Children should be psychologists by nature, and a genius baby should have four psychological foundat

People are born psychologists!

Children's mental health is neglected to the point of none.

A child's development is the source of self-confidence.

Under countless repressions and punishments, the nature is oppressed so that it can develop.

There's a big problem with your point of view! Is there a big difference between China's home education and that of other developed Western countries? It's just a filial piety that kills people!

For the sake of parents, can you even have dignity and even life? In order to let your parents' unhappiness find an outlet, can you swallow your own bitterness and bow your head to be a turtle with a shrunken head? It's really embarrassing for a poor child as a poor child born in the 90s, I poured out my bitter water, and waved my arms and shouted:

I'll never forget how many times I cried all night after being scolded by you. So, please give us a little respect, a little encouragement, and I will have the motivation and courage to move forward without stopping!!

Although I can hear it, you are talking back. But a child is not a psychologist or a psychologist, but he can be a good child, and children's joys, sorrows, and sorrows are normal.

I hope you don't compare children to anything.

A child is a child, and he is not any "expert" or "scholar".

He's just a kid, and those things are better off for a decade or so.

Now what experts say.

That's insulting to the child.

Probably we know what a "specialist" is

But do the kids know? Only some "parents" who "hope" that their children will become "dragons" will do what to do.

The age of 3 is the child's first period of resistance, the first leap in self-awareness. At this time, suppressing his resistance by force means that it has not been better developed at this stage. Now that they are 6 years old, there is a new period of development, and learning has become their main task again.

The suggestions are as follows: First, the child is still young, take the initiative to re-establish a new relationship with the child. The second is to take the children to do what they want to do, such as a children's playground.

The third is to let children be with their partners and increase the emotional exchange between partners. The fourth is to let children play games with their parents to eliminate children's fears.

Psychological research has found that IQ (IQ) is actually not a large genetic component, and the proportion of extreme genius and extreme stupidity in the population is very small. For most people, they are born with an average level of intelligence. But through nurture, the achievements of these people of mediocre intelligence can change dramatically.

If well trained, there will be very good scientists, artists, and entrepreneurs among them; On the contrary, those gifted genius babies are very likely to lack emotional intelligence and be incompatible with the environment in the bad environment of the day after tomorrow, and they will do nothing in adulthood.

What psychological foundation does a baby with high IQ IQ and EQ need to have?

1 Stable sense of security

Mommy's love for the baby will give the baby a great sense of security, and this sense of security will shape the baby's stable personality, and the stable personality will play a vital role in bringing out the baby's creativity.

2 Intense curiosity

At the beginning of a human being, any baby will have a strong sense of curiosity about himself and the things around him, and curiosity is the basis of creative thinking. But if not to guide curiosity into the sane. level, then curiosity will degenerate or dissipate.

Bacon said that in order to enter the kingdom of science, we must become like little children. His statement reminds us that we need to have childlike humility and keen curiosity, and also reminds us that this gifted quality can easily disappear.

3 The desire to explore

When the baby wants to lick everything he sees, and wants to touch and beat it with his hands, in fact, he is exploring the world in his own way. Clever mommy should not blindly stop the baby's exploration activities, but take him to perceive and explore the world with him. For example, you can find and choose some items that are both safe and of different materials, let the baby touch and smell, as long as it is clean, it doesn't hurt to let the baby lick it, so that the baby understands that the world is made up of different objects.

4. Thinking training

This is the most critical part of why a genius baby becomes a genius. If curiosity and the desire to explore are not channeled and elevated to the level of thinking, the genius of the baby may be slowly annihilated. Only by rising to the level of thinking, the creativity of the baby can be brought into full play.

Psychologists advocate that genius babies should pay special attention to training reflective thinking. This can also be understood as that, in addition to positive logical thinking, it is also necessary to cultivate more babies for reverse thinking. Reflective thinking has the following two characteristics:

Reflective thinking involves implicit succession, combination, and order. The order of thought always indirectly follows the order of action. Smart mommy should always guide the baby to ask:

Why is this happening? What else? What if not?

What can be done after that? In the Q&A with the baby, the baby's logical thinking ability is consciously cultivated.