When she talks and laughs with other people, why does my heart hurt?

What is happiness? In fact, there is no absolute answer to happiness, the key lies in your attitude towards life. Only those who are good at grasping happiness know what happiness is.

I always thought that it was very difficult to feel happiness, and that was a state of light. After the passage of time, I realized that happiness is actually very simple, as long as the soul is satisfied and comforted, it is happiness. A healthy life is a great happiness!

What is happiness? It's actually quite simple. A cup of fresh water and a cup of tea can taste the taste of happiness; A flower, a green leaf, can often bring a breath of happiness; A humble room, a book, you can enjoy the scenery of happiness.

Happiness is not only in material abundance, happiness is also in the pursuit of spirit and spiritual enrichment, happiness is a feeling, a consciousness, is the comfort of the soft breeze, is the fragrance of roses blooming, is the serenade from the lake from afar. To experience happiness, we must have a pure heart, we must know how to appreciate nature, we must be willing to be indifferent, we must have the grace of not being frightened, and we must have the bearing of not being shocked, and we will always bring fame and flowers to famous people, but material happiness is often valued by others, more than spiritual happiness. In this world, some people drink Moutai and are excellent, but some people drink boiled water and are happy.

Poor couples are often able to get along with each other, but couples from rich and noble families often complain about their spouses. Happiness is often inseparable from good health and good mood, and happiness is often inseparable from the necessary material life guarantees, but limited to material happiness is never happiness in the real sense. Happiness is the song of the exile, and only a bosom friend can understand the meaning.

Happiness is the enrichment of the spirit, the tranquility of the soul, the openness of the soul, and secondly, the comfort of the material life.

Based on what you said, I think you must not have been in a relationship yet, or you have never really liked a girl before. What is this? It should be unrequited love.

First of all, before I give you advice, I have to ask you a question, do you think that if you confess to her, your grades will go up, or that your troubles will be gone? Imagine that if she didn't promise you and rejected you, then you would definitely be more sad, even if it was sad for a short time, it would have a great impact on you. If she says yes, then what can you do together?

Every time to accompany her? Spend time watching her smile? Such a life may seem pleasant to you.

But you will slowly find that your grades will get worse and worse, your troubles will become bigger and bigger, and the responsibility will slowly increase on you. On the bright side, she is a very motivated girl, and you can study well with her, but I think at this time you are no longer fully focused on studying, and you will have a lot of other thoughts.

To be honest, I had this experience with you in my junior year of high school, but I'm grateful to the crush on the crush on the crushed girl, who gently persuaded me, or rather rejected me. That is, after I finished the college entrance examination, I met my girlfriend who has been with me until now. This thought will sprout in young people, you are right, sometimes some things turn bad after they are said.

Isn't it also a kind of happiness to silently wait for the smile that makes you happy in your heart? You tell me?

I'll give you a piece of advice, it's not the best of both worlds, but it's not bad. You can make a bet with her, for example, on which exam. If you say that whoever has made more progress, then the loser will give a pen or a small souvenir for the win.

In this way, you can feel that she is with you, working together, and striving for the goal together. Isn't that a good exchange? It's good to yourself and the girl you want to protect.

Keep working hard to make a good impression on her and give yourself a wider path. When you really have the ability to take responsibility, when you have the ability to protect her, when you have the ability to give her happiness, if you still feel that she is the one in your heart. Then be brave and bold to pursue, and I think that by that time she will definitely give you a satisfactory answer.

Anyway, I hope you don't forget your responsibilities and your goals. I hope you can get out of this situation too.

Dear, you just say you like her, you will be jealous when you see her chatting with others, obviously you like her, and loving someone is exclusive.