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You have to talk to her calmly instead of arguing, arguing will never solve the problem. You have to tell her that she can have her own circle of friends and party with friends, but please pay attention to the bottom line, this kind of activity must not affect the relationship between the husband and wife, can not affect the normal life, if it affects something because of these things, it is not worth it, you talk to her well, I think she will understand.
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This is very difficult, when you got married, you can only say that you chose a woman who is not suitable for you to get married, slowly change it, my point of view is to observe for a few years after marriage, there is no problem to have children, and if there is a problem, divorce directly. Why are you in such a hurry to have a child, being bound is the most tragic.
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Everyone should have their own friends and way of life, play, yes, but children must be housed ... That's the point.
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It's going to get bad, don't be noisy, the more noisy it is, the more stiff it gets, use your good intentions and tolerance to get his heart back, children are the bond of husband and wife's feelings, isn't there still children? I have also experienced this kind of thing, I have been married to my wife for 6 years, just because my wife is too good to me and spoils me too much, so I love her very much, and I love our son even more.
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It's going to rain, my mother is going to get married, let her go! It's useless to be so noisy!
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I don't think you should have a good chat, it's normal to quarrel, there are often problems, people call you to have supper, and you can find some reason to go with him.
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Summary. Emotional psychological counseling, chatting: A good impression is the first step to be able to attract the attention of others and build a good relationship, so in addition to learning to listen and understand, you also need to learn how to answer the call, so that the other party thinks that talking to you is a pleasant or even addictive thing, so that the topic can continue to continue.
When talking to the other person, you can't always ask and answer the mode, you have to give him a feeling of more than just "responding to this matter", your words can always make him show his curiosity, you can always arouse the other party's desire to continue talking, is the right way to answer. But be careful, don't talk about a topic that interests you and then become a chatterbox, please keep a certain sense of mystery and create a sense of goddess rather than a female nerve.
Emotional psychological counseling, chatting: A good impression is the first step to attract the attention of others and build a good relationship, so in addition to learning to listen and understand, you also have to learn how to answer, so that the other party thinks that talking to you is a pleasant or even addictive thing, so that the topic can continue to continue. When talking to the other party, you can't always ask and answer the mode, you have to let him have a feeling of more than just "responding to this matter", your words can always let him exert his curiosity, and your rubber talk can always arouse the other party's desire to continue talking, which is the right way to answer.
But be careful, don't talk about a topic that interests you and then become a chatterbox, please keep a certain sense of mystery and create a sense of goddess rather than a female nerve.
I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?
Emotional expert consultation and analysis: At that time, it was you who proposed the breakup, and now you regret it, and you want to redeem the other party. This in itself is a very positive state.
However, I bet you will now have a mentality of doing something wrong and wanting to redeem the other person as soon as possible, constantly begging the other person, and begging the other party in a low-profile way to forgive what you said when you proposed to break up. If that's the case, then I can tell you clearly: even if you succeed in redeeming it, the future will not be easy.
Furthermore, don't treat the breakup of the empty Huai key as a separate file. Although you are in a state of breakup, your relationship has not been broken. You can think of the current state you are in as a continuation of a relationship, except that you are temporarily separated.
When you have such a mentality to face this matter, you still have a chance to redeem it. You need to be firm in your beliefs, and only when your beliefs are firm and you don't operate in a state of "I've lost him" will you have a chance.
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Life is an experience, and there are no standard answers.
If your pain comes from him, you can consider breaking up; If there is no problem with your relationship, but it is just a hindrance to others, then you are not worth it.
How to spend your life is a lifetime, why not choose a wonderful, no-regret experience? What if it's wrong? What about paying? What about sacrifice? As long as you like it in your heart, as long as you are willing to do it, that is your standard answer.
No one can replace you to figure out what is really in your heart, now, you need to calm down, have a good conversation with yourself, and ask yourself: Are you willing to let go? Is it worth staying together? Whether it is in your life or at this moment, do you have him in your heart?
Life is very short and very long, and there is no need to start by calculating a lot. Even if it's wrong, it's a unique experience.
As long as there are no regrets, everything is the best!
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When a person indulges in a fantasy, he will treat the fantasy as a vague taste, as real wine.
You drink wine to get drunk; I drank to sober up from other kinds of drunkenness.
Indulge in those good days, however, eventually wake up.
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Deal with it calmly, and things will be fine.
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You're very ignorant, really.
1. How old are you now? Can you leave your parents aside for love and find a boyfriend? Is he more important than your parents whose health is starting to decline? When you were a child, they loved you so much, they were tired, and you ignored their feelings? Are you still their daughter?
2. He has completely given up, why are you bothered? Aren't your hearts tired? Is he the only one who can give you a sense of security? Giving you happiness? Do you know what happiness is?
Some reluctance, some heart-rending love, are all habits, used to having such a person, take him so seriously, it will only make him more and more indifferent to you, he will be more and more hurt, even if he gets married, he will quarrel because of many practical problems in life, when the time comes, you yourself are hurt, your feelings are broken, your parents are old, what are you left? If you elope, you will leave a bad reputation, so why bother?
Love, don't end up [hating from love], and don't end up with [the son wants to raise but the parent is not there], there are still many choices. .Don't choose the way you lose with nothing.
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Asking for guilt, you will regret it after 10 years together, inevitably.
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You all know what to do This question is too much, hehe, since you choose to start over, I wish you a good result, in addition, the first impression you wrote is that the man's family is not good, the man's position is not firm, or the RP itself is not good.
Of course, he must also have a lot of advantages, as far as this article you wrote, I personally think that what is yours is yours, not yours, no matter how hard you try, it is not yours after all, just like the sand, the more afraid you are of missing out, the tighter you grasp, but in the end, the faster you miss, try to let go, maybe you will get more.
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In fact, the problem of feelings is really troublesome. But I believe that if you really like someone and can do a lot for him, I believe that his heart will melt even if it is made of iron. After all, I haven't really met a favorite yet, and many of them can't be said clearly.
Anyway, if you really like it, take advantage of it.
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You said so much, all the content is that you love him very much and don't want to lose him, what about him? Does he love you? Is his love the same as yours?
If he doesn't love you, all your efforts are wasted, and if he loves you, do you still need to suffer like this?
You first find out how deep the relationship between you is, you can't lose him, can he lose you?
If you can't lose each other, then everything is solved, the relationship is a matter between the two of you, his parents only decide from external reasons and internal factors, don't lose yourself and lose your way for the feelings you can't get.
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How to say it, o( o
No matter how many drops ago, when it was time to break up the drops, it would not be vegetarian o( o
Only when the problem is solved can there be a plan to drop the past o( o
Rice has a cold bone, how can there be plum blossoms fragrant o( o
Now drop the question, do his parents drop against (
What about the objection to the drop of the reason (
Because you will be a burden to him, then you will try to prove that you will not be a burden to him
I even thought that this should be simple o( o
I occasionally found that you have always said that he has many shortcomings, so you have rice yourself, it has nothing to do with your current family situation, as far as you are concerned, in your love, have you ever thought that you also have a true point (
Well, although I don't feel complaining, if I want to be crooked, I will become: such a person with so many shortcomings, even tolerated him so much, took care of him so much, and now he actually proposed to break up, so unwilling to drop feelings, of course, this should not be Su you o ( o only if someone wants to drop so much, then it is also possible to drop oh o ( o
Frustrated vegetarian rice has a drop, you should be clear, because even if you are depressed, your boyfriend understands you, if his parents disagree, even if he loves you again, you can't be together without dripping (
Then try to drip and prove that you will not be a burden to him drip
Seriously, talk to his parents about o(o
Your own son is a god-like person, with a horse-like personality, and parents are generally the most clear, then you will convey your intentions and understanding of their son, and tolerance to them, proving that your son also needs you to drop, although the powder is hard now, but the prime will never become a burden, this point is conveyed to them, people have compassion, not to mention, you also said that his father and mother are good people, the reason why they oppose the prime is because they care about their son, and now you tell them, like them, You also care and love them dripping children o(o
If you are worried about your parents, then you can show that you will not let them worry about the drop
If you don't give up the drip words, the above suggestion o( o
I wish you a lover, and your final family will belong to o( o
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Since you don't want to give up on him, then try to make his parents accept you, believe that people have feelings, as long as you treat them with your heart, there will always be a day when you can be together. Of course, you also have to be prepared for a long time, love is two people, I think the key is still in him, I think you should talk about it and tell him your determination.
As long as you have a burning heart, you can believe that all difficulties will be solved.
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Anyway, I don't think you're a man. Doing things grinding...
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Say something I shouldn't say, if you really want to get your love back, you can only work hard. Take care of your own family affairs, and you can't ask the man for help in everything. Prove your own ability and assertiveness, maybe only in this way can you continue to develop, otherwise, even if you can sacrifice your life for the man, he will not take the initiative.
Believe me, that's the value of modern love. There is no real couple in distress, and I don't know why you are still so persistent in loving each other in this situation, your love is noble but not worthy of your dedication. Trust that you can be kind to yourself.
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Go ahead. I'll listen, try to help you
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