Love your girl and the girl you love, how will you choose?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Men must choose what they love so that they have the motivation to fight, and women must choose to love themselves, so that they can live without getting tired.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't choose any of them, only one party in love works hard and doesn't get anything in return, which is too cruel.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I will choose to be loved, because in this way I can get the happiness of being loved, and I can also try to like her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love you and what you love, it is recommended that you choose what you love, girls are different from boys, the longer the time, the easier it is to be moved, and men will only cherish and give to the girls they love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I'm a boy, the first thing to look at is to see who is more beautiful of these two girls, if the gap between the two sides is particularly large, it must be the good-looking one, if the beautiful temper and temperament are not in harmony with yourself, then choose the other one.

    But if two people are similar in all aspects, then I choose to love me, so that my life will be very happy, the more I love, the more willing to give, so that in the future life, I can slowly accept her, and it is because of her love that she will cherish the days she has now.

    In this way, two people will live well, I now think that the most important thing is for two people to live together and live beautifully, but if I choose one that I like, then I am not sure if I can go on forever in the future, it is easy to fall in love with someone, but it is a difficult thing to make the other person fall in love with yourself and be willing to spend a lifetime with yourself.

    Therefore, although I like her very much now, I am reluctant to choose her, it is too hard to love someone, especially if the other party doesn't like me yet. Then I might as well try to accept someone who likes me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In your own relationship, you must choose a girl who loves you, so that it is a real happiness, so that two people can have a feeling of true love for each other, and this happiness should be cherished.

    Such a choice can make two people have mutual love for each other, love can be cultivated slowly, to two people have a real communication, in order to have a real happiness, this happiness is completely based on the trust of two people, there is a girl who loves herself, she will love herself wholeheartedly.

    It is this state that can allow two people to have a good foundation of love, and slowly let each other's emotions have a real breakthrough, and then find the true love of two people.

    If you choose the girl you love, such a thing will really change, so that your relationship will always be one-sided pay, and you will not get a real return at all, and this kind of relationship will always make your life very tired.

    After a long time, their own efforts can not win the girl's true heart at all, no matter how hard they try, in this love, there is no real support and real understanding, and this relationship is completely like two strangers, a person pays forever.

    And this kind of emotion can't stand the test of time at all, and slowly let your feelings disappear in life, and what it brings to you is always the greatest pain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If I were a boy, I would definitely find a girl who loves me, not a girl I love, because I personally think that if I find a crooked daughter, then I will have to pay rent, all my energy is on him, I will always be good to her, I will be in love with it, I will not be able to extricate myself, but if he does not love me, then it will be miserable. Maybe I've really become an infatuated species. At this time, if he doesn't love me, and I have been pursuing her, then how painful I am, so if I really want to choose one, of course I will choose one who loves me, if he loves me, he will not leave me, that is, if a woman really does this to herself, you will also fall in love with it, and in the end I will choose, the girl who loves me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Many people will be entangled in a question, how to choose between the person who loves me and the person I love?

    The so-called radish and cabbage have their own love. Some people will choose to love me, and many people will choose the people I love.

    Life is not easy, do it and cherish it, of course I will choose a person I love, so that I will not be in vain, so that I can live up to this world.

    Once I had a man who loved me very much and loved me and regarded me as a treasure. Take good care of me, cook my favorite meals every day, and think about everything for me. Care for me, love me, love me, spoil me.

    I also take it all for granted, and I think maybe that's how life is. But it wasn't until I met him.

    Yes, I hurt my man who loved me and broke up with him. Yes, I left him completely.

    Actually, I wasn't a bad girl, and when I met the man I loved, I knew that I should listen to my heart. I should be myself and pursue what I like, even if it doesn't work out, I won't regret it, at least I'm still young. It's time to do it, and it's time to make mistakes.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not necessarily, if you are good to him, he will not necessarily like you, gratitude and affection are two different things.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, if the other person doesn't like you, no matter how good you are to her, he won't fall in love with you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, if you don't like it, you don't like it, no matter how good you are to her, you still won't like it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, it won't. If you don't like it, you don't like it, and she won't like you just because you're good to her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Not necessarily, some girls don't like you, they just don't like you, and no matter how much you do, it's useless.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't know what age you're referring to. I'm going to talk about 15 or 20 years old.

    If a girl likes you, she will talk to you and play with you from time to time, and she will think of you when she is bored. She will basically not refuse your request and will help. Even if you're dating a girlfriend, she'll stay in a relationship with you, give you advice, and teach you how to chase that girl.

    She will give you encouragement when you are down, but it will not affect her mood. You are best friends with her.

    If a girl loves you, it's not the same as liking. She only has you in her mind, she will care about your food, drink and Lazar, she will take the initiative to take care of you when you are sick, and she will be close to you regardless of the rumors of others. She will ask more of you.

    She will also be very possessive of you, and she will be angry if you are in a relationship with other girls. When you are down, she encourages you and she herself is sad because you are unhappy. If you are alone with her, she will show affection.

    The above may help you distinguish whether a girl likes you or loves you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The difference between a girl who likes you and loves you is that liking is just heartbeat, but love is heartache.

    Like is the first time we meet, but love is always tired of seeing each other. Love is the sweet words on the lips, and love is the bitter medicine that is sent to you. Love needs to tolerate all of one's shortcomings and give regardless of return.

    It's a happy thing to like someone, but after falling in love, you will always be inexplicably lost, so why bother to be unhappy? As for the last sentence, what I want to say the most, love is bondage, and love is fulfillment.

    Like and love are completely different, like may just want to be with him, but love needs long-term companionship, and you need to give your heart to each other. You love to eat, you love to play, you will not hesitate to give it all. If you like someone, you are always afraid that the other person will ask for too much, but if you love someone, you will always be afraid that you will not give enough.

    That's the difference between liking and loving. So when you decide that you want to give your all to someone, make sure that they are the ones you love and not the ones you like.

    Love and like, and most importantly, don't let yourself regret it, and don't let yourself be left with regrets. Your dedication can only be seen by those who love you, and I read this passage in a book a few days ago: People will always like many people in their lives, but often we have loved very few people.

    Like is not the same as love, like someone you will not be willing to do anything for him, but falling in love with someone is different, you are willing to give him all your love.

    If you like someone, you are always afraid that the other person will ask for too much, but if you love someone, you will always be afraid that you will not give enough. That's the difference between liking and loving. So when you decide that you want to give your all to someone, make sure that they are the ones you love and not the ones you like.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's really hard for us to tell the difference between liking and loving, I say me.

    I like you, sometimes it may be just love you, I say I love you, I must like you. Like and love are both feelings or emotions, and sometimes, they can't be separated. If you like it, you may love, and if you love it, you will love it. Like is the foundation of love, and love is the sublimation of like.

    When you like someone, you can't control your desire to express yourself and try all kinds of ways to attract the other person's attention and let the other person see you. And if you love someone, you will be silently by his side, rejoicing in his joy and grieving for his sorrow. Like is to attract each other, love is to feel sorry for each other.

    Like a person, or like something, this kind of liking is just a pleasant impulse of all cells in the body, and what it brings to a person is a momentary excitement, a momentary love, and an instantaneous impulse. And love is the kind of inner heartbeat, the kind of mood that you want to have and cherish, not just an impulse, whether he is there or not, you see it or not, you think about it and like it.

    Liking someone means that when you are doing something else, you suddenly think of him and you will be happy to think about it, but this longing quickly passes and you start doing something else. And love is an irrepressible longing, so that you have no way not to think about him. Like is to think in the heart, love is bound to act.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The girl who loves you cares a lot about your words and deeds, cares about your life, and sometimes cares a little bit when you are together. Girls who like you don't care too much about your words and deeds, just simple greetings, and they just feel happy with you, and they don't care too much about your feelings. The person who loves you will say "I love you", you are the only one I am, willing to marry you and face the days ahead.

    The person who likes you will say "I like you", he is happy with you, and in his mind you may be a spare tire. The girl who loves you goes to your place and sees a relatively messy room, she may say that you are sloppy, but he will help you clean up the room, will help you fold the quilt and wash your clothes to clean up the housework together, and the girl who likes you may dislike your room and will not help you at all. The girl who loves you will have affection when she sees you, and she doesn't know what to say, and the deer in her heart is bouncing around.

    Girls who like you will be happy to see you and will only talk to you about happy things. The person who loves you is willing to give everything for you, and your person is all he has, and he trusts you all his feelings. The person who likes you can only go to invite you to a meal, some simple giving, to be with you to be happy, or other places that attract her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The difference between a girl who likes you and loves you is that if a girl likes you, if a girl likes you, she is willing to be with you and tell you everything, she has no defense against you, and she doesn't care about what you think. If she loves you, she has to be very affectionate to you, and she may be careful when she tells you something, for fear of arousing your disgust. She cares a lot about how she feels in your mind.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is a difference between a girl who likes you and loves you. Like your girl, will be.

    Socialize with you everywhere, go with you to play and chat with you, and you can also eat together. But like just to make friends with you. Someone who truly loves you will care about you in life, and you have things that will help you.

    When you are sick, she will run for you and wait for you. She will worry about you everywhere and take care of your life and everything. This is the person who truly loves you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If a girl likes you, she will chat with you intentionally or unintentionally, play with you, always think of you when she is bored, and when you encounter difficulties, she will give you encouragement and help, but it will not affect her mood too much. If a girl loves you, she will treat you as her all, always care about your every move, your words and deeds will involve her heart, your business is her business, and she will go to the trouble for you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The first point is that to like is to get, and love is to give. If a woman just likes you, then there is nothing else that can be done about comforting you with words when you are in trouble. And if she is really in love with you, she will share the pain with you and help you in any way she can.

    The second point is that like is to live in the moment, and love is to take responsibility. Love is to spend good time with each other, and love is to be able to be with you through thick and thin, facing setbacks together.

    The third point is that love is the joy at first sight, and love is never tired of it. To like is to like your strengths, not to see your shortcomings. Love is about being able to tolerate your shortcomings. She will accept you one and all.

    Like is not the same as love.

    True love has happiness and joy, as well as sorrow and tears. Only after the test of time can you say that you have met true love.

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