Emotional issues! What should I do now? How can I become mature, confident, and not cowardly?

First of all, I won't scold you or look down on you.

I understand your situation, and I don't blame you entirely for this matter.

Still, why didn't you plan to find a way out for yourself at the time? (But that's another story, after all.) You said that you have worked, then you can continue to look for similar jobs, after all, you have a little experience, don't be afraid of the lack of money, you must take it step by step, you can't look at the master and the low!!

Your feelings for him are now not only love, but also dependence, because without her you have no ability to survive.

But your choice to break up with him is quite correct, a man must have ambitions and ideals, so as not to regret it in the future.

You have to take deep breaths from time to time, adjust your emotions, forget about the woman who helped you, and create a piece of heaven with your own hands. I believe you.

How so? Say small, you're not small, I'm the same as you, 88 years old, how can you say it? 1 man can't have no ideals, no pursuit of sa, men can't say that they broke up with a woman and cried, made trouble and hanged themselves, it's boring, now this society is very realistic, as long as you have the ability, you can't ssaw it, you can't even be self-motivated, anyone will dump you, be strong, love is not the whole of life, everyone is still young, young is your capital, I broke up with the person I loved, although I was very sad, but I didn't send it, life still goes on, people have to cheer up!

As long as you have the ability, if you have the opportunity to meet in the future, she will definitely be impressed and strong when she sees you at that time!

You are both so naïve.

Young people, let go of feelings now, men should start a business first and then think about marriage.

Ah! You've got it all, and you don't care if you're immature, what are you doing!

Really, that woman really shouldn't be like this!

Hey, the road of affection is not necessarily smooth! Young people, learn to accept the facts!

Good hands and feet, will have nothing to do,??

There will be a time to do anything, the key is whether you are willing to persist for this pure love!

No one can say that they are completely mature, they can only say that people are relatively more mature between people, and it takes a lifetime to mature, and it takes a lifetime to come slowly, as the saying goes, you can't learn all your life, politeness, socialization, friendship, talking, emotion, life, do you dare to say that you will make people unable to find faults, I think you will say that you can't Even your parents can't do it, you only keep learning, and then slowly improve your bad.

Maturity it has no hierarchy to say who is thoroughly ripe....

What's the use of saying it, you can't do it.

So you should first think about why you are not confident and immature

There are many reasons for not being confident: there are internal and external ones. The internal reason is that I think that my ability and level are high enough to do a good job or something.

In this case, you should enrich yourself and improve yourself, so that you will naturally increase your self-confidence. In fact, everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and discovering their strengths can also boost self-confidence. If it's an extrinsic cause, such as:

family, environment, etc. Then you can think that everyone is on the same level, relying on their own skills and family has no direct relationship, and the use of this psychological suggestion will play a certain role.

For immaturity, I don't think you should be in a hurry, this needs to be accumulated through experience, and it will naturally mature after experiencing more. However, you can also change yourself to arrange some positive things to do, exercise yourself, and increase your experience. In addition, talking to your elders and seniors who have rich experience can learn a lot from them, guide you to avoid detours, and also help you mature faster.