I m in love, but there are some problems.

Your worries stem from the fact that you are not sure about your future, after all, you are a sophomore, you are only a sophomore, there is a certain gap, and the understanding between you is not particularly deep, after all, the environment between you is different, the things you face are also different, the mentality is different, there will inevitably be a sense of depression, if you believe, you can still go on later, then don't worry, after all, love is a beautiful thing, it can make you have a kind of motivation, if you feel, The gap between yourself and her is too big, please let it go, after all, you still have many things that are more important than love. Hope that helps.

What are you afraid of, what are you, it's normal, just like you, don't dare to love, don't dare to do this, don't dare to do that, it's annoying to look at Now that you're both together, what are you afraid of?

First love is beautiful... lzDon't be too yourself. After all, it's the first love. Listen to the second floor of Let it be. (Hee-hee.......)

The first time you fall in love, you have a feeling of gaining and losing, it doesn't matter, you won't be able to do it after a long time.

The little pot friend of the first love.

You'll get used to it.

Maybe someone else will give you a lot of ways to enlighten you, and I'll just tell you to go with the flow.

Let's study hard in high school

High 2 and Big 2 together? Awesome!

A person loves is love - but you are not much more realistic After all, you are so far apart Love is not a matter of age But have you ever thought about it You are still studying She can't wait for you for so long If a man doesn't have the ability to marry a wife Maybe he just came to be good But after a long time, it will turn bad Divorce will appear--- this is my opinion How about --- insignificant

There may be a distance between college and high school, and you are afraid that she will suffer from gains and losses because of your immaturity ......

If you are still a student, then there is still too much uncertainty about your future, after all, graduation season is a breakup season, it is not a joke, it is real. If you are studying, you should be responsible for each other and talk about your plans for the future before your relationship is confirmed. Secondly, in the process of falling in love, when facing the pursuit of a man who likes you, don't rush to agree, but first ask him if he can tolerate himself if they are together smoothly in the future.

For women, whether they are looking for a future partner or a boyfriend, they must confirm whether he can tolerate themselves before falling in love, so that they will avoid some unnecessary conflicts when they are together in the future, and you will feel happy. If you have already participated in the work, then, the purpose of your relationship is more clear, you must be rushing to get married, at this time, you not only pay attention to each other's advantages, but also pay attention to each other's shortcomings, dream to ask yourself, whether you can accept each other's shortcomings, and be able to tolerate for a lifetime, after all, the rest of your life is long, marriage is not child's play, and you are not willing to reshuffle the cards, that is to pay the price. What are the first questions to understand before falling in love:

How much is the gap between you? If the gap is too big, be cautious. For example, if your conditions are much better than the other party, you should seriously think about whether it is worth it.

For example, if your conditions are much worse than the other party, you should think about whether the other party will take a fancy to you? These are all very realistic and objective issues, and we have to think about them and cannot ignore them. But some people are just pickpocketing and easy to ignore this.

They believe that loving someone should not take these things into account. The second question: How do you respond if you encounter obstacles?

When it comes to falling in love, there will inevitably be a series of obstacles. And how to deal with it, we need to think about it in advance. There are a lot of people who haven't thought about it.

And when that happens, they're going to be out of order. In this way, one's love will be hindered. And it can also take a toll on your self-confidence.

Self-confidence has taken a hit, and it is natural that there will be a lot of trouble for our subsequent relationship. It's a bad cycle, so we should think about it before we fall in love. Think of all the questions that should come to mind.

If possible, it's a good idea to have some coping strategies. When you fall in love, you will inevitably encounter a breakup. No one can guarantee how far you and this person will go.

Therefore, we also have to think about whether we can face all this pain if we break up.

Hello, generally speaking, normal people's love experiences are not the same person, the more you experience, the more you will know how to get along with the opposite sex, which is a good thing. If you have so many love experiences with the same person, then you really haven't grown and changed much.

The second boyfriend gave him the first time, and then he should get married.

It seems that you are more casual about sex. It's not good, and it won't end well.

This is actually nothing, after all, all adults will have a past, and it is impossible to say that there is no past.

First of all, you have to confess to her first to determine whether the other party really has a crush on you and is willing to fall in love with you. If the girl wants to be with you, then you should first confirm the relationship with her.

The second step is to establish a relationship, and you will currently be in a long-distance relationship for a while. A girl works as a teacher in her hometown, and her job should be relatively stable, while you work in Guangdong, if you want to be together, you need to end the long-distance relationship as soon as possible, because a long time in two places will make the relationship between the two people more and more rusty.

Third, you have to decide where to settle down, whether you go back to your hometown or she comes out looking for you. Once you've decided, it's time to prepare for your life together. Since you are both both motivated, you can work hard to create a good living environment for both of you, no matter where you choose to be.

Therefore, when two people are together, they must have a long-term plan, and adults, they must be responsible for their love.

The other party obviously refused, why should you stalk to the death. You first decide if you really like people, or if it's just a novelty. This girl clearly said that she could be friends, and if she liked it, she didn't have to.

If you get along with each other for a week and confess directly, a sane woman will not agree, unless the two are happy. Let's figure out what your situation is. If you really want to fall in love, you can't be straightforward with this girl, the time has not come, she still gives a girl with a clear self-awareness, if she likes it, she likes it, if she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it, and she doesn't give you a spare tire, it's okay.

If you really like people, just start as a friend, and don't say anything I like you, there is no credibility.

First of all, she is willing to send such a long message to explain the problem, at least she attaches importance to this matter in her attitude, and she is afraid that you will be hit, so her tone is as tactful as possible.

It's not that I don't support you in chasing her.

You haven't known each other for a long time, you confessed too quickly, and the girl is not mentally prepared, but she can't agree to you out of order to protect herself.

This kind of thing needs to be trickled down the drain, if you really like her, brother might as well try to take it slowly, you must be patient, half a year to a year.

Finally, I wish you success in your pursuit.

Generally, most of the length is an explanation, I believe you also feel her rejection, and she said it very calmly, but feelings can be cultivated slowly, as she said, I liked it after knowing each other for a few days, a little impulsive, there is nothing wrong with you liking her, you can be nice to her at ordinary times, but keep your distance, slowly she will find your good, and at the same time, you also realize in it that you are in love with her at first sight or really like it. Just leave it to time.

This situation is very unlikely to determine your life. What I see is only the kind I like from the surface appearance, but whether the personality, soul and moral quality meet your requirements can only be manifested after a period of time, observed and reflected. If you believe that the first feeling determines your life at first sight, this is very sloppy and reckless.

After all, after getting married, you can't eat it as a meal, and the handsome guy can't stand it for a long time. But at that time, you don't seem to like the kind at a glance, you will definitely have a sense of boredom, disgust, at that time the contradiction will come out, the kind that does not suit your requirements, at this time the contradiction will come out, the relationship will break down, and it is likely to break up after the stalemate.

As a girl, I think what she did was actually inappropriate, first of all, I think even if you don't like it, you have to make it clear in person, and she proposed, I don't like you but still want to be friends with you, and I don't take into account your thoughts, I think if you continue to be friends after such a confession, it will definitely seem very embarrassing, and he doesn't like you, but he still wants to be friends with you, if she really doesn't have a good impression of you, she won't bring up the idea of being friends again, so I think you still have a chance, Can give it another try.

It's too fast, you've only known her for a week, and you confess to her, who can stand this? After all, you don't know each other, which exposes your need for her, and it is obvious from the girl's words that the few boys she talked about before who wanted good benefits also exposed his needs for her too quickly.

Adult feelings are not just okay, just don't do it, forget it. Unless you meet someone who has to be him in this life, or you can confess, but the confession is also to say that you like him, and if you don't confess, he knows what you mean, and he also rejects you very tactfully, so if you have to her, you are working hard, if it is not very strong, then slowly withdraw it.

I think yours is good, women use friendship to reject love, while men use friendship to develop love. I think it's only been a week, you're working hard, don't be too anxious, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. Emotional matters take time.

This is a clear rejection of you, and it is actually quite normal. The other party has just fallen out of love and is not ready for a new relationship. If you really think she's good, you can start with friends and take your time.

We all know that everyone has a little bit of their own secrets to a greater or lesser extent, but in an intimate relationship, it seems that there should be no secrets, so when women are in love with men, they are most afraid of men asking themselves these questions, because they don't know whether to tell the truth or not.

The content of the message is to euphemistically reject the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, but accept your request to add WeChat to show that I don't hate you as a person. That is, you can be friends. If you have any other ideas, it's up to you.

Since she rejected you, she just didn't like you, maybe the timing and the way she got along were not what she could be attracted to, so she didn't want to make you so uncomfortable to type such a long text.

I was stuck by a good person, and there are a lot of ideas that are not simple, it is not recommended that you continue to invest in wasting time, to be honest, very few people can handle this kind of scheming.

If the text is too long, it is best to keep it concise.

If you like it, you will confess and look at fate in the future.

Becoming a better version of yourself is king.