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I really admire Beipiao, admire their courage, admire their persistence in ideals, even if they know that there are very few people who can succeed in the end, but they are still willing to try, I saw a passage written by Beipiao a long time ago: I just want to do something when I was young, do something for my ideals, as for the result, I have no ability to control, I don't want to regret it later! I just feel sorry for my family, but there are many things you can only choose one ...... in the endYes, they skip breakfast every day to save money, crowd the bus, and live in a small basement, just to have a chance, and Beijing is the place with the most opportunities, but it is also the place with the most competition.

I think the most painful thing for you is not this harsh environment, but seeing that the friends around you can't hold on one by one, and slowly return to the place where they started, and slowly live the life they once hated. It's the time when your family asks you how you are, and when you hold back your tears and say, "It's okay, I'm fine." I hope you take a break when you're tired and be optimistic, a lot of things are already beautiful just by the process, aren't they?

It's nice to do what you love all the time, isn't it?

After graduation, I want to stay away from the city, in order to have more employment opportunities, in the period of confusion when I graduated to find a job, I resolutely chose the place of work in Beijing, and went to Beijing after graduation, and found a salary higher than that of the same period of graduates. You don't need to crowd the subway, you don't need to worry about the rent, you can save a sum of money every month for food, clothing, and life. But Beijing is Beijing, it's not that you can survive just by seeing the benefits in front of you, all kinds of problems are coming one after another, the pressure at work, and the emotional blankness are eroding my heart that is determined to stay in Beijing little by little.

It was because of my limited ability to work, and I couldn't find a place for me in a company full of talents, and once again I made a negligent mistake, and was labeled by the boss as careless and not loving the company; After failing on blind dates again and again, I will not have a simple and sincere relationship. To be precise, I became a deserter, escaped from Beijing, escaped from that environment that suffocated me a little.

Back then, for the ideals in my heart, in order to let my family live a good life like others. I left my hometown and came to the city alone. In order to find a job sooner, I can earn money to support my family as soon as possible.

I can only do the dirty, tiring, low-paying jobs that others don't want to do. I endured loneliness and longing for my family. silently endured the work in a foreign land and the various inconveniences brought to him in life.

Even if you are sometimes wronged, you can only break your teeth and swallow it in your stomach. When I was talking to my parents, I just reported good news and not bad news. Because my elderly and sick parents knew about my current condition.

It will make them more worried, floating on the outside. Let my parents follow the anxiety, and they will also urge me to go home early and do it if I don't do it well! The rest will not solve my practical difficulties, and will only add to my own troubles.

The most important thing is not easy to be in the heart, I can't feel the hope of life, and I am like a machine that repeats movement every day; This is the most terrifying, although the money earned is more than twice that of the hometown, but there is not much money left over from going out and messing around. So after persevering for six or seven years, my brother resolutely chose to return to his hometown. Finally, I wish all the brothers and sisters in Beipiao, keep the dream in your heart and be happy every day.

The problem of living, you can't go to Beijing to live in the subway station or underpass! These places are okay for a day or two, but after all, they are not a long-term solution. But the housing prices in Beijing are too high, not to mention buying, even if you rent a good place, you will have to pay 8,000 yuan, even an ordinary building will cost 5,000 or 6,000, so you don't even think about these places when you first arrive in Beijing.

The rest is the urban village, or share, and the basement, of course, the basement is the cheapest among them, but the environment is also the worst, especially dark and damp, my brother lived in it for three years, at that time 350 per month, it is estimated that now it has to be seven or eight hundred, and I recently heard that the basement in Beijing is not allowed to rent.

Housing prices in big cities are so expensive that you may have struggled there for a long, long time, but you can't buy a suite there. You don't look at the big cities with a lot of income. But the relative expenses are also very large.

You are far away from home, away from your family and friends, and if something happens to you, you have no one to rely on, and you feel lonely and miserable. Especially when you are sick and you go to the hospital alone, your inner loneliness is very strong at that time. Or when you have to negotiate a contract with someone at night and drink, you go back drunk and don't even have someone to take care of you at home.

I woke up with a hangover headache, but still had to go to work. At this time, I think your heart is very painful.

Beijing is really expensive for everything, especially in the downtown area, and an ordinary boxed lunch costs twenty or thirty. Later, my brother brought rice to work every day, steamed rice or steamed buns at night, made some dishes, packed in a lunch box in advance, and then heated up at noon the next day, and now I really don't know how to get through it.

I have been in Beijing for almost 20 years, and I feel that the pace of life is fast, I am on the road every day, and my salary is only seven or eight thousand, but I feel that there are more opportunities in Beijing, and I live in Yizhuang, which is the same as other third-tier cities. In fact, there is no need to live in the city, where everything is expensive. As long as you have a car, you can live there!

My parents just came to Beijing for 50 years and had two sets of clothes, a rented room with a plank bed, two stools and a table, 12 square meters. At that time, I went to work alone, and my salary was 21 yuan a month, and I had to pay 4 yuan, 3 jiao and 5 cents for rent, water and electricity, which was very expensive. It also takes 3 people to eat.

I can't imagine having a deposit of 100 yuan. I also have to send money to my hometown. Hehe, I survived the difficulties.

There will always be North Drift. It's not easy to drift north, depending on what you think.

I got up before dawn and the last subway arrived home. The bloodthirsty second landlord squeezes you in disguise, and there is no time to fall in love, mainly because the cost is too high, and the classmates in the same city are stunned and have no time to watch, the main reason is that there is no budget, and I see that many young people are depressed. Many people live expressionlessly, and under the influence of feudal society, Chinese's repression of sex has turned into food, but it is already very good to be able to eat hot pot in Beijing, let alone pregnant women and babies.

There are a lot of two kinds of people in Beipiao, one is that the family conditions are slightly better, and the other is very bad, and the slightly better ones can afford the down payment in Beijing, and they can basically see hope, and the bad ones can not see hope in their hometowns, so it is better to fight hard! The kind that is neither high nor low, most of them live a stable life in the local area!

Beipiao is a place to release the soul and fix the body, walking and squeezing the subway tired legs are more tiring, if you lose the love of relatives and friends, then please come to Beijing, if your mother is alive and well, your husband is very handsome, friends are true love, you can go back to your hometown. Township, here is a paradise of hope, equality, respect, opportunity, potential, fairness which can be had!

Let's go back! How nice it is to be with family. Beijing is not for everyone.

Think about it, what is Beipiao Tuxi, I am guilty, and I am looked down upon, I go to the expense every month, how much difference can I have with the money left in my hometown, and behind the prosperity is that these people overdraft their own efforts and are discriminated against.

I went to Beijing a few times, I feel that in addition to the road outside, I can step on it casually, spend money everywhere, except for particularly popular jobs, other wages are quite low, if I rent a house next to the company where I work, eat and eat, go home to do a high-speed rail, and have to pay upside down, maybe I am an example, there are many elites with more than 10,000 yuan.

At first, I just simply hated the interpersonal relationships at home, but later I felt that I was no worse than others and satisfied a young restless heart that refused to admit defeat. Later, I couldn't let go of face, and when I was not confused, I found that I couldn't go back. I am a staunch drifter with no back road.

Your motto and the feeling of North Drift are exactly the same as mine.

I saw an article that said: A group of Beipiao with a monthly salary of less than 20,000 yuan and no housing are being slowly eliminated by Beijing. I have a salary of 10,000 yuan, a house in the three northern counties, fortunately, I am in charge of food and housing in the hospital, I don't know how long I can last, I am really tired.

The saddest thing is that most of the money was not saved, and most of the youth was consumed, and in the end it was like an abandoned chess piece.

It's been more than ten years since I drifted north, I haven't earned any money, my youth is gone, and I'm tired like a robot every day! I'm ready to go back to my hometown!

It is not easy to drift north, and I can't go back to my hometown ....... There was no one on the street after 8 p.m. in my hometown. The wages are low and there is little spiritual life. After coming out for a long time, the original classmates and colleagues are not on the same channel, so they can't talk.

...... with a monthly salary of less than 15,000Let's go back to my hometown and raise pigs!

It's normal to dream of a big city.

The problem of holding is solved, and it's okay to drift.

Thank you for sharing, after reading it, I feel that I am really too naïve. It's silly.

It has been almost 7 years since I landed in Beijing. I've cried, but it's not because of the difficulty of drifting, sometimes the sadness of drifting is more of a feeling of emptiness in the soul. In the first year of coming to Beijing, the capital airport T3 saw off his ex-boyfriend, because he couldn't bear to come to Beijing to fulfill the promise of the last trip, and then he was a stranger from then on, when he was alone in the airport for a long time, lost many times, and couldn't cry out of the pain.

In the fourth year, due to work, I have become accustomed to flying around on business trips, and I am familiar with the terminal of the Capital Airport as well as going home, and even every time I go, I have a sense of intimacy, and I can no longer remember the feeling when I got lost in the first year. On a certain plane, I suddenly sighed with emotion, "Wandering between cities, I am the same, but a city, and those who are reluctant to give up are only the people in this city." Dad got sick that year and died.

After drifting for so long, I gave up my Beijing hukou for the job I liked, and gave up my former feelings for my persistence.

I didn't go to school in Beijing, so now there are not many classmates in Beijing, my best friends are scattered all over the world, most of the people who usually play together are colleagues, and everyone has begun to gradually fall in love and get married, and loneliness is very common, especially after falling out of love. I often feel like I'm drifting all the time. The current state is,It doesn't seem to have any particularly huge troubles.,But it doesn't seem to have anything smooth.,I'm very confused and helpless about work, feelings, and the future.,I feel like I've lost my enthusiasm for the whole life.。

I feel okay with Beipiao, but occasionally I feel tired, especially deep tired + tired. But this feeling is not the norm, after all, people always have to be happy, more comfortable than sad. As far as I am concerned, the first year of work was sad, mainly because I couldn't accept the transition from school to work, maybe in any city.

has been drifting north for 4 years now, and has found a good boyfriend, maybe in the future, there will be less sadness.

I haven't experienced the North Drift, but I have lived alone in the field for a long time, I have a hard time, I am sick and go to the hospital alone, I was an extroverted person, but I just came and had no friends, and I became very homely. It's okay when it's usually busy, but it's especially bleak when it's a New Year's holiday. The hardships of life are nothing, but the loneliness in my heart is very desperate.

I won't talk about the sadness in the process of North Drift, because I don't want to recall those unhappy things, North Drift for many years, more and more confused, I don't know what I am in, it is difficult to go back to home, Beijing has never accepted North Drifters, rootless duckweed, seemingly unrestrained, wandering the world, but the sadness of North Drift, only people who have passed North Drift understand. I have thought countless times about ending my life in Beipiao and going home to start a business, maybe I am really not far from leaving Beijing.

Very helpless. When you encounter something, except for the occasional few friends and classmates to talk to, you really have nothing to rely on, and you have to work hard and fight for everything by yourself. There are many opportunities in Beijing, but there are more talents in Beijing, and there are many people vying for every position.

I came to Beijing at the end of November 11, when I was close to graduation and was in a hurry to intern, in fact, I also missed my girlfriend in Beijing, her home is in Beijing, I am from other places, and the university has always been in contact, not so much to come to Beijing for dreams, but to come to Beijing for love. On the first day of work, the designer asked me to go to the street to solicit customers, and I resigned at noon. Then I stayed in Beijing for 1 month and returned to my hometown, and the cost of living was too stressful.

First of all, I want to say that working in Beijing is really hard, the life of Beipiao is really not easy, I think we have to sympathize with them, can you imagine that in a room of less than 10 square meters, there are 8 people, can you imagine, this room is still a basement without ventilation, I think their life is really miserable。But it is with such a group of people who endure these harsh environments in order to achieve their own success and make a lot of money. Secondly, this kind of life is also very devastating to people's mental and physical strength.

I personally suggest that if you don't have enough preparation, you shouldn't think about going to Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen to develop, because you are really not suitable for **.

On the one hand, I think their lives are really hard, because I have been to Beijing, so I know very well, maybe I don't see the darkest side, but it is really enough for me to bear。I remember going to Beijing last year, because I was a student, and I didn't have the money to live in a big hotel, so I could only go to some homestays, and then after I went, I found that the room inside was really small, it was a basement that was not ventilated, the bed was a double bed, swaying back and forth, it felt really dangerous, and there were 8 people living in a room, a very small space, and the air was not circulating, which was also a harm to people's bodies. And theirsThe bathroom was also very dirtyIt's very messy.

Can you imagine the smell of a toilet that has not been filled for a long time and circulates throughout the bathroom? I really couldn't stand the smell at the time. So I decided to change a place to live.

Since then, I have felt that their lives are very hard, and if I have the conditions in the future, I will never choose to go to a super first-tier city like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen to fight.

On the other hand, the physical and mental pressure is also very highBecause you have to have enough companies every month to cover what you spend on living here. In such a big city, food is also very expensive, and accommodation is also very expensive, so in order to make a living, you have to travel well.