How to repair after a breakup, how to heal a broken heart after a TED breakup

Waiting can cure heartache, there is no other way.

If I were you, I'd enjoy the feeling of heartache.

Prove that you have a next time

In fact, such a failure is not enough to prove anything.

Failure can only make us really lead to grow up.

Arguably. It is difficult for us to reach the other side of success without experiencing failure.

Recently, a lot of Sen Ku fans asked me about the lovelorn Ran Qing asked this question, and the sisters came to share "About the broken love.

Lovelorn people are often more likely to suffer, especially in the dead of night, they are particularly easy to be emotional, and at this time they must learn to use the right way to adjust their emotions. Clause.

1. Learn to shift your attention so that you don't have time to think about falling out of love. Clause.

2. Enrich your spiritual life, read more books and read good books, and make your heart strong. Third, expand your circle of friends of the opposite sex, meet more friends of the opposite sex, and try to socialize. And start developing a new romance.

If you want to adjust your mood, the first choice is to talk to your good friend, and you should tell your friends all your inner feelings and thoughts without reservation under the condition of completely trusting your friends, so that your friends can evaluate your current state and listen carefully to your friends' suggestions. If you want to recover your mood, don't be afraid that your friends will know your situation, so that you can release the pain and troubles in your heart, and you can also seek comfort and spiritual sustenance from your friends.

After losing love, the most common reaction is to lose confidence. We can deliberately arrange some fulfilling work for ourselves to do, so that we can get rid of emptiness, so that we can have no time to take care of the pain and troubles in our hearts; Or take part in some entertainment activities that you like, or take a quick trip to distract yourself.

I have a friend, also talked about more than 4 years, to talk about marriage, the woman proposed to break up, of course, there are many reasons, he said that he almost didn't jump off the building at that time, locked in the room for 2 days without eating or drinking, and then came out with the strength of friends, and went out with friends more! Share more!

What ——— loses is one person, and what it has is the world's ———

First give you a hug in front of the screen, as I have experienced the pain of falling out of love many times, I empathize with it at this time!

I believe you have searched for thousands of questions about "how to spend the lovelorn", here is the first quote from the rabbit's answer You have read a thousand correct answers, or you still have to wait for time second by second, what you said is very right, in fact, the best medicine to get out of the lovelorn is "time".

So, apart from waiting for that "point in time" to come quietly, what else can you do after falling out of love?

Social confiding

When I first fell out of love, I told you any big truths, you can't listen to them, it's better to embrace the state of falling out of love, cry, make trouble, drink (drink less), and confide.

We must do everything we can to vent our inner irritability, restlessness, and anguish.

Socialize

soul in a canConfide

Paste it: Break up, etc., tell your story, see other people's answers, do you want it?

There is a grocery store.

How long has it been since you wrote? Write down your story of broken love and send it The next day a pen pal will reply for you, you just have to come to the grandfather to pick it up. This sense of anticipation waiting for a reply will make you unconsciously cover up other emotions.

Your diary. Get busy, just for a better self

After venting, your state may be much better than the anxiety and irritability when you just broke out of love. But in your spare time, you must not be able to control your brain, will continue to surface all kinds of past, do not deliberately suppress, let yourself be busy, whether it is sports, study, can be very natural and comfortable for you to adapt to a person's life.

life

It's better to be kind to yourself than to be immersed in pain, and three apps to improve your quality of life.

Xiaohongshu (female): A lifestyle platform, whether it is clothing matching, beauty tutorials, travel guides, and food evaluations, there are all here.

The fifth series (men) :** is equipped with a one-stop shopping vertical e-commerce, focusing on solving the high-end matching needs of men.

food

The first thing you learn to take care of yourself in the kitchen is to start cooking.

moving

Keep exercise can alleviate the pain of falling out of love, it's really not just talking, exercise consumption is relatively large, it will take away a lot of negative energy from you, and when you sleep at night, you can also fall asleep quickly because of exhaustion.

Flowers

Take a break in the flower field. Cultivate your own hobbies, such as flower arrangement, and the flower field will launch original flower arrangements every day to provide aesthetic guidance.

Pat it

A flashLearn

TEDTED, a private non-profit organization in the United States, organizes the TED conference with the purpose of "using the power of ideas to change the world".

Sleep

If you want to have a good night's sleep, you can try to listen to white noise, I have used many of this kind of software, and finally I still think that small sleep is easy to use.

Finally

Let's end it in one sentence:

Happiness may be late, but TA is never absent!

First of all, you have to think that this is a normal thing, many people will encounter it, you have to have a very normal mentality, don't think that if something happens to him, "her", you will lose the whole world. Secondly, you have to play with friends more, but not to drink and how to numb yourself! Many times people will touch the scene, so there is no need to be sad, you just want to love at that time, you have also been like this, you have also been happy, and thank him "She" for giving you memories.

There are memories that are beautiful whether they are bitter or sweet!!

It's over, it's over, so why bother!

No one will scold you, after all, love is an emotion that you can't easily control.

When people can't get it, they don't mind anything, and after they get it, they will mind a little bit about everything. It's love, please don't mind. Some people ask, when you are separated, is it the person who leaves who is more painful, or the person who stays who is more painful?

It should be said that the one who loves the most is more painful. Confused? The problem is still in crisis?

That's because you can't help it, do you want me to help?

I suggest you take a look at one of the TED talks: Heartbreak Moments in Life.

Cut off all thoughts, delete everything about him, you are still numbing yourself with repeated recollections. You yourself think this is not good, but you still can't help but "make a mistake", which means that you are not completely desperate, if you know that it is absolutely impossible for you in this life, then you will let go, in the end you still hold on to that little bit of luck hope.

You are selfish! You don't love him! Just love yourself! Or maybe you care a lot about how you feel! If you really love him, you will be relieved quickly. You don't call it love, it's possession, for the satisfaction of your own desires, and you trap yourself with your troubles.

There is no need to scold you, if you see my **, you will be relieved immediately.

This is normal, after all, you know each other and love each other. If you can forget, as you say, there is no such thing as "love" between you. You can try to slowly turn into friends with him, don't love and hate!

If you are in love, all the reasons for breaking up are excuses! Since it's for academics, why did they bother to be together in the first place? Why didn't you have to worry about your studies in the first place?

Now that you're divided, let's devote yourself to your studies, time will dilute everything! If you really can't let go and still love each other, just shake hands and make peace!

Die....Or go to Huangquan, I can only say that she doesn't like you, otherwise studies are not a problem, Shenma is not a problem....

Sometimes the person we love is not perfect, and neither are we ourselves, and it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and arguments, but whenever we think of his goodness, our hearts will soften. In fact, the person who can always accompany you is not the most perfect person, but the person who can see your good and think about your good. The moment when you mourn and die is often not that you don't see him well, but that you know that you are worthless in his eyes.

Would you like to give you some way to do it? Otherwise, you're waiting here, who can help you?

Friend, this is your computer "lost" or "mistakenly deleted" the "System Files", or "System Files".

pieces" are "destroyed" by viruses and "stubborn" Trojans, I give you 8 ways: (The answer is original, theft is strictly prohibited.)

1) "Scan" the virus first, then delete it, and then "restart immediately"!

2) After restarting the boot, click "Isolate|" againRecover", point: "Completely delete", "virus files" and "Yes."

Suspicious self-startup item"!

3) Click "Repair" and "Select All" again, and then "Repair" the file!

4) Click on "Recover Lost DLL Files" again, scan it, if not, it's OK!

2。Use "360 Security Guard" in "System Repair", click on "Use 360 Security** Navigation", and again.

Select All", "One-Click Repair", "Return"!

3。Use "360 Security Guard" to "Scan Plugins" and then "Clean Plugins" to remove it!

4。Then use "360 Antivirus Dual Engine Edition", check "Automatically process scanned virus threats", and use "Whole.

Scan" and "Custom Scan", scan out the virus Trojan, and then click Delete!

After restarting the computer, come to "Quarantine Chaostown" and click "Delete completely"!

5。Use 360 Security Guard's "Trojan Cloud Scanning" to scan the whole disk, and then "customize the scan" after completion!

Sweep out Trojan horses or malicious virus programs and delete them!

After restarting the computer, go to "Quarantine" and click "Delete completely"!

6。If it still doesn't work, try: "Kingsoft First Aid Kit" extended scanning and "Kingsoft Net Shield", one-click repair.

Complex! 7。No more, restart the computer, after booting, press F8, press Enter, Enter, enter the "Safe Mode", "Advanced Boot Options", "Last Correct Configuration", press to try it, and see the effect!

8。It's really not good, do a "one-click restore" system! (Method: I have it in my space blog).

One-click repair.

one key repair

English [ri p ]american [r p r]vtRepair; Rectify; Recover; Make up for;

n.Repair; repair work; Repair certificate.

State; repaired things;

It's win98, right? If so, it's normal, but if it doesn't work after a few attempts, you can only force the computer to shut down. It is recommended to change to the XP system.

There may be a problem with the hardware, take a look out of the box!

To be exact, it's blue screen white English.,There's no big obstacle to application.,If you still feel uncomfortable, then backup the necessary files of the C disk and reinstall it.,Use the clone version of the system disk.,Ten minutes to get it.。

Forced shutdown,There's nothing wrong with the computer.,Restart it and let the computer self-check it shouldn't be a big problem.,Anti-virus,Clean up garbage or something.。 Normal.

How to set the IP address of the computer network.