I ve had a crush on a boy for nine years, and I shouldn t confess it to him

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    According to your account, he should have a good impression of you, but he may not take the initiative on his side, and you don't take the initiative either, causing a certain impasse, and when he tells you that he doesn't want to fall in love during college, you shouldn't take it too seriously. There is no boy who doesn't want to fall in love in college, and what he doesn't want to talk about is the kind that he has more than enough heart but not enough power. He tells you that he doesn't want to, just because he thinks that if he says yes, it will make you feel as if he is looking for one in college.

    And his connection to your ex-boyfriend also proves that he has you in his heart.

    The approach you should take: since he is a person who is in love and cautious. A cautious person usually needs an enthusiastic girl to drive his emotions.

    So you have to be proactive. For example, you can chat a lot, go on a date, or give hints. Don't confess, and don't hint seriously to take, as he will find it difficult to decide all of a sudden.

    Just spread the mood until your enthusiasm for him is so contagious that he will open up to you, and even if you're close to success, it's just a matter of the fuse.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It seems that a confession is different for anyone, the important thing is that you have that confidence. I think it depends on what you think in your heart. All you lack is that drive.

    If I were you, I would try to say it to him. Confession is a good thing. You can know if he likes you or not.

    Even if it is rejected. I will also feel that it is not easy to like such a boy for 9 years. It's time to let go.

    People confess to others only for 2 points. (1): Whether he likes you or not.

    2): Will you ever be together? , and hopefully your courage will impress him.

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  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I believe that every girl who has a crush always has his best appearance in his heart.

    So instead of using the word forgetting to make yourself confused, it is better to keep this throbbing emotion of youth in the bottom of your heart, and then find someone you love or love you more.

    Just like Zhang Ailing said, there will always be a white rose and a red rose in our lives.

    Remember this unforgettable love, I believe that the girl who can love someone so infatuated must be a kind and beautiful girl, and will definitely meet a more suitable other half in your life

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Crushes are the most beautiful in everyone's hearts, especially the first love. It's already in this situation, it's too late.

    Keep the best memories between you, go and find your own home, there will be a future with a home, give up, the girl doesn't cry, wipe away her tears and go to tomorrow.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Again, my personal thoughts as a girl are, confession!! If you don't confess him, you'll regret it in the future! There are many accidents in life, and you can never predict what will happen in the next second!

    A person's life must always go crazy once, whether it is for a person, a dream, or a relationship! How long is a person's life! If you don't do what you want to do, will you really be happy alive?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Can't hide the red-haired old man "drunk old man" Shangguan Kang next to Xuanyuan Zhantian, after all, Shangguan Kang and Xuanyuan Zhantian are also powerhouses of the same level. Obviously, Shangguan Kang also discovered the surprise of that "birthmark", and quietly said to Xuanyuan Zhantian: "Old man Bing, this is a big deal, you'd better keep it strictly secret, it seems that your little grandson is very extraordinary."

    Informed people you are not ......After speaking, he quietly made a movement to wipe his neck. Looking at Shangguan Kang's usual smile and grin, he didn't expect that he would have a decisive style of killing and killing when he really started to do things. "No, I've already told them it's not a birthmark, and with their cultivation, it's impossible to see through my tricks, and there won't be any problems.

    After speaking.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There's no need for unrequited love, those feelings are just generated during your ignorance, and you haven't met the right person yet, forget about him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Wow! Similar to **, you can go to the newspaper office and take a look.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Be brave and speak up, even if he wants to reject you, it's enough to make you die.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's just that he didn't get a liking, and he may never like you. Forget the past and embrace the new future!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Look at what you think in your heart, if you want to be with him, confess, if you don't want to, forget about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Forget about it, giving up is also a best option.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's man-made, if you really like it, act quickly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Say it out loud if you love.

    Don't let yourself regret it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Loved it for so many years. Then go and confess. If the other party doesn't have a girlfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't confess, press him in the deepest part of your heart, don't touch it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you have the courage, try to confess to him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Some things, once you miss them, they don't come anymore, and after a long time, everything changes, and it doesn't make much sense to say it, and your happiness will come.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, I want to tell you that I have also been in a situation, and I believe that I can do it, and show my own courage.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course, love begins with confession.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then tell him to have the courage to pursue perseverance. It will definitely work.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't know how to say it, my words, I'd rather forget each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have your life, and there will be good things to come.

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