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When you were with me, I didn't envy anyone. If I envy someone, it's because you're next to that person.
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Qian Zhong's sentence to Yang Jiang warmed people's hearts.
I never thought about getting married before I met you, and I didn't think about anyone else when I got married after I met you.
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A classmate of mine went out to eat a roadside stall with his parents, and when he checked out, a total of 35 yuan, and his classmate's mother suddenly said to his father, 35, it happened to be the 35th anniversary of our marriage, and my classmate and his father took out a hundred, lined up on the table, and said, boss, don't look for it.
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In the past, the company's Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, the two leaders brought their fathers to participate, and everyone would inevitably go to toast. When I was respecting, I went up and said two words to the two old leaders: When I see the two, I think of my father, who will really give birth and give birth to a son so handsome.
He will also teach his sons, and the sons he teaches are excellent.
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Life is actually like a movie, which is always live. But there was never a dress rehearsal.
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On a blind date, the woman asked: Why did you come on a blind date at such a young age. : My aunt said you were great and didn't want me to miss you.
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You like a new leader very much, and if you say something like "I like you very much" when you talk to him, he may think that you are making a sycophant, and you are embarrassed to say it yourself. In a different way, say "A lot of people in our department say they like you."
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Girl, there must be someone who is prettier than you, but I don't see much of it in real life.
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1. Looking up at the starry sky certainly brings us motivation and expectations, but only being down-to-earth can take us to the distance of our dreams. Good morning.
2. Just as a wish can inspire a dream, a dream can also inspire a wish. Good morning.
3. Please believe that life will get better if it is bad enough, because it can't be worse! Therefore, we should always have sunshine in our hearts. Good morning and a new day!
4. In this world, there is a state of mind called weight-bearing, which is called weight-bearing, and weight-bearing is called weight-bearing if it can be lifted and put down. Instead of worrying about the future, it is better to work hard now. It is important to adjust your mindset and stick to a good state of mind.
No matter what kind of difficulties, no matter what kind of setbacks, there will always be a time when the rain has passed and the sky is fine, and sadness and complaining cannot solve any problems, only to deal with them aggressively. Good morning.
5. The perfection of the early morning is as fragrant as grass, as clear as a river, as transparent as glass, and as sweet as nectar. Good morning, dear friend, and may you be in a good mood today!
6. The angel asked me to tell you: Your good fortune is as much as the stars in the sky, and your happiness is as much as the fish under the sea! When you wake up in the morning, the first rays of sunlight that shine on you are the perfect start! Happy every day!
7. The sun is rising, and the breeze is blowing softly. The flowers stretch and the magpies chirp and sing. When you open your eyes, the perfection of the world is given to you. When the alarm goes off, my perfect blessing is presented to you. Good morning!
8. Get up early to do it, smile in the mirror, reflect perfection, all the troubles are gone, the morning light comes to embrace, good luck will not be less, blessings come to report, say hello to you early, I wish you a wonderful mood.
9. The morning glow is incomparably brilliant, sweeping away all your worries, and the morning dew is incomparably crystalline, decorating your beautiful state of mind; The flowers in the morning are incomparably beautiful, representing my blessings: I wish you a good morning with a smile and a happy mood!
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1. The years are a trip with no return, and the good and the bad are the scenery.
2. There are always some things that make you see some people clearly inadvertently.
3. Don't expect sudden good luck, just hope that all your efforts will eventually pay off.
4. Do things when you are awake, read when you are confused, sleep when you are angry, and think when you are alone.
5. Life is like tea, calm when sinking, indifferent when floating, and you need to be able to put it down if you can afford it.
6. When you are at your coldest, someone holds you regardless of their coldness, this is happiness.
7. To be a man, character is the first, and only then can it be second; To do things, reason is the first, and diligence is the second.
8. You never know how strong you are, until one day you have no choice but to be strong.
9. The surest way to get something you want is to make yourself worthy of it.
10. A person's real strength is not based on what he can do, but on what he can bear.
11. No one's luck comes out of thin air, only if you work hard enough, you will be lucky enough.
12. Coming is accidental, going is inevitable, and going with the flow; Gain indifferently, lose calmly, and strive for its inevitability.
13. Whether we are happy or not depends on how much we care, and whether we are sad or not depends on how much we care.
14. The reason why people make mistakes is not because they don't understand, but because they think they know everything.
15. Happiness is like drinking water, knowing your own warmth and coldness, your happiness is not in the eyes of others, but in your own heart.
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Leader: I originally planned to call you to go with me for this study trip, but due to the limited number of places, you can only arrange it until the next time, sorry.
Xiao A: You don't have to be embarrassed, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter if you go this time or not, you can still get your cultivation in the unit.
Before Xiao A's voice fell, the leader turned around and went back to the office.
And, since then, the leadership seems to have deliberately avoided him. In the past, every time Xiao A ran over to report his work, he could get the "guidance" of the leader Fu.
But recently, every time I go to the leader's office, the leader is either not available, or he hastily listens to the report and sends Xiao A away.
The leader says "I'm sorry" to you, what kind of full score.
The problem lies in Little A's statement:
First, I didn't understand the meaning of the leader's words, and I had a preconceived idea, mistakenly thinking that the leader was really "embarrassed".
the second is to mistake the style of the leader, and pat the horse's hooves;
The third is that he didn't understand the original intention of the leader's words, and didn't say what the other party wanted to hear.
Obviously, Xiao A originally wanted to express the following meanings: You have outstanding leadership ability, and I can learn a lot under your cultivation; I wasn't scheduled to go out to study this time, so that's okay.
However, because the leadership is not considered, the leader is put in an awkward position, which exposes the lack of emotional intelligence. In a way, it's better for you to not talk and just smile than to reply.
The leader says "I'm sorry" to you, what kind of full score.
So, how do you properly answer your leader?
The essence of work is to solve problems, and the leader throws you such a sentence, which is to solve the problem, communicate ideas, and motivate employees
1.Recognize that the leader is not saying "I'm sorry" to you.
Therefore, you should not preconceive of things like "it doesn't matter" or "it's okay", but feel flattered.
2.To express gratitude.
Although this time I didn't arrange for you to study and inspect, the leader still communicated with you privately, and in the end, the leader still thought of you in his heart.
The first thing you need to do is to express your gratitude to the leader, and it would be good to be able to read you, such as: thank you for the leader's affirmation, thank the leader for telling me this, etc.
3.Give feedback on your inner feelings.
As a leader, it is impossible to satisfy all subordinates every time you work, but you also don't want to have misunderstandings with subordinates because of poor communication.
This time, I didn't arrange for you to study, and the leader actually had concerns in his heart. He asked you this because he wanted to hear your true thoughts and dispel misunderstandings between them.
If you only care about "it doesn't matter if you go this time, you can still get your cultivation in the unit", and ignore the essence of the leader's sentence, then the leader will inevitably have a "disgust" for you, and even think that you are hypocritical.
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The proportions of your speech are also the dimensions of how you behave. A person with high emotional intelligence will never say the following 6 words.
1.Don't talk about your heart. No matter how speculative the conversation is, don't rush to make a heart-to-heart exchange first; Time is the best filter, which will precipitate the most genuine feelings.
2.Don't say hurtful things when you're angry. Keeping your mouth shut when you are angry is a kind of wisdom, and it is also a kind of practice.
3.When people don't complain, they fight with each other. If you don't complain, you will be able to go further and further.
4.Do not speak arrogant things before men. The water is low into the sea, and the people are low for Wang Xun, and the really powerful people have always been humble in their hearts, leaving a little room to do the circle.
5.It's easy not to say what promises. Instead of promising well, it is better to be attentive in action.
6.The joke is not short. The real cultivation is: even if it is a joke, do not forget to empty the heart of the kindness, when and where do not say anything about people's selfishness, do not expose people's shortcomings.
I hope you and I can be a person with high emotional intelligence, with kindness in my heart, cultivation engraved in my bones, and every word I say is warm.
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1. People with high emotional intelligence chat with the opposite sex like this.
There are many kinds of flowers in the world, and I love roses alone, but at this moment I want to give them to you.
You are like air everywhere, and if you don't have it, you will die.
Your figure is like Xu Zhimo's farewell Kangqiao, rippling in my heart.
I don't know if I will see you again in the next life, but I want to protect you well in this life and this life.
I want to be your phone because wherever you go, you'll have me in your pants pocket.
One thing I found in you is what it means to like.
Like you, it's like making my IQ of 150 0 0, no ego.
Your eyes hold the secrets of the galaxy, so I want to dig deeper.
I want to wake up every morning with sunshine, breakfast, and a unique you.
The Buddha said that the six roots should be pure, but the moment I met you, I was destined to have no chance with the Buddha.
2. People with high emotional intelligence communicate with people in this way.
After someone has helped you, instead of saying "thank you" but "thank you", or add the other person's name after "thank you".
In the chat, people with high emotional intelligence talk to people like this: "What you said seems to make sense, but wouldn't it be better?" ”
In conversations, people with high emotional intelligence generally say, "What do you think?" Instead of "No, you can't do this" "No, you're doing it wrong, you should ...
Don't talk to others in a condescending tone, and don't think of yourself as a god on high, know that others don't owe you anything, let alone your little henchman, little slave. Everyone should have their own ideas, their own thinking, don't impose your own ideas on others, and know the truth that you should not do to others what you would not do to yourself.
And we usually find that those with high emotional intelligence will consider the other person's words, such as adding a sentence at the end of the sentence "Okay?" This is not only to express your own opinions and suggestions, but also to give others more opportunities to express their emotions, is a way of talking and chatting with respect for others, and also shows that you have not ignored him and considered his feelings.
In other words, when you get along with the opposite sex, you should also think like this, don't just think about yourself, but think more about the other person. Think from the other person's point of view and find problems. Instead of talking about yourself and only talking about yourself, only talking about your own business, this is like a saying we often say:
Wang Po sells melons and boasts.
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People with high emotional intelligence have their own unique opinions, and people with high emotional intelligence have their own ideals, which are the goals of life and a possible imagination of people in the future. An ideal is an imagination of the future, however, not all imagination is an ideal. Ideals are different from fantasies, but also from fantasies and delusions.
The ideal is a correct imagination that has outstanding characteristics that are different from fantasies, utopians, and delusions. First, ideals have objective inevitability. The objective inevitability of an ideal is that the ideal is an imaginary that correctly reflects the objective reality and the relationship between reality and the future, conforms to the law of change and development of things, and can be realized through hard work.
Second, ideals are social. Ideal is a spiritual phenomenon unique to human beings, and ideal has a distinct social character. Ideal sociality refers to the fact that the ideal is not the random imagination of an isolated individual who has left society, but the imagination that is conditioned and determined by society.
Third, ideals have a class character. In a class society, ideals have a distinct class character. In a class society, because of the different social status and economic interests of different classes, the goals pursued are also different, so the ideals they form are also different.
People's class status and class interests determine that people's ideals will inevitably bear the imprint of class in a class society, and the ideal of the unity of all classes does not exist.
High emotional intelligence is to have others in your heart, always stand in the position of others to take care of others' feelings, and say warm words. Give others care and respect, and you can often get the respect of others. People with high emotional intelligence speak very sincerely, and their words reflect their concern and consideration for others everywhere, and they are always welcomed by others everywhere, giving people a feeling of spring breeze.
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