Why is it that when you are dating someone you don t feel emotional, you feel so bad when you break

1. People, after all, are emotional animals, even if you get along with a pet for a long time, when it leaves, you will still be reluctant, let alone human?

Second, this is a habit, you are already the same as him, used to having him by his side, and suddenly leaving, the heart will not get used to it, and there will be a feeling of loss or emptiness in the heart, which is also normal.

3. Human nature is selfish, you don't feel good when you have something, but when you lose it one day, you will feel very uncomfortable.

Fourth, between the two of them, they unconsciously have feelings, especially women, because women are born with a latent sense of pity.

That's a contradiction in your psyche!! Breaking up with someone who doesn't feel anything should be nothing!! But the breakup makes you feel bad because your relationship failed!

You don't want to fail!! Because everyone's heart is fragile when they are in love, and they are afraid of getting hurt! Even if you don't feel it, it will be uncomfortable!!

It is the effect of the heart!! It's okay, just adjust your mentality! Maybe the next one will be the one who will stay with you for the rest of your life!!

After all, even if you don't like each other, you still have a little feeling, and now that you don't have this relationship, it's normal for you to have a little loss in your heart.

Because he likes you, he doesn't like you after the breakup. It's not uncomfortable, it's loss.

I'm sorry, you're already in love with him (first love, now deep love), I know it's not what you want, but I'm going to tell you, don't lie to yourself, you do have him in your heart

Actually, I don't understand why you start with someone who doesn't feel it in the first place??? Give yourself an answer.

Hurt you, cherish your gone, habit...

Because feelings have already arisen.

As we all know, sweet love is something every teenager wants to have. However, not every relationship lasts until the end, and I think a large number of people have experienced a breakup. Perhaps only people who have experienced a breakup can experience that feeling of heartache, even breathing is painful, and this pain can only be eliminated by time.

When you first break up, many people will have the following behaviors, I don't know if you are among them?

1. Keep looking at your phone and wait for the other party to change their minds.

Sweet love may have broken up because of a little contradiction, maybe it was just hot-headed at the time, and casually said angry words about breaking up. So I kept looking at my phone and waiting for the other party to change my mind. The process of waiting is the most painful time, no matter what you do, you will not be in the mood, and it will affect your whole life.

Occasionally, when the phone rings, you will instantly become energetic, quickly pick up the phone, and when you see that it is an inconsequential message, your mood will be at the bottom. That sense of loss is something that only I can understand.

2. Crying alone in the middle of the night.

The person you love the most is gone. The beautiful experiences of the past are presented in my mind one by one before going to bed, and every picture can make me cry and feel painful. I feel that my world has changed, and it is no longer the time for two people, and no matter what I do in the future, I will be alone.

Night is the most difficult time to control your emotions, and it is also the most helpless time.

3. A person is quietly in a daze.

Since then, you have started to sit there alone in a daze, whether at work or studying, you will always inadvertently think of the person who is still in love, and the corners of your mouth will occasionally rise when you think of the happy times in the past, even if he is no longer there.

4. Buying things is double.

I used to be together for so long, no matter what I bought, it was basically a double portion, and now I am alone, but this habit is still there, whether it is to buy food or use, the first thought is to buy double portions. However, when I calmed down, I realized that he was now a person, and he was gone.

5. Wake up in the morning and find that your surroundings are empty.

Since then, every morning he wakes up to find that his surroundings are empty, and he will never sleep in his arms until he wakes up naturally. Every morning I will feel very lonely, it turns out that life without him is really uncomfortable, but I still have to remind myself at all times, you can do it alone, come on!

Maybe it's because you don't like him anymore, so you won't be sad when you break up, you just feel like he's not yours anymore.