Does he really treat me like a buddy? Does he treat me like a buddy, or does he like me?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What a stupid person, such a sincere feeling! I want to give you happiness, I want to take care of everything about you, but I don't dare to confess to you, I'm afraid that after refusing, I won't have a chance to take care of you, I won't have a chance to hurt you! In the end, I gave up my will, and became a good friend to take care of you, care for you, and silently protect you on the side, but sometimes with you, there is a hard to suppress urge to talk to you, so sometimes you feel that he is very ambiguous!

    Hehe. The artistic conception is very high, "there is a kind of love called letting go, giving up for love for a long time" to suppress their true emotions, just to continue to care for you and take care of you "reasonably". Hehe, it's been a long time since I've seen someone like this!

    I raise a glass to this man (don't get me wrong, I'm also a male citizen with a normal sexual orientation). There is a song called "There is a kind of love called letting go", Amu sings personally like it, you can listen to it and see if you can listen to something. Loving someone can be so sad that you can let go, I think it's a very sad but romantic thing.

    To be honest, I used to do this, for a girl, I have been her "good friend" for 3 years, and finally I felt that she finally understood my mind, and then rejected me with affection, and said like a sigh: "If you confess to me at the beginning, I will not hesitate to agree to you, but over the years, I only think that you are my friend, and now I also have someone I like, so we can't do it, alas!" I'm sorry to disappoint you" I still remember that indescribable feeling that day!

    Hehe, raise a glass to the man! (Don't be a drunkard!) Actually, I don't like to drink, and I don't have any alcohol, and if you drink more than 1 pound of liquor, you won't be able to drink anything) I don't know if I say this, can you understand how to deal with this problem, I hope it can help you!

    I'm sorry for talking about my own things for no reason, but instead I confided in you I'm sorry haha! I wish you can handle this problem well, and I hope you can get the happiness you want!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    As I said, there will be no real friendship between men and women, you can rest assured of this! ”

    Thanks, give me a share,

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This one upstairs is really funny.

    I suspect he had a motive, oh, the post isn't upstairs.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He doesn't like he's treating you like a buddy! Your relationship may have just started out as that kind of buddy, but then unconsciously it gradually evolved into an ambiguous relationship. So there are some changes in the process of progression, which will catch you off guard!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Faint: It's good that you're a woman, otherwise I thought he was gay, I don't know, I don't know the actual situation, if I told you, I liked you 100%, but since you came here to find the answer, you know that at least you still care about him very much, and what to do, others can't teach you

    It's just that if it's a question, he's not treating you like a buddy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe. There's no such thing as a simple friendship between men and women, you know? Or, don't be angry, isn't he a little feminine?

    First of all, at first he definitely likes you, and secondly, after a long time, he has a sense of attachment to you. I want to get you but can't get it, I don't know how to be good in my heart, so I will treat you as a friend to be with you first! I think he's in love with you.

    Hehe. It's just a personal opinion, no one can say it clearly!

    If he's not feminine, he'll be interesting to you!

    I promise, it's not as simple as a buddy!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I guess I like you but I don't dare to express it, so I can only make strange movements to attract you to pay more attention to him.

    I suggest sitting down with him and having a good chat.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you think he's like that with other people?

    What if he was the kind of person who was taciturn, then?

    Do you notice what he is like with others.

    Or you ask the person who is being treated if he or she doesn't talk very much.

    Maybe I'll treat you as his sister.

    If none of the above are the same.

    That's what you're thinking.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    An ordinary friend has never seen you cry.

    A true friend has the shoulders to get your tears wet.

    An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names.

    A real friend has their** on the address book.

    An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party.

    A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you clean.

    An ordinary friend is like a guest when he visits.

    A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.

    An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel.

    A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.

    An ordinary friend expects you to always be by his side.

    A true friend expects him to be there for you forever.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    At first glance, I know that I have a good impression of you. All kinds of signs.

    1 Kiss you, kisses are rarely used in China to express (except for family affection, love), and whether he takes care of you, if you don't like you very much, there is no need to do this, I'm not afraid that you will misunderstand.

    2 He said that if he wants you to tell him how to chase him, are you very experienced, otherwise it means indirectly to ask you how to soak you.

    3 Feed you, feed you in public, and you think he says your father.4 He thinks you're thin, so why bother talking about your future boyfriend?

    5 And he was all happy, and what more could he say?

    6 often say why are you so cute, you should know how to put it obviously, but I personally think, let the boy take the initiative, you give him a hint Don't miss it, I wish you happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's do two simulated relationships. Ask him out, saying that he wants to bring his boyfriend to meet him, buddy. When I went, I went by myself and told him that I thought it was okay, but my boyfriend heard about it and disappeared.

    After a few days, tell him, "Broke up." It's okay. Dude Matters!

    One more time, one more time. See what he does. The rest of the matter will be pushed down the river.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Dude has buddy rules.

    Where have you ever seen a creature like buddy kiss goodbye?

    Where have you ever seen a creature like a buddy say that your buddy is cute?

    Chick, don't be stupid, let's be together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The landlord confessed decisively, and the identity of the person who came over told you that there must be a play, but it may be that the man has something unspeakable, I guess.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Obviously I have a crush on you, for myself: I'll joke with girls that she's small, but if I don't love her, I will never make intimate moves to her.

    Generally speaking, I don't recommend girls to take the initiative, but the situation you mentioned is an exception, I found that this boy is very cheap! Maybe it's because I'm too confident in myself and don't confess to the girl; The second is that he is afraid of being rejected by you. Take the initiative, you can't lose anything if you fail, right?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Time is running out. Once you enter the society, there are too many variables and many changes. Cherish the present and sort out the relationship as soon as possible. Like a few people downstairs said, you can really try him. Once you lose it now, it's really unclear what you will say in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Take the initiative and see how he reacts.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you like him, confess it! Unless you enjoy the ambiguity as well, then leave it as it is ...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on what you think, if you like him, then don't think about anything, go with your feelings.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's that I don't want to pierce this film in the name of brothers, I think it's more fun to be brothers!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Harmonious coexistence, I am for everyone, everyone is for me.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1 All two outcomes: one is that you are hallucinating, and the other is that he likes you. 1.He kisses you 23Care about your amount of food, physical condition 4Caring about you, hinted at 5Is the last paragraph simply an indirect confession?

    Say it if you like it, or you'll miss it. It's nothing to lose face, it's not worth mentioning compared to love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's good, although you think you're not emotionally happy, I think you're lucky.

    You're all still studying, and you're in college, and I think it's rare to have this kind of hazy friendship, and it's rare to have this kind of boy.

    I'm also a boy, in fact, compared to the relationship between men and women, I quite enjoy the feeling of being a Maji with a girl, relaxed and natural. Of course, when I or she is sad, both parties will not be stingy with their care, even if both parties have an emotional belonging. So I have a lot of female friends around me now, and they are all the kind of people who can talk very well, I treat them as buddies, and they treat me as sisters.

    In fact, everyone is the same, everyone says that boys are all sexual, and they want to eat one when they see one. In fact, why not girls? It's just that girls are shy by nature and embarrassed to take the initiative, and they only dare to think about things by themselves and suffer by themselves.

    If you really like, no, you should say that you are in love with him, you should boldly confess to him. I'm sure he's not stupid, and he must have sensed that you like him, so he deliberately made himself feel like he was leaving. It's just that he ignores the fact that the result of being a couple of moments will only make you more obsessed with him.

    So, if you love, just say it, don't hurt yourself in the end.

    If you think that after getting him, you will not be as free as now, and it is better than now, just let go decisively and do Maji with him! In fact, sometimes people can't suffer from gains and losses like this, and making decisive decisions will make your life happier.

    PS: You're about to graduate from college, so cherish your last days of college. Because in your future, these times will be treasures of memory.

    Don't leave regrets, go crazy when you should go crazy It's not a big deal. But I can't delay my studies, I've been busy for 4 years, and I can't say that I have fallen short.

    Habilua

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If he still communicates with you in this ambiguous state, I advise lz to be decisive, indicating that he doesn't really love you, if he really cares about you as a woman, he will come to you thousands of miles away, you can try to reject him something, see what his reaction is, if you don't understand anything, you can ask me.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There will never be any buddies between men and women, and the relationship between breakups and friends is always said on the lips, but no one knows what they think in their hearts.

    He just has a crush on you, if you also have a crush on him and want him to chase you further.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's very good, even if you can't be a couple, but you're very happy

    It feels like he has a good impression of you, and I always feel that his actions and words are a little suggestive.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I have a good impression of you, I am a boy, I have that kind of experience, that kind of intimacy, love and even pettiness for you, which is a reflection of having a good impression of you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    He looked at me and said, "You're really thin now, don't lose any more weight, or Mimi will get smaller too." Does he treat me as a buddy, or does he have a crush on me too? .Have a good impression ...If you love him, you will tell.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, do you treat him as a buddy? Boys are good to girls in no more than 1Purposeful approach 2Fall in love, treat you as a sister as a buddy (but obviously not a buddy) and see that I like you very much.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Feel like you like people, relax, and go with the feeling. Only he knows what kind of feelings he has for you, and after a long time, you will define your relationship.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Do you think he's going to help you block buddies? That's unrealistic, it's just that he doesn't want to be close to you, or he's scared, you can ask her out once, of course, the scenic spot is good, you pretend to pick up ** and say I'm playing outside with my boyfriend Just look at his face If he says no, you say yes If not, say I'm joking Be brave, or he'll regret finding a girlfriend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's okay to be tempting, maybe he's posting the same question.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    And I think if you like him, you just take the initiative.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hehe, if a man says that he takes a woman as a brother, he has a situation, and his happiness must be grasped by himself, and he can be tempted.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I like it, I like it in a different way.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    He likes you, and what you said above is all for reason. Remember, if someone cares too much about you, then they must have a purpose! Because there is no love in the world without a cause.

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