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You also feel that there is something missing, and that is self-confidence. When I was in college, I was the best debater in our department. I'm very confident just because I'm very handsome, and I'm not conceited here, because it's a fact.
You can also do things that make you confident. Practicing eloquence and self-confidence is a must.
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Recurrent. Don't keep your mouth shut. Learn more with experienced people. Communicate!
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One way to do it!!
in front of your big mirror ... Let's go!
Take out your stopwatch timer and see how long it will take you to finish!!
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Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and you don't have to fight your weaknesses unless necessary.
Let's sort out the logic of the whole thing, you join the work in order to get rid of laziness, and work is a game to play. At work I find that you are not a good fit, so you want to change.
In general, the intentions are all good: to get rid of laziness - to get into the job - to improve work skills.
But have you noticed that you have fallen into a misunderstanding: why do you have to choose this job in this industry?
You said that you are very good at playing games, which means that you don't usually like to play games, or you love to play games but don't play well.
If you don't play games, why do you have to get into this industry? If you love to play but don't play well, it's a bit of the opposite of what you want to do with your laziness in the first place - you're still playing, but it's just playing, and you can make some money now. This is still satisfying your desire to play......
I don't know what your family conditions are and your own conditions, but there is a high probability that you did not go to higher education when you come out of the 19-year-old to work. This is another topic that I won't say, but as a senior who is not much older than you, if your family conditions are not enough to make you worry about food and clothing for the rest of your life, at least you should consider the career development prospects, right? The game industry itself is a youth meal, whether it is a technical player or a play-needless former, the latter, there shouldn't be any boss who likes to let uncles and aunts play with him, right?
What's more, the industry itself is in a very embarrassing situation, and everyone is now groping for what the prospect is. At present, the people who can eat meat in this industry are the talents in the front, and there is very little soup in the back.
To sum up, my personal advice is to think about your career plan, if you really want to exercise your ability in this area, find a decent office job, pursue stability as an ordinary clerk, you can learn a lot in the office environment, and how much you can learn and absorb depends on your personal practice. If you have an adventurous spirit, try foreign trade sales, and use writing letters instead of speaking, which can not only exercise your ability, but also do not require you to react quickly. Of course, if you don't speak English well, consider working as a customer service for domestic trade.
As for the current industry, you can do this in your spare time.
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Eloquence is exercised, and over time, it will get better. You can go for some better solutions, for example, talk to yourself in the mirror and make yourself not shy and outgoing first. Watching more humorous ** can improve emotional intelligence.
In the process of communicating with others, observe the way others communicate and learn about it.
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Read short passages aloud regularly every day, practice tongue twisters more, and after a month, the effect will come out.
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The place to exercise eloquence is to read books, and then read some books to exercise eloquence, what to say in learning? Words are not nonsense, there is always a purpose, what kind of purpose do you want to achieve? How do you say that?
If you are in advance, you will have a certain plan in your head.
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Eloquence is not born by anyone, everyone is trained. But some are talented, and some are trained by long-term practice!
Saying the previous words is to tell you, don't be in a hurry to succeed, you must continue to persevere, or you are not afraid of ugliness and hardship in the process of hard work!
No matter how generous a person is, when he sees a stranger, more or less, he will be nervous, and his voice will tremble or something :) So your eloquence is not bad as you think, it may just be that you don't dare to face it, or you are not confident to contact! In addition to being able to speak well as what others see, a person with good eloquence attaches more importance to the improvement of his own quality and self-cultivation.
Their knowledge matured through reading more books and newspapers and coming into contact with them. It's just that they observe the things around them more carefully, think more, think more! And they are very confident in themselves, although they may not look amazing, but in their own hearts, their shortcomings have been correctly faced, and they do not deny themselves, summarize their strengths in their own shortcomings, perhaps, they will think "I'm ugly, why should I care if I'm ugly?"
It's an optimistic state of mind, and it's necessary to improve your eloquence!
Your question proves that you are demanding your own improvement, so I think you will be able to do a good job! I'm sure you can do it, you have to work hard! Usually, you can listen to what others say, learn from it, and think about how you will answer and face this kind of problem if you encounter it!
From this, you will definitely be more mature and you will definitely have success.
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