How to be reborn after falling out of love? How to be reborn after falling out of love?

I was told that I would feel lonely when I first broke up, and that I would be chic after this time.

In fact, what we can't forget is not this person, but this memory.

We dwell on it because we didn't get it. However, we have not thought about it: even if we are reconciled, there is no way to go back to the beginning; Even if you forgive, you can't grow old together, spend the rest of your life together.

What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fear. We can't forget all kinds of memories of the past, the times when we went shopping together, ate together, and played together, not this person. <>

Since we can break up, there must be inappropriate reasons, we just don't want to let ourselves out. Crying and drinking hurt his body, for him there is only sympathy, nothing else, and even this will make him feel that he has no self-respect and no self-love.

Learn to divert your attention. Read a book, listen to a song, or run a walk. Let yourself start a new life, seal the past, put it in the box of memories, and wait until one day to look back at the memories that are not so painful.

If you bloom, the breeze will come. One day you will meet the right person at the right time and start a new life. What we haven't been able to let go of is the demons in our hearts, competing with ourselves!

I thought about it, so I put it down.

After falling out of love, you have to know that if you are out of love, it means that you and your ex are not suitable at all, and if so, why did the two of you break up? Although you gave a lot in your last relationship, and you feel that you have already paid attention to her, but then you broke up, you will definitely be very sad and sad, but I personally think that you should not fall down, because our lives still need to go on. Although your ex is now far away from you, and you can't do it anymore, what's the use of you being too sad?

It can affect your work and your life, so it's a big deal to wipe away your tears and dress up your best self for the next day. <>

Let go of yourself for a while. Give yourself some time to think about what your future life holds. Then it's just a matter of finding a place to travel and relax. Look more at the scenery and see more people and nature. The mood will also be better, and the pain will be far away.

A few days before falling out of love, sitting is not, standing is not, the heart can not be calm, the bits and pieces of the two of them have been lingering in the mind, the heartache is speechless, no matter how much they love each other at the beginning, they are separated due to various reasons in the process of getting along, and it is impossible to recover

If you don't guess that falling out of love can't be reborn, it's a pathology, like the feeling of liking running but can't run.

A person is unbridled and chic, eating, drinking, laughing, and laughing, not talking about feelings I am like this, after falling out of love, I fell in love with travel and fell in love with the feeling of wandering

Learn from Capricorn, work and study hard, and work overtime to go to the library every day.

Find another one from scratch, reason told me.

The experience of counterattacking after a breakup is very successful. In fact, falling in love is also a contest and a contest of wisdom. This is true of the counterattack after the breakup. Let's take a look at how to do it:

Need to reduce your sense of need after a breakup: The first step to a counterattack is to restrain your emotional needs for him. One might say:

What if I can't do it? Feelings are uncontrollable! It is true that emotions cannot be controlled, but your actions can be controlled.

When you miss him, don't send him any more messages, hit **, stare at the bend and do something else to divert your attention. When he is no longer your whole world, you will be able to stay calm and not do crazy things. Even if, after the breakup, you will not adapt to the days when he is not by your side, it is easy to remember how good he was to you before, and feel that you can't leave him at all, so you will try your best to redeem it and expose all your emotions in front of him, but you don't know that you look very humble like this.

There is such a sentence, which sounds quite hypocritical, but there is really some truth in saying it: what you can't get is always in turmoil. Human nature is like this, we will desire things that are not easy to get, and we will not cherish things that can be obtained.

To guide the other party to invest in you, you can understand it as looking for a topic: if you do so much for her, will he be moved? It could be a joke in his opinion, and of course, it could be stress.

In short, what you think of as "good for him" doesn't seem like that to him. In the final analysis, the things you do for him don't really think from the other person's point of view, but just satisfy your own "sense of need".

In a relationship, it is not that the more you invest, the more you will gain, but the more the other party invests in you, the more you will not be able to let go. How do you guide the other party to invest for you? I told you before - the rule of three or three, this method is that you say a word, guide the other party to reply to you, and then you reply again, and end this sentence.

Your first sentence is better to ask for help, such as: Can you help me find resources for a movie? In fact, it is to find a topic and interact with each other appropriately.

However, the matter of asking for help must be simple, without spending too much energy, within his ability. Otherwise, the other party will only think that you are too troublesome and do not want to help this anymore. After saying this, no matter how the other party replies to you, you have to thank him, and then stop in time and don't talk more.

In this way, he pays more for you, and he values you more.

Broken loveIf you want to get better, it's not difficult, follow the method I shared with you, and you will be able to get out of the emotional pain and face a better life again.

1. You should learn to grieve regularly.

When you just break up, it is difficult to keep the lovelorn from being sad and encourage him to work hard. Bad emotions cannot be suppressed, only catharsis. Therefore, it is recommended that the lovelorn choose a short period of time every day to mourn by himself**.

During this specific time, let yourself cry out happily, express yourself to your heart's content, only think about the painful past, and even exaggerate the facts to make yourself sad and sad. Outside of this time, you have to focus entirely on your work and stop thinking about unpleasant things.

2. Keep in touch with others.

Remember not to cut yourself off from the outside world because of pain, to close yourself off, to hide in dark corners, and not to associate with everyone. In this period of depression and self-confidence, it is actually more important to contact relatives and friends around you.

3. Ensure a regular life. In the early stages of a broken relationship, there are often emotional disturbances, and life will be greatly changed as a result, and if you can work hard to ensure the regularity of your life at this time, you can effectively alleviate the pain of the breakup.

Man, learn to think rationally. Apply a rational way of thinking instead of an emotional way of thinking. Many lovelorn friends are prone to fall into a kind of thinking mistake after a breakup, feeling that they have completely failed, will never be happy, and cannot extricate themselves for a long time.

In fact, this is wrong thinking, and breaking up does not mean failure. Being single also has the right to enjoy happiness, and those who are married may not necessarily be happy.

In fact, the vast majority of people will experience the pain of falling out of love, which is also very normal, we must treat it rationally, to understand that falling out of love is not all bad, on the one hand, we can get mental exercise, on the other hand, it also allows us to understand what real love is, how to love, so don't be too entangled, don't be too embarrassed yourself, love is very important, but not all of life, there are still a lot of things you need to do, love yourself, I believe that the future will get better and better.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

Reading, exercising, don't let yourself be idle, time will tell.