I m getting married, do you want to tell him I m sick?

The relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend depends on your mutual appreciation and trust, marriage is a nest of love built by two families for you, you must tell your boyfriend before you get married, otherwise there will be contradictions when you get married, you will be more painful, if you feel pain now, you should say it, the pain will be reduced, don't be afraid of others knowing, if you love you will not bring you a burden, you will not have so much pressure in your heart, you can also live your future life, the pain in your heart is only known to yourself, only you help yourself, it is really not good to drag, if you really want to get married, you really like himand told him.

Reasonably, you have to tell him that love needs Tancheng!Whatever the outcome, it's much stronger than the ordeal you're going through alone right now!But tell him, don't be too blunt, tell him the fact that you are sick and how you really feel in your heart, and then tell him that you don't want to drag him down, just do it!

If he says, I love you, I will always walk with you, you have to hug him well.

If he is unwilling to accept it, unwilling to face the reality, you can bless him, don't be too sad, if you want to cry, go home and cry well, and cheer up again after crying!If others don't love themselves, they should love themselves even more!I wish you more and more health!Happiness!

Loyalty, honesty is the basis of marriage, if your illness is very serious, it will affect the quality of life of the marriage of two people in the future, then I think you should still tell him, after all, people have the right to know and the right to choose, if your illness is not so serious, it will not affect anything, then it doesn't matter if you say it or not

Husbands and wives should be honest with each other, when you have something, you should discuss with each other in time, or tell each other your physical condition and some of your unconvinced feelings, because you are about to face a long life, you will encounter a lot of things, so timely communication, can better allow you in communication, can solve things satisfactorily, lest such things happen after marriage, will make you feel more embarrassed, and things will also make you think of some bad results.

You still have to tell her, otherwise after a long time, you will feel a sense of guilt in your heart, and at the same time, if she knows for a long time, I think you will be more painful. So, long pain is better than short pain, perhaps, you told her, because you have love, she doesn't feel anything at all, but thinks that you are sincere to her, after all, what a woman wants is the man's sincerity to her, which includes confessing some things. Yes, if you don't tell her, the nature is different.

So, I think you should be confessing.

Isn't it, it's outrageous now.

It depends on what the disease is, if it is an incurable disease such as cancer, I will not choose to get married, but I will accompany him through the last days, if it is a long-term chronic disease, but it does not have a great impact on life, I will choose to get married.

I think that when two people get along together and reach the age of marriage, there will definitely be a relationship foundation, if he lets me go because he is sick, I will definitely not be able to do it, but different diseases have different choices, for example, cancer cannot be cured, I will not leave like this, but I will not choose to get married, because I already know that the final result is that it is impossible for two people to be together, and I will silently accompany him through this time, even if I spend my savings, it doesn't matter, because I also tried my best. If he dies after getting married, and meets a suitable person in the future, others will ask you why you got married at that time, and you have to explain to the other party what happened between you, maybe he doesn't mind, but I don't want to say, I just want to cherish this memory in my heart.

If it is a chronic disease, such as lupus erythematosus, this disease can be suppressed by drugs, and it only needs to be revisited on time, and it will not have a great impact on daily life.

I still remember last year I saw a very touching news, the love story of Shandong guy Yu Haining and Henan girl Fan Huixiang, the two of them have been in love for 5 years, but when it came to talking about marriage, the girl suffered from advanced thoracic metastasis adenocarcinoma, but the boy did not choose to let go, and still chose to marry each other, so they got married in the ward, this love also touched many people, the girl still left a year after marriage, and the boy has not remarried.

Maybe there are few people who can be as brave and responsible as this boy, think about it from another angle, if I am this boy, I can't do his part, their experience is very touching, but many things in this process are unimaginable that we have not experienced, that kind of pressure and mentality is a lot of people can't hold back, maybe some people are very confident in themselves at the beginning, but for a long time, half a year, three months or even one or two months to give up, this is human nature,In the face of illness, we, as ordinary people, can hardly change anything, which is why we seem so helpless and want to retreat because there is a way back.

No matter what kind of choice the other person makes, you should not morally kidnap how the other person should do it, only if you have experienced it yourself and are in this predicament, you can understand the decision you have made in your heart.

Sometimes young and vigorous impulsively get married, but after marriage, you find that the other party suffers from some diseases that cannot be **, what should I do at this time? Is it divorce or annulment? The latest Civil Code provides for this issue, and one party suffering from a major illness should truthfully inform the other party of his or her illness or implementation before marriage.

An application to the court for annulment of the marriage between the parties may be made within one year from the date of knowledge of this fact.

This provision of the Civil Code focuses on protecting the innocent party, after all, one party unknowingly registers his marriage with his lover before discovering that he is suffering from a major illness that cannot be ***.

For the unwitting party who divorces may suffer from gossip, or because of the disease that the party suffers from is a genetic disease, to a certain extent, it may deprive the innocent party of certain reproductive rights.

Here is also a reminder for those who are about to decide to register their marriage, take their partners to the hospital for a premarital test, and give yourself and others a reassurance.

Premarital testing consists of three parts: medical history, medical examination, and knowledge popularization. Secondly, most of the infectious diseases that can be screened by marriage testing can be transmitted through sexual activity. In addition, if a party knowingly engages in sexual relations with another attacker knowing that he or she is suffering from a contagious disease, he or she may also be held criminally liable.

Marriage examination is not mandatory in terms of the current marriage conditions, but in fact, it is necessary, do a good job of premarital examination, can effectively prevent related diseases and can take effective ** and prevention as soon as possible.

Premarital examinations are of great practical significance for maintaining marital stability, improving the quality of life after marriage, and giving birth to healthy offspring.

Summary. Hello, it can be seen from your words that your husband doesn't seem to care too much about you.

My husband never said that he liked me or loved me from the time he was married to the time he was hospitalized, and he didn't pay me for hospitalization or medical treatment.

Hello, it can be seen from your words that your husband doesn't seem to care too much about you.

But it also depends on how he usually performs.

If this is how you usually behave, it proves that you have no place in his heart.

Maybe the marriage is forced by the family.

I want to get a divorce, and now the children are two years old.

Run away from the problem as soon as you talk about it.

But for the sake of the children, it's better not to get divorced.

In fact, if he earns money for you to support your family, he still has a responsibility.

It's just that there may be no love between the two of you, but there must be family affection.

Never give me money.

Occasionally, he asks me for money.

Then this kind of man is not worth going on, and no matter how good a man is, he should not ask for money like a woman.

He can earn his own money, and if he earns his own money and asks you for money, it means that he is just using you as a tool to make money.

Now in the midst of the Cold War, he can see that I'm not happy, but he never coaxes me.

Maybe he doesn't want to coax you because he doesn't have a relationship with you.

What about the child?

If it's good for the child, that's okay.

Usually it's okay for the child, the child is shown by my parents, he goes home once a week and works in the field.

We adults can control and regulate our emotions by ourselves, but don't let children grow up under the influence of parental disharmony from an early age.

If you can bear with it, you should bear with it, wait until the child grows up and make plans, and take the child out to play when it's okay.

Distract yourself.

Don't quarrel in front of your children, cold wars and the like.

It's okay to talk to a few friends and it's also a great way to relieve stress.

As the saying goes, the moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have good and bad luck. In life, when Lu Xiang's relationship between himself and his other half has developed to a certain stage, Sakura finally entered the marriage hall, which is obviously a thing that makes him particularly happy and happy, but not long after getting married, his other half suddenly fell seriously ill, which is obviously a huge blow to himself and the whole family, but in this case, if it were me, I would still do it for my other half, guard my other half, and take good care of each other. Help the other person as soon as possible**.

We should understand that since we have chosen to marry our other half, it means that two people should help each other and take care of each other on the road of life in the future, and share all kinds of setbacks and difficulties encountered in life. Although it is said that not long after getting married, my other half fell seriously ill, which is a big blow to my life, but it is also a test for myself.

When we encounter such a problem, we must reflect our sense of responsibility, in the considerate and careful care of our lover to feel their warmth, so as to truly promote the relationship between two people, and we should also realize that their other half of the serious illness is not one of the things, but also related to themselves, related to the whole family, in the face of this problem, we must have confidence, dare to face the challenges that life brings us, in this process, Let us really grow, and in the process, we will also make our relationship with our other half deeper.

It depends on what kind of disease it is, and whether it can be cured! It's a hard question to decide!