, for example, you are too handsome and I don't deserve it.

    It's obvious self-teasing, but the other person can sense what you mean.

    3. Joke hints: It is a very classic practice to respond to confessions in a joke way. For example, if the other person asks you if you have a boyfriend, you can joke that you don't have a boyfriend, but you do have a girlfriend. There is no need to say it directly, the person who confesses can understand everyone's hints.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Be confessed and reply, don't drag the mud, agree if you agree, disagree if you don't agree, don't give the other party room for reverie. gave the other party hope and disagreed. If you don't have a good impression of the other person, make it clear.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you don't like that person, you can tell him that you are not the one who belongs to me. If you also like him, you can tell him, coincidentally, I am the same as you, I also like you and love you. Luckily, we are a two-way street.

    That's all for me. If you don't like it, don't spray.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you like it, you will be happy together, and say, I like you too.

    If you don't like it, tell each other directly that it's not suitable for each other.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hello, you have been confessed, you can tell the other party that your confession has been made, but it looks black. Ha ha.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    1.Confession typeI love you, I like you, will you marry me? I believe that many people have used this type, it is suitable for one person who has a crush on another person, but does not know the other person's heart, and usually speaks to the other party on Valentine's Day, Singles' Day, April Fool's Day.

    It should be that even if it is rejected, it can quickly resolve the embarrassment of dispensing silver. For example, the usual context is that the male protagonist asks: Who do you like?

    I'll help you chase. The heroine replied: I like you!

    Then the male protagonist doesn't reply for a long time, and the female protagonist can say: Just kidding, today is April Fool's Day, lie to you! But you don't know, I'm serious.

    2.Proactive, do you like me? Isn't it interesting for you to hide from me?

    This type is also a tentative tone, and it also depends on whether the other party likes you, if you are rejected, of course, you can say that it is a joke in the same way, if the other party is, then it may be a hit and it will be. 3.If you don't marry me after ten years, if we don't marry, will we be together?

    If there is, if I would rather never meet you, the former belongs to the prospect of the future, and the latter belongs to the emotional setback. The former scenario: one party likes the other party, but one party has not had time to love the other party, and is not ready to be with the other party, so the person who likes it gives each other a deadline to say such righteous words in order not to force the other party, but how many brothers are really together?

    The latter scenario: both parties love each other and come back to life, but due to personal reasons, one party betrays the other, and the other party is very sad and doesn't know how she lost to reality, her world has since collapsed, and all the good memories have become painful pasts. So he said this sentence to the other party that makes people love and hate:

    If there were, I'd rather never meet you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Here's how to be confessed by a girl:

    1. If you also have a good impression of this girl, you can consider accepting her confession, but you need to carefully consider the feelings and future development of both parties.

    2. If you don't have feelings for her, you need to refuse tactfully, and at the same time be careful not to hurt her feelings.

    How to confess:

    WeChat chat is now the most common way to chat, and some people may feel shy to confess in person, so they express their love through WeChat. This can make you more courageous, not timid, and, even if the other person refuses, you can change the subject and avoid embarrassment.

    2. Face-to-face confession.

    Face-to-face confession is the most commonly used method, and it is also the one with the highest success rate. Especially some people with a heart will carefully design a special confession scene, and this confession method makes many girls very shocked and moved, and they will happily accept the boy's confession.

    3. Convey it to Yu Qingji through friends.

    Of course, some people are afraid of being rejected in person, so they send flowers and love letters to each other through friends, and if they refuse, don't be embarrassed. <>

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