Now that we have a puppy love situation in school, what should I do?

Updated on educate 2024-05-29
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    To be clear, I'm a high school student.

    There is such a pair in our class, they stick together all day, but they often discuss and study, so their grades are very good, so although the teacher knows, they all open one eye and close one eye, and our English teacher will deliberately joke about the boy in class, hehe. If you have to try puppy love, I hope you can encourage each other and improve each other in this way. It's not just about going to school together, going home together, shopping together, etc.

    Do you understand.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How old is the child?

    Kindergarten students fall in love with puppy love.

    Elementary school students and above are not counted.

    As long as it doesn't interfere with your studies, you can fall in love.

    But I have to remind you.

    At this time, the relationship will definitely break up.

    Don't be too sad then.

    Just don't interfere with your life.

    Hehe. Good luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't fall in love or have a young love but don't affect your studies, it's fine.

    Is it love for the sake of falling in love? It is unnecessary, a waste of time, a waste of feelings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Puppy love is already too common, if you want to, then you can give it a try, without affecting your studies

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Puppy love is not a bad thing, it's normal, just pay attention to your studies, it's normal to pat and procrastinate

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Bear with me, you will regret it if you fall into it, and it will be more troublesome.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I want to too, but I still have to endure it, we're still too young, there's no point in doing this!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Focus on your studies and talk about it when you grow up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't find a GF yourself just because everyone else has a GF....It's a crowd, it's meaningless

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're so cute,,, don't you have a gf.? It's so naïve.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, if I am a class teacher and find out that a student has a puppy love, I will first have a personal conversation with the student to understand their thoughts and situation, so that they can realize the adverse consequences of puppy love and the impact on their study life. At the same time, I will tell them about their parents, so that parents and the school can jointly educate and guide students to establish a correct outlook on love and life.

    In addition, I will also carry out relevant education and publicity in the class, so that all students in Xuezhen are aware of the adverse effects of early love, and guide them to establish correct values and outlook on life. At the same time, I will also pay attention to the interpersonal relationships in the class, find and resolve the conflicts between students in time, create a good class atmosphere, and avoid students from having the idea of early love due to boredom, loneliness and other reasons.

    In short, as a class teacher, we need to find and deal with the problem of students' early love in a timely manner, guide students to establish a correct outlook on life and values, create a good class atmosphere, and let students grow up healthily.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I understand the feelings that parents or teachers may feel worried about when they find out that their students are in early love. For this kind of problem, I suggest that you treat it calmly and take appropriate measures to guide students to view and deal with romantic emotions correctly, while protecting their physical and mental health. Here are a few suggestions:

    1.Get to know your students.

    When guiding students, it is necessary to first understand the students' situation, including their age, gender, physical and mental health, family background, study, social situation, etc. Getting to know the students will help you better understand the specific situation involved in the question and guide the students appropriately according to the situation.

    2.Guide students correctly.

    In view of the phenomenon of early love, we should guide students to understand the true meaning of love emotion, and warn them that early love may have negative effects, such as affecting their studies, family, and physical and mental health. Students can be reminded that the desire for love in adolescence is a normal psychological reaction, and they should also be reminded that "true feelings", "honesty and relativity", and "long-term stability" are the cornerstones of a stable relationship compared to frequent changes in heterosexual relationships.

    3.Early intervention.

    If the student's early love situation is more serious, such as it has caused other problems such as absenteeism, truancy, depression, etc., or his lover obviously has a bad influence on him, then parents or teachers need to intervene as soon as possible, especially if it is a girl, they should be guided to protect themselves, especially not to have sex impulsively, which is harmful to themselves and the other party.

    4.Communicate with parents.

    When solving the problem of students' early love, schools need to fully communicate with parents, convey the content and methods of guiding students to parents, and work together to pay attention to children's growth and development.

    Although puppy love is a common social phenomenon, students are still in the stage of adolescent development, and their psychology and physiology are very fragile, so families and schools should strengthen guidance and intervention to provide useful help to help them adjust their positive attitudes and better face the challenges of growth.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As a noisy morning class teacher, if I find that a student is in early love, I will deal with it in the following ways:

    1.Interview the student in question. First, interview the student privately to find out the relationship between them and the severity of their early love. Through the conversation, they are aware of the possible effects and risks of early love, and they need to be stopped in time.

    2.Notify parents. If the student is not determined enough to end the puppy love, I will get in touch with the student's parents to inform them of the situation in detail, and strive for the parents' support and cooperation to jointly urge the student to end the relationship.

    3.Heightened observation. Students who are in early love, whether it ends or not, I will pay more attention and observe them later.

    Confirm whether their emotional and learning status is normal, and whether there is a situation where they need help and guidance. And pay close attention to the interaction in the classroom to prevent emotional problems from affecting classroom discipline.

    4.Interview the class. When appropriate, I also have interviews with the class to reiterate school rules and emphasize the correct concept of love and the problems and consequences that early love can cause. The right attitude of the whole class can also promote the end of the inappropriate feelings.

    5.Continuing education. In addition to handling individual cases, I will also strengthen the cultivation of students' love concepts and sex education in daily life through life education courses, especially for adolescent students.

    Continuous education can help them develop reasonable values in the long run, so that they can be vigilant and fall in love rationally.

    To sum up, the handling of early love needs to be combined with the parties' conversations, parental contact, daily observations, group interviews, etc. But more importantly, it is necessary to strengthen life education and sex education, and continue to guide students to form a correct view of love, which is the root of solving the problem. The above are my thoughts and methods as a class teacher for dealing with students' early love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1.Stay calm: I will remain calm to avoid emotional handling and make sure that I am handling it sensibly and responsibly.

    2.Conversations with students: I have one-on-one conversations with students to get to know their feelings and thoughts.

    I will listen to them and give them full respect and understanding.

    3.Help students recognize problems: I will help students recognize the possible negative effects of early love, such as affecting academics, physical and mental health, etc. I would tell them that during adolescence, they should focus on their studies and develop good self-values and a way of changing their lives.

    4.Communicate with parents: I will communicate with the parents of the students, inform them of the situation, and advise the parents to assist the school in guiding and educating the students.

    During this process, I will maintain an open and transparent way of communication. 5.Provide support and assistance:

    I will provide emotional support and assistance to students, such as providing psychological counselling and advising students to establish a healthy lifestyle.

    In short, dealing with the problem of puppy love in students requires us to treat it with a rational and responsible attitude, fully verify and understand it, and provide necessary support and help.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If I am a class teacher and I find that a student is in love with God, I will take the following steps:

    1.Talk to students: First, I will talk to students who are involved in puppy love to understand their situation and thoughts, and at the same time tell them about the harm and impact of puppy love, and how to put feelings and life in perspective.

    2.Communicate with parents: If the situation is serious, I will communicate with the parents of the students and tell them about the situation and dangers of the children, so that the parents can better guide the children and help them to put their feelings and life in perspective.

    3.Strengthen class management: In addition to communicating with students and parents, I will also strengthen class management, strengthen education and guidance for students, and improve students' self-management ability and self-restraint ability, so as to better prevent the occurrence of bad behaviors such as early love.

    4.Provide psychological counseling: If students have psychological problems due to problems such as early love, I will provide psychological counseling in a timely manner to help them relieve stress and anxiety, and at the same time guide them to look at their feelings and life correctly, so as to better get out of the predicament.

    In short, as a class teacher, I found that students were in early love, and I need to take timely measures to communicate with students and parents, strengthen class management, provide psychological counseling, etc., so as to better guide students and help them view their feelings and life correctly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Be the right guide and tell the child the correct view of love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If I were a class teacher and I found out that a student was in love, I would do the following:

    1.Understand the situation: First of all, I will understand the specific situation of the student, including the cause, influence and degree of early love, etc., so that I can formulate corresponding educational measures.

    2.Educational guidance: I will convey the correct outlook on love and values to students through educational guidance, help them establish a correct outlook on life and values, and avoid getting involved in love too early.

    3.Parent intervention: I will communicate with the parents of the student, inform them of the student's early love situation, and jointly assist the student to overcome the problem of early love.

    4.Psychological counseling: For students with serious puppy love problems, I will arrange psychological counseling to help them solve psychological problems and improve their self-awareness and self-management skills.

    5.Supervision and management: I will strengthen the supervision and management of students to ensure that they do not engage in bad behavior on campus and avoid affecting the learning and life of other students.

    In short, as a class teacher, we should pay attention to the all-round development and physical and mental health of students, and for bad behaviors such as early love, we should actively take measures to help students overcome problems, cultivate correct values and beliefs, and promote the all-round development of students.

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