We were disappointed that my husband s dad did this

It's important to hire someone to open a store, and there's nothing wrong with managing it properly. Therefore, you need to have a clearer understanding of hiring people, just like employing people in large units, you need to know how to play their role, and at the same time, you must know how to restrain them. I think it's worth considering whether you need his dad or not:

1. Negotiate the price with your son before the store is opened, can this be said to be helpful? 2. Have bad habits, if you don't change them, it will definitely affect your work, and you may even embezzle money; 3. If that's the case, how can your elders manage it?

Frequent gambling de people you also trust?? For his good and for your good, don't show him the store so irrationally.

It's like putting a mouse in the tank.

Dad has to give money, just give living expenses, for people who often gamble, don't give too much money.

It's good enough to use it on a regular basis.

The others don't matter.

There are some things that can't be changed

You can give him 2500 first, try it for 2 months first, and talk to him if the benefits are not good...

If it's good, use it.

Good luck with your business!!

Will his dad gamble? I think you forget it, then you're not 2,500, 20,005 is not enough, then you might as well look at the store yourself, or call your own parents. It's really good for your parents who don't need money, it's okay to do business not to make some money and save some money for the future life, if you lose money when you open a store, then don't start, you can't make it.

No matter what you do, you just can't let his father look at the store, and to do that is to give someone a handle, and I'd rather not open the store than let him come! This is the principle.

In any case, it is appropriate to honor the elderly, and it is good to honor them more often.

As for asking him to help you look at the store, the old and the young have different ideas, and there will be a lot of contradictions.

The relationship will be very stiff, and the relationship will be even less favorable in the future, so it is better to hire someone else to watch it.

This is a matter of experience, and I have experienced it firsthand, and I haven't solved it yet.

His dad?. Dad is a fart, when is your parents not a stumbling block?

Stabilize your emotions first, and then find a time for the two of you to talk.

It's better to leave, you go to talk to him, if he still loves you, you don't have to leave, otherwise you won't feel comfortable.

You can see ...... at a glanceThe husband is ...... between you and his motherStill leaning towards his mother'......I don't feel like I love it, hey, I've heard that my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are naturally hostile, and I sympathize with the landlord, whether to stay or go, you weigh it yourself, or endure it, one day you will be bitter, for the sake of the child, come on.

The two of them had a good talk together to see what his attitude was.

In fact, you don't have to do this, just go out for a walk, go to a quiet place and forget about it

Every family has a difficult scripture. If both of them love each other, they must understand each other.

I don't know what to give you, but as a bystander, I think that there is no doubt that your father has raised you no matter what, and you have an obligation to support him, and adults sometimes make mistakes. Stop him, but if he doesn't listen to persuasion, there is no way, only this is as difficult as the teacher keeps calling the penultimate to get a high score, which is not to the cliff and not give up. It may be a relief to have trust in your wife, how can she deny you because of external factors, and at the same time you should consider whether you can't live with her, no matter what kind of relationship or person needs a kind of communication.

I hope you don't inherit your father's "virtues".

Your dad loves you!

You're well, so you should serve your own meal, and that's one of the opportunities your dad left for you. You should also take the initiative to serve food to your parents.

Dad mentions that someone is good at learning, not only hopes that you can learn well, but also believes that you will learn better, so he encourages you so tactfully!

Your father will not "hold a grudge" against you for his child's unconscious past mistakes, but he himself feels very guilty and does not communicate directly with you.

When you grow up, you should take the initiative to do what you can, including some housework, do more useful things that you like to do, and take the initiative to do things that you don't like to do but should learn.

In the future, when your parents are old, although you will have a wife to help you do a lot of things, but first of all, what you should do, if you don't do it yourself, how can others help you for the rest of your life?

If you can recognize your shortcomings, you will definitely overcome them quickly, and you will definitely be an excellent and useful person to society in the future!

First, I'm guessing you're a girl.

If yes, then your dad's performance is well explained. First of all, set your father's personality, your father loves you, your father also has a knot, and your father is also very confused now.

The expression of loving you is that he knows that you don't like housework and still lets you do housework. Because he clearly knows where you are flawed, if there are flaws, you need to use some advantages, as a girl, you want to have a good husband in the future, a happy family, hard work, housework is the best way, and you just don't like it, so he hopes to make you a habit through this method.

And you say you like to read. I don't know your age, maybe your dad doesn't have hope for it, because he is an adult, he wants to be more pragmatic, and what he needs is to solve your lifelong problems, not let you do illusory dreams.

He has some knots about some of your involuntary behaviors in the past, but believes that these will disappear over time. Parents are parents after all.

I think that's what you should do now. The first is to sort out your future goals, make a plan, regulate your every step, if you really want to study, set a deadline, set a goal, that is, what school to get into before the year, tell your parents about it, and get their support. And during this period there is no distraction in the effort.

Assuming that this goal is not achieved by then, then please give up on him without hesitation, as a dream of your youth, there are many dreams that cannot be realized in life, you are not a special case, not the most unlucky one.

Second, love your parents from the heart. Try to do something for them. For example, help them make breakfast, do housework.

Don't think that your father doesn't love you because he doesn't serve you food, then ask yourself, do you often serve him food? Do you love him? When you were young, you thought that your parents were gods, they could do what you couldn't, and they could satisfy you everything, but when you grow up, you should understand that in fact, they are also human beings, and they also have joys and sorrows, and they also need comfort, especially from their children.

You say you're the one who let your dad down. Then you try to change. Parents have many expectations for their children, the highest expectation is to let their children glorify their ancestors, but basically 99% of parents will hope to be disappointed, so they hope that their children can be filial, this is the most advanced idea since ancient times, you can do it.

I also think that my dad is a big ambition, but my father's father, one of his characters is the reason for numbers, maybe the shadow of childhood, maybe. Although it can be changed, it is easy to change, and the character is difficult to move, and it can be changed not overnight. I think, actually, to live in harmony, we should put aside you to the detriment of your father, you grew up, independent, regardless of what your father had to learn, and you continued on the path that your father had walked before.

You have to believe that parents love their children. Perhaps, your father is developing your ability to take care of yourself. To be honest, your situation is like this, after all, it is still a little different from normal people.

And as your parents get older, they won't always be by your side. They can only rest easy if you take good care of yourself, you know? Don't think that your father let you do this and that because he doesn't like you.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, and when you become parents yourself in the future, you will know their hard work. I hope you can adjust your mentality and face your future life positively. Don't think that others are sick because of you, you have to know that most people are still kind, especially your loved ones. Best wishes!

What you need to do now is to adjust your body, there are a few books that are very good for regulating your body, you can try to use the methods in the books to recuperate: "A New Beginning of Healthy Life", "Self-healing Power", "Five Tibetan Styles of Keeping Young".

Dad needs to build a serious image in your heart. In this way, it can complement your mother's gentle image. Dad's requirements are generally strict, because fathers want their daughters to become phoenixes!

He wants you to be independent. Whether it's in your studies or in life, hopefully you can still take care of yourself without them. It's another kind of love.

You have to understand! And to reciprocate that love. With what in return?

With your actions! You have to study hard, persevere in some aspects and make certain achievements; You have to be able to be independent, even if you are far away, to take care of yourself and not let them worry ... I hope you understand what I said.

It's because you're too careful, it's not that your dad doesn't like you, it's just that you think you're sick and everyone rejects you, including your dad. Like my old watch, his father didn't count the monthly medical treatment for him, and he also asked for 4,000 living expenses per month, such an old man who grew vegetables in the countryside paid like this, and said that he didn't like him, and the money was given to outsiders and so on. I can't stand it.

So you're also suspicious of your dad, not what your dad did to you. To put it bluntly, your dad really doesn't have hope for you, so he won't care about you and scold you!!

Make yourself more diligent, since Dad wants you to do the housework, you do it - you are also a part of the family, you can't just enjoy the fruits of other people's labor, participate in it to have a more sense of existence. In addition, Dad takes other people's daughters to talk about things, but also hopes that you will be motivated, he should still support you in taking the exam, study hard, and when you have results, Dad will feel that you can take care of yourself in the future, and his attitude towards you will change.

There is no parent who does not feel sorry for his child, he may want you to distract you by doing more things to make you care about the things around you.

Don't question your parents' love for you, give yourself some self-confidence, which is the best reward for them.

Don't think too much about it, I've been mentally ill too. But one day I suddenly wanted to open it, and now I'm in a very good mood. There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, think about it from another angle, if it is your father's mental illness, then what do you think?

If the answer is that I will still love my dad, then you have to believe that your dad loves you now, too. If you say no, I don't want to have a mentally ill dad, then you have to change your mind. Think about the good things about dad.

Then talk to Dad more. Do you like to read? That's great!

First of all, you should take the initiative to serve food for your parents, and your parents are not obligated to serve you food. So, you don't have to worry about it. Therefore, the father only serves food to the mother, which is the love for your mother, and you should take the responsibility of honoring your parents and take the initiative.

Don't pay too much attention to these details. Again, to tell you a word, the only people in the world who can love you unconditionally even if you make mistakes are your parents. Therefore, if you want your son to become a Chan, love and hate, you don't need to try to think about what your parents think, as long as you know that they love you.

All that's left is to persevere, even if you're a garbage collector. Housework, you don't like to do it, you think your parents like to do it? Love your parents, then start by sharing.

It's a bit too much for your man to speak, as for his father, I personally think it's normal, the older generation is very economical and we have to understand this, he said his, you do yours, don't pay attention to it.

In the following I think it is like this:

1. From the perspective of the elderly, it is to save, this may be the habitual thinking of the old people, maybe he just didn't think too much about it and said what was in his heart, I think the daughter-in-law should be able to discern the true intention of the speaker, the old man may not say what will happen if he buys an expensive mobile phone, just say so, don't have to worry about it.

2. Since you have entered your husband's house, I think it is still necessary to maintain the unity and harmony of the family, there is no need to always be unhappy because of a sentence, after all, he is still your husband's father, and he also has to respect the elderly, there is no need not to conflict head-on, you can let your husband buy you an IP7, and then say that it is a mobile phone of several hundred yuan, which is also a white lie, for the sake of family harmony.

3. As a daughter-in-law, you have to love your husband's father as much as you love your father, so that even if your husband doesn't buy a mobile phone, your husband's father will buy it for you, right?

If you do something like this, you should reply to him, yes, that's an old man's mobile phone, it's for the old man, and I'll use it when I'm old! Like a joke.

You and your husband say that your business is best solved by yourself, but if the conditions are not good, save it!

A father-in-law, no matter what, can't interfere with his daughter-in-law's affairs, this is a matter of upbringing, in other words, this is not a question of being stingy or not, this is a problem of character, unless it is a matter of principle, you can educate the younger generations as a father-in-law, but this kind of problem is put on a shelf, hehe.