How to get into the psychology of high school students, how to provide psychological counseling to h

Desire for independence. Students who go to high school will be more independent than they were in junior high school, they always feel that they have grown up, so there are many problems that they are reluctant to communicate with the outside world, including their parents. Therefore, when encountering problems, on the one hand, they are reluctant to communicate with others, but on the other hand, they hope that someone can help them solve them, so many people are lonely or even withdrawn during this period.

Comparison vanity is aggravated.

Compared with junior high school, high school will be exposed to a wider range of people, especially some key high schools, everyone has passed the high school entrance examination to the school that is difficult for ordinary people to be admitted, everyone will have a sense of superiority, but with the adaptation of high school life, many people find that this is not the case at all, among these students, there are many families with money, and there are many students who are wrong and have good grades, so at this time, the gap will appear, Everyone will have different degrees of jealousy: for example, children from rural areas will envy students with superior family conditions, while students with poor grades will envy students with poor family conditions, and so on A series of comparison psychology will be reflected.

Impulsiveness, fragility and sensitivity.

Many students in high school have a serious rebellious mentality, some children and their parents will run away from home if they don't agree with each other, early love has been very common at this stage, in pairs, huddle together for warmth, and eventually the school is wasted, and the feelings are fragile, unable to withstand a little wind and rain, and end in failure.

Inferiority. The difference in academic performance will make children invisibly have a serious inferiority complex, and they are even reluctant to go to tutoring classes to escape this problem; The advantages and disadvantages of the family environment make many children close themselves off and do not rush to communicate with others, for fear that others will know that their family conditions are not good. And so on, these are all things that parents need to pay attention to.

Poor ability to resist frustration.

Due to the poor psychological quality of very children, many people have not yet reached the college entrance examination or after the college entrance examination is over, it is easy to go to extremes, every year during the college entrance examination, some children will choose to commit suicide to escape reality, in fact, if parents are aware of the child's abnormal movement before this, maybe many tragedies will not happen. Only after understanding the psychological dynamics of our children can our parents effectively communicate with their children, avoid them from taking many detours, and let our children grow up happily.

High school students are in the rebellious period of adolescence, and they have a lot of ideas of their own at this time. Don't think of criticizing him immediately when he does something wrong, communicate with him, communicate with him like a classmate, and don't use the authority of his parents to suppress him, so he won't tell you many things. If you can communicate with him according to your young mind, it will be easier to get into his heart.

1. Infiltrate psychological counseling in physical education classes

In a relaxed environment, you can let go of your defenses, and all parts of your body will be more comfortable and active. Especially in physical education class, teachers make full use of the characteristics of teaching materials to provide psychological counseling to students in a timely manner, help students eliminate psychological barriers, establish positive signals, move forward bravely, and establish confidence and courage to overcome difficulties. Let students think about problems on their own, cultivate their sense of cooperation, and find solutions to problems by themselves;

2. Individual psychological counseling:

Individual counseling for individual students is the most direct and important way of psychological counseling. Some students with learning difficulties should also be the object of attention, not only to help them in their studies, but also to help them analyze the reasons for backwardness, guide them to eliminate difficulties, and build confidence;

3. Create opportunities for students to "learn".

Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a great educator, put forward "life is education" and "society is school"; Life is everywhere, that is, education is everywhere. Teachers should lead students to observe, discover, learn, and participate, and cultivate students' ability to observe, think, and research in the hands-on process. And use more encouragement in activities to inspire them to recognize their achievements and advantages, and continue to work hard.

High school students are a special group, and they have various problems at their special stage. Students at this stage have a certain ability to think, but they are not mature enough. Thoughts are easily influenced and extreme, and once a thing is identified, it is difficult to reverse it.

They are able to see some of the essence of things, but they are incomplete, self-righteous, and often easily misled.

Rather than addressing the behaviors exhibited at this stage, it is better to start at the root cause. Conduct some debates so that everyone has the opportunity to participate. For example:

Is academic qualification important or ability important, the dialectical relationship between reading and intelligence, the influence of parents' expectations on us, the relationship between examination and study, the achievement of learning and goals, and the realization of ideals must be read? Wait a minute.

Through debate, students can better see their own shortcomings and learn how to realize their life values.

As long as a problem is found, a debate meeting is immediately held, which can not only solve the current problem, but also prevent other students from happening.

Parents can find appropriate opportunities for their children to be exposed to their jobs or social situations. Children at this age are more sensitive and hesitant. What you say is better than what you do can have an effect, and you can give children the right guidance through words and deeds.

Don't force your child to be, how to be, don't take your child's responsibilities at will. It is worth praising the child's ability to give affirmation, even if it is a wrong answer, but he does think about it.

As long as the child is still willing to think and believe, there is nothing that cannot be solved.

These are some of the general ways to deal with them. Negative behaviors such as Internet addiction syndrome need to be corrected by a special plan. You don't need to go to a concentration camp, just find a professional counselor who will help you solve your child's problems.

Hope it helps!