Am I doing something wrong? Are we incompatible personalities?

After reading your tirade, I understand why your boyfriend is bored.

As you can tell from your description, your boyfriend has a stressful job. And what did you do at this time? Instead of putting yourself in his position and thinking about him, you put further pressure on him - desperately bombarded with text messages and **, for fear that he would abandon you.

The more you push, the more he can't stand you.

There is a limit to human patience, beyond a certain range, it can no longer be restored, please do it yourself!

What else do you have to do with this kind of person?

Boys and the like, as long as he wants to break up with you, what reason is not a reason, in other words, it is a crime to add to it, why bother?

My friend's buddy is like this, he wants to dump his girlfriend, and he doesn't say it directly, he just looks for trouble all day long Look at your description, that man basically wants to break up with you, why should you bother.

If you want to open up, it's just a man, don't torture yourself

Might you like to be chic? Can't you see it? You've fought for enough, you're begging for love like this, and even if you do, he won't care

Don't say that you have done something wrong, that is, if you don't do anything wrong, if you say a few words that are not pleasing to your ears, he will find a reason to prevaricate you, he will be picky everywhere, and it is better not to have a boyfriend like him, so as not to have more and more contradictions in the future, at that time, regret is greater, and the injury is himself, it is better to find someone who can truly love you, tolerate and understand you, and this person will accompany you for a lifetime.

If you think you have done something wrong, you should change it, communicate well with both parties, solve the problem, and believe.

He will understand and accept you.

Such a person does not love you, and cannot tolerate your shortcomings and shortcomings, and when you encounter a little thing, you will break up, and your personality is inappropriate, so leave him as soon as you are young, and drag it out to the end to hurt others and yourself.

In the drip, drip!! Why grovel and beg for perfection???

Personality incompatibility, whether you should get a divorce, treat them differently. If the relationship between the husband and wife does break down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, divorce can be considered;

Otherwise, it is recommended to carefully consider the considerations, after all, divorce is not child's play. There are many reasons for divorce, generally because the relationship between the two parties has indeed broken down, and there is no possibility of reconciliation; Otherwise, there will be no divorce. Other reasons include drug abuse, gambling, domestic violence, and repeated repudiation.

Article 31 of the Marriage Law Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault.

It doesn't matter if the personality is compatible or not, the key is whether it is enough love or not.

No matter what reason you file for divorce, there will be many people who will persuade you, not right or wrong, both internally.

However, if you choose to be together, no one will want it to break. In fact, everyone has a certain amount of helplessness, if you don't feel unbearable, you won't casually file for divorce. But if the personality can change slightly, if there is still the possibility of a reversal, I hope to give her a chance, after all, divorce is not a trivial matter, think about it, friend, I hope you can be happy

Personality incompatibility does not mean emotional incompatibility and incompatibility. Divorce is an emotional breakdown, and there is no husband and wife. The court sentenced the divorce to the marriage.

Personality incompatibility will not be a condition for divorce, the two parties can communicate with each other due to personality incompatibility, deepen language communication, both parties use less radical language, and find a point of convergence. Influence each other, run in for a long time, and the couple's life is still good. Understand, help analysis.

Maybe it's really inappropriate, but it's more likely that you feel that other things are inappropriate, and saying that your personality won't affect your face.

What do you think?? Personality incompatibility, this is the worst but most commonly used excuse.

Because you're stupid, you don't meet her standards, you don't necessarily do anything wrong, it's probably that there is no topic in the chat, and the words are not speculative for more than half a sentence, which is exactly what it means.

Maybe you didn't do anything wrong, but everything you do she compares with herself, maybe not the result she wants.

Maybe it's really a disagreement, not an excuse.

It's definitely not good to say it directly, and it's not appropriate to tell you tactfully. Or maybe it's an excuse.

There are more suitable ones. Dump your excuses!

I want to break up in a way that doesn't hurt you.

The perfect reason to break up, that we are not suitable and not that you are bad.

It should be that the girl doesn't like you anymore.

It's right to stand on either side, and it's wrong to stand on either side.

It's not that the personality is incompatible, it's in the run-in period.

Under what circumstances do you usually throw away and replace the food you use? It's nothing more than it's not easy to use, it's not good to wear, it's not delicious, and it's probably uncomfortable to sum up, and it's just that you can't find a better way to express it.

Actually, some people really do! Obviously I did something wrong first, and I said that others did something wrong! I don't think she's qualified to say anything about you! So you're not wrong! Ignore your ex-girlfriend

Maybe your ex-girlfriend has a misunderstanding about you, but you're both separated, and there's no need to dwell on these things anymore.

Just break up and be with someone else right away, you don't care, your girlfriend can still make trouble after breaking up, not to mention, there is only one smart person in it is the person who has a crush on you, ready to move your story at this best time Choose a suitable person to tell you, not bad! Brilliant tricks!

Just broke up and talked to someone else's woman, are you trying it? At first glance you are a childish person and boring.

1. Reflect on yourself and have the courage to admit your mistakes

In fact, what kind of person he is, he knows best, many times he is unwilling to admit it, or for the sake of his own face and dignity, he still talks nonsense about the other party's mistakes, does not admit his mistakes, and forces the other party to admit his mistakes, once or twice, more, the other party doesn't do it, he says that the other party doesn't care about himself, he doesn't fit with himself, and always let the other party spoil himself, if this is the case, no one will be able to stand it, or learn to reflect on himself, he has done wrong, and he has the courage to admit his mistakes, And actively correct.

2. Strict requirements for self-cultivation

If you can be strict with yourself, let yourself continue to read, recharge yourself, be able to control your bad emotions, and easily resolve conflicts when encountering contradictions, then there will be no problem of personality incompatibility, and personality incompatibility is caused by your own lack of cultivation.

3. Accept reality and don't run away

Said that people with incompatible personalities are actually people with weak hearts, they dare not accept the reality, let alone face all kinds of difficulties encountered in life, choose to escape, and are still making excuses for their cowardice, husband and wife will encounter all kinds of friction and contradictions, and will also encounter unexpected difficulties, strong people dare to face it, and actively find ways to solve it, and people who are incapable choose to escape, give up, break up, or learn to actively solve problems in order to make marriage last, love last, and they will be happy for a lifetime.

1. No.

If you don't agree, you only don't care.

In my opinion, there is no such thing as a personality incompatibility in the world, which is just an excuse to cover up the failure of the relationship. Personality incompatibility is a particularly negative way of thinking, and the logic behind it is that the two of us are inherently incompatible, and the failure of the relationship has nothing to do with the two of us.

And in fact, what a relationship needs is management, and if you want to hit it off, it is impossible to have friction between two people. We need to understand each other and care for each other.

2. Reflect on your own problems.

When there are contradictions and differences, don't blindly blame the other party, subconsciously shift the responsibility to the other party, you should reflect on yourself: what did you not do well, and what could you do better? Have the courage to admit mistakes and actively correct them.

People with incompatible personalities have less contact recently, and they will inevitably quarrel when they are together.

There are still two sides to things, and the opposite personalities start to get along by mutual attraction, and the contradictions will increase after a long time. Again, the crux of the matter is "people".

It's best not to be together if you don't have the same personality, otherwise there will be a lot of conflicts in your life.

Since it's a personality incompatibility, there's no need to be together.

Then it's better to divide it, otherwise there will be a lot of noise in the future.

Breaking up, how uncomfortable it is for two people to not get together.

should break up, because the problem of personality cannot be solved, and there will be trouble in the future.

True love can be changed.

Excuse! Whether it feels right or not is true.

Well, then you're going to cling to her!

If both of you think so, then there is no need to continue, let it go sooner, the longer you hold it, the more painful it will be.

He was angry with me and I coaxed him...Will let him.

If the personalities are not compatible, they will be separated, what is the need to be together, how uncomfortable it is for two people to quarrel every day.

1. Don't think about changing the other person:

When talking about personality incompatibility, it is because both parties want to change each other, and they both want each other to do what they want in their hearts, and if they don't achieve what they want in their hearts, they think that two people can't get along.

In fact, he is changing the other party, and he also wants the other party to change, but have you ever thought about it, why change the other party, everyone has everyone's living habits and ways of thinking, and besides, he was not like this at the beginning, it was not him who changed, it was another person, don't think about changing the other party, you should think about changing your own way of doing things in order to get along.

2. Empathy and understanding:

If you want to be in tune with each other, if you want to have a compatible personality, then empathize more, put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about the problem, if you say that and do that, will you really hurt the other party, how will the other party feel when you hear it, and what will you think?

The other party asks him to change, he must do what he asks, can he do it? Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself, and more empathy will reduce contradictions and frictions, and make the relationship between two people deeper.

Break up, two people's personalities are not compatible, and there are too many contradictions.

Yes, your girlfriend thinks that you are not suitable and your personality is not compatible, you can communicate with your girlfriend again to see if it is possible to redeem it?

Sometimes two people's personalities can be run-in, but they have to understand and tolerate each other.

Have a great day!

Yes, and it also takes care of your face, and doesn't talk about your faults, just about your incompatible personality, not your shortcomings, can't tolerate your things, etc., so that you can get together and disperse. Atmospheric points bless each other.

In this way, it is actually equivalent to you breaking up, your personalities are not compatible, there is no benefit in getting along, and it is important to find someone who matches your personality.

Yes, if your girlfriend says this, he clearly wants to break up with you, because your personalities are not suitable for each other, and getting along with each other will be fruitless.

The girlfriend should be considered to have proposed a breakup, and if you don't want to, you can strongly redeem it.

I think this is an indirect proposal to break up, so I can fight for it.

If the girl says this, it means that he wants to break up.

Oh, have you ever been together?

It's very clear that the girl proposed to you to break up!

Two people with incompatible personalities can also be together.

Some people say that the so-called incompatible personalities are just an excuse for not loving, and I used to think so, but after listening to too many stories about hurting each other in a relationship because of incompatible personalities, I have to admit that no matter how much I am heartbroken, I can't resist the mutual torture and consumption of incompatible personalities.

If two people truly love each other, there is no such thing as incompatibility. No matter which side you are, you will change for the sake of the other. Some small shortcomings will be slowly run in life, communicate with each other, and understand each other.

Instead of pointing fingers at each other as soon as there is a problem. Conflicts between husband and wife can never be the fault of one party. If it is a one-sided issue, it is impossible to quarrel.

Communicate after tolerating each other. Isn't that the problem solved!

Now you say that the personalities are incompatible. I want to say if you have a change of heart. I don't want to be with each other anymore, I don't want to say a word to each other, and I don't even want to look at each other more. The feeling with you is that the two personalities are not compatible. Actually, you don't love each other anymore.

If so, let it go. It's good for both parties. Since they don't love each other, why bother tying them up. That would be painful for both sides.

Sometimes, letting go is also a kind of love, rather than working hard to maintain a lingering love, it is better to have the courage to leave, one parting and two forgiveness, and each life is happy, which is not another better result of this relationship.

When two people are together, they just want to get married for life, before they get married, no matter how they are not integrated, but as long as two people love each other and firmly believe that they can go on. Then, two people should tolerate each other, give each other a little time, slowly run in, and finally be able to be together.