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Children still need the company of their parents, so even if their parents are busy with work, they must take time out to communicate with their children every day, so as to enter the inner world of their children. When you have free time, don't always think about hanging out with friends, but use your free time to do what you like with your child. As long as this can promote the relationship, let the child clearly understand in his heart that you love him, only in love can the child be sunny, confident, and cheerful.
Since he has given birth to a child, he must be responsible for this child, and he cannot use busy work as an excuse to let the child lack the company that belongs to him.
If you are too busy at work to fulfill the promise you made to hang out with your child, you must apologize to your child seriously and make an appointment for the next time you go out. If possible, bring a small gift for your child. In this way, they will establish a good image of parents in their hearts, so that your credibility will not be discounted.
If your child's credibility is ruined, they will probably not want to communicate with you in the future. It's a terrible thing, so even for children, we have to make sure that we don't let them down.
If you're busy, be sure to take advantage of the fragmented time between work. For example, in between work, you can send WeChat to your child to ask him what he is doing, care about whether he has eaten well, etc., and when he gets home, he can accompany his child to eat together, and then watch cartoons or variety shows that children love to watch, so that children can feel the warmth of the family. Children are still very simple, and their inner world is easy to walk into, but once it destroys their trust in you, then it will be difficult to make up for it.
It is still important for children to thrive and enter their inner world, so parents should give their children enough love.
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You should take time to communicate with your child more, and have a comprehensive and in-depth understanding of your child's life and learning status, and be your child's playmate.
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I think it is necessary to play games and communicate together, because children are naturally dependent on their parents, so I can guide my children to let them speak their minds.
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If you want to get into your child's inner world, you don't have to be overly complicated. You can do outdoor camping and other activities with your children in your free time, which can not only relax and relax, but also have full communication with your children. Remember that no matter how busy you are at work, you must let your child feel the love of his parents, so that his inner world will open up to you.
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Make time to play with your child or participate in more parent-child activities.
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