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The easiest way to do this is to treat your wife and your mother as colleagues, and you as an intermediary to reconcile. Your trouble is that you want to help your mother, but you are afraid that your wife will be angry. This is a big taboo for men.
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Hey, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult, but everyone will be safe and sound if they each take a step. Relax your mind.
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Be neutral, don't take sides, there is no way, this sin is something you must be able to bear, endure it.
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This is the inevitable trouble of living with your parents, it has just begun, let's boil it slowly, and my daughter-in-law will become a mother-in-law.
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As the old saying goes; Train your son in front of you and teach your wife behind your back.
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The man is the rat in the windbox - angry on both sides.
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The wife and mother quarreled, and at this time, we must deal with all kinds of relationships and understand the truth of the matter in depth.
First of all, it is necessary to calm the emotions of the mother and wife. You can only deal with the problem if you stabilize the emotions of both parties, otherwise there is no way to continue. Because the two sides are more excited, and even whether the truth of the matter can be explained clearly.
Second, the family is not a place of reason. Sometimes it is necessary to take proper care of the other person's emotions and moods, as well as a contradiction he is facing and a tangle of inner trouble. We can't just look at one of the things as a matter of truth or principle.
Third, sometimes it is necessary to consider the conflict between the wife and the mother. If there is a conflict in the family and they quarrel, at this time, it is necessary to comprehensively consider the impact, the stall sale and the impact on them. Don't favor one person because of one thing, it will hurt the other person.
Finally, you have to have the courage to take responsibility and the obligation to mediate. Because the wife and mother quarreled, they were also uneasy and frightened in their hearts, and at this time they had to stand up bravely and take responsibility. Then help them solve problems and mediate disputes.
I think the family should be more harmonious, so that it can be harmonious and wealthy, and it can also make the family happier and stronger. If this is not possible, young people can also live separately from their parents, which can reduce conflicts.
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Because of the local limb oak, it depends on the reason, whose main choice is the cause, you are hungry to analyze it, it seems that you are often splinted angry, you are too difficult, too difficult. You're the one who can adjust it.
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My wife and my mother quarreled: don't sit idly by. This is scary.
As the husband of your wife and as the son of your mother, you must not choose to escape, because escape is the most terrible thing, and you must dare to face up to the existence of this contradiction in Nahe, and do not think that it will be okay if your wife and mother quarrel, because if you continue to love in this way for a long time, it is not conducive to family harmony. My wife and my mother had a quarrel: try to find out why.
There will always be a reason for a quarrel between a wife and a mother. As a husband, we must clearly recognize this fact, everything must have a cause, and we must seriously analyze whether it is caused by the disagreement between the two generations, or whether it is caused by poor communication, or whether one party is prejudiced against the other. As a husband and son, you must try to sort out the reasons.
My wife and my mother quarreled three times: don't take sides. The wife and the mother quarreled again, saying that the mother was not, which would definitely make the mother sad; If you accuse your wife of being wrong, your wife will definitely make an endless fuss.
At this time, you must not take sides, since there is a quarrel, the fastest way is to calm both sides down first. His wife Mu Minpei quarreled with his mother for four times: he took the initiative to communicate with both parties.
As a wife and son, you should find a way to solve it at this time. Of course, proactive communication is a good way from time to time, and sometimes it is also a good choice to sacrifice yourself to achieve harmony between your mother and your mother. However, we must pay attention to the fact that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not an overnight affair, and we must not give up on everything, and we must try more methods.
My wife and my mother quarreled five: living separately. After all, there is a gap between the people of the two eras, and it is inevitable that there will be quarrels in communication, so the way to avoid quarrels is also to solve the fundamental problem of quarrels.
Regularly go home to see your mother by yourself, separation does not mean that you will be separated forever, you must go home to see your mother every once in a while. The wife and the mother quarreled again, saying that the mother was not, which would definitely make the mother sad; If you accuse your wife of being wrong, your wife will definitely make an endless fuss. At this time, you must not take sides, since there is a quarrel, the fastest way is to calm both sides down first.
If you are a smart man, please stand up and fight against your parents at this time, and you must not let your wife be a villain If your wife quarrels with your parents, your parents may hold a grudge for the rest of their lives, and the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is basically not repaired. If you are the one who quarrels with your parents at this time, your parents will feel sad for a while, and will scold you for being an "unfilial son" who has forgotten your mother, but no parents can fight against their children, and no parents will hold grudges against their children.
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Wife, quarrel with your mother, as an intermediary, you should still owe them a little bit at this time, tell them not to quarrel, be able to explain and communicate with them, and if there is any problem, you should let the other party a little.
In fact, you are not a husband at both ends, so on the wife's side, you say more good things about your wife, and on your mother's side, of course, you also have a lot of mediation, not to mention adding fuel to the fire, which can give them more of this love.
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In fact, whether a woman is a wife or a mother, he needs the attitude of the other party, and many things are not taught by everyone, but they just need an attitude from the other party, especially an attitude from the husband.
At this time, it is not necessary for you to judge who is right and who is wrong in the end, this time is coaxing, and the woman is a family relative who needs to be coaxed, whether he is your wife or mother.
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As a son and husband, you must play a coordinating role, otherwise there will be quarrels every day.
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