Being kicked upside down by my boyfriend s ex girlfriend, should I bear it? What to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, it is necessary to figure out the reason why they broke up at that time, and the reason why they are back together now, if everything is just a farce, then you should leave as soon as possible, because, people who are wavering in their feelings and cannot stabilize their hearts are also a danger to you, and if it is not this one now, it will be the next one. Of course, if all this is tightly requested by the ex-girlfriend and is for the so-called responsibility, then there is no need, because, so the responsibilities and obligations were put down on the day they broke up. Now that it's been put down, it shouldn't be mentioned again.

    Since you can't let go, how can you break up, and if you break up, you can only bring it up again because of responsibility, which is irresponsible to both parties, In this regard, this man should be asked to think clearly, which is more important......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Give up - find what you like, that's too tiring, you keep pampering him, there's no point, unless you're stubborn, but it doesn't work out.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How can I stand it as a boy, and how should I clean up my girlfriend who still likes my ex-boyfriend. is also a fallen person at the end of the world, depending on how he chooses, make a decision.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Leave, you can't change others, change yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The girlfriend just wants to clean up what she should do.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's that I can't bear it anymore and break up directly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't indulge him. Tell him you really like me. I broke up with my original girlfriend. The two boats on foot will surely be overturned.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It means that he doesn't like you, so there's no need to be together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I feel like you're going to have to find a way to prove that you can be better than his ex-girlfriend. As for his ex-girlfriend who asked for his help or something. It could be that she feels that after the breakup, she thinks your boyfriend is fine and wants to go back to him.

    You should face it correctly, don't threaten and warn his ex-girlfriend in private, so that your boyfriend will know about it, he will definitely think you are too selfish. As for what to do with your boyfriend helping his ex-girlfriend? I think it depends, you have to distinguish between when you really need help and you should encourage your boyfriend to help someone else, if you know that she is deliberately provoking.

    You'll have to learn to be smart and make him think it's the wrong choice if he abandons you and befriends his ex-girlfriend. Remember to learn the smart way. Instead of playing with tempers.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Break up, you don't deserve to love, love is selfish, it's very sad to not love yourself, love has to be picked up, put it down, this is love and hate, don't be so mean to yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you can't get used to it, let him change his attitude towards his ex-girlfriend. Otherwise, break up. There is no good way.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's better for your boyfriend, don't make noise, let him know how good you are! A man who has been injured generally will not bear to let someone who loves him hurt for him, so he will not choose the past again, so as long as you are not too bad, he will not look back!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's better not to, then you won't be able to be friends with your friends!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's better not to, friends don't have to do it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you like it, you can accept it, and of course you may lose a friend. Weigh it yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A friend's wife can't be bullied, in fact, the nature I said doesn't match, but do you think about it, can a girl who is so easy to change her mind want? But think about it before you decide.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't feel for each other, that's okay.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's because of you that it's divided, and if you love her, find her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    See if you value love or righteousness?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If he hadn't come out of the shadow of his ex-girlfriend and be with you again, I don't think he'd be cautious at all...

    Otherwise, the two of you have a good talk, and if he really can't let go, then you will be separated for a while and let him think it through.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He is just expressing his feelings, you should be more tolerant, try to talk to your heart, communicate more, suspicion will make your relationship crack. I'm from here.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Being a woman sometimes has to learn to pretend to be confused and fully trust men, which has no past The point is to look forward, suspicion is an emotional moth.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    At this time, you should be calm and see if it is your own problem before this problem arises. If it's your own problem, find a way to correct it. If it's a problem on both sides. Negotiate as much as possible. If it's really not your problem, then break up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is possible that men will only express something when they think about it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's not that you're not good enough or good enough, it's just that you haven't met the right one. If you love him, see if you can pull him back.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can find an opportunity to test him, and if it feels like he is in love with his ex-girlfriend, you can make a decision.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In that case, if you can't bear it, then divide it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't think about such a thing if you don't know it's good, what's the point of you taking revenge on him, what's in it for you?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My back is cold! I'm so scared that I'm going to chase my first love tomorrow! That little eye is revenge on me like you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You'll regret it, don't be impulsive.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Wonderful, there is a problem with the brain. Since you are not together, why bother, it's not good to find a good one yourself, isn't it?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't be like this, no matter what, she is also the woman you have loved deeply.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I can understand your feelings. I used to like the space to see my current boyfriend's ex when there was nothing to do. But now I've gotten rid of that habit.

    Because since you have chosen, don't easily doubt them, they are long in the past, since you know that they are completely the same as the family, and your boyfriend has not betrayed you so far, why should you easily doubt him?

    His ex-wife is his past, and this is a fact that cannot be changed. Since you can't change it, it's better to accept it calmly. To love him is to trust him, at least when he has not betrayed you. Isn't it?

    If there is more suspicion and anxiety in a relationship, then it is easy to have contradictions.

    Give the landlord a suggestion, give yourself more encouragement, and tell yourself that you are his present, as long as you work together, it will be his future!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Focus your attention on your ex-girlfriend and shift your focus!

    Everyone has a past, and they have their own things that they don't want to mention, and repeated offenses will only make people disgusted!

    Emotional cracks are often formed because of the accumulation of such and such details.

    It may be better to shift the focus of your life to work or study, depending on the individual.

    PS: Force yourself not to pay attention, and over time it will become a habit.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's normal, it's nothing, who doesn't think about it? It's just that you're not too mature and a little naïve now. In fact, you yourself know that even if you understand, it may not be a good thing for you, but you just want to explore.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because you care about him too much, just learn not to care much and find something else to do yourself.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You care about him too much! As long as he is dedicated to you now, why should you have nothing to do, haven't you been with someone else before? If he doesn't have anything to do to investigate your past, you'll be disgusted!!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Untweet any messages from your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, unfollow them, and focus on your relationship.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I used to be like this, and in the end I couldn't control it, so I deleted it for her if I couldn't do it, and I deleted everything, so I couldn't find it if I wanted to!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's okay, they all have such jealousy.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Because they didn't have a share, but they all had their own needs at that time.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It depends on what his ex-girlfriend thinks.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The one who marries you is not necessarily the one you love the most, don't think about having a chance again when you are separated, you can't forget it, just put her in your heart.

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