Husband and wife problem I m more mature than him, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, the best man is four years older than the woman, so that the thoughts can be consistent. Women's minds tend to be more mature than men's, although I'm also a man.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hehe! You really know how to use puns on 'not being immature' and 'not talking well' Actually, everyone has their good side and bad side, referred to as advantages and disadvantages. Do you think your man is perfect, I think it's too much to ask others to be perfect, do you think your man is really useless?

    I guess not. Why do you always see black dots on a piece of white paper, but you can't see that it's a blank piece of paper? To love someone should be more support, encouragement and praise, and not to complain.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since you are more mature than him, you teach him, if you really break up, no one even quarrels, it's not even worse, loyal to the ear, if a person has been listening to good words, how can he progress, you can try to be nice to him first, he listens to everything he says, he should have annoyed you now, know your shortcomings to change, lack of understanding between you, people are not as good as the sky, so take one step at a time, no need to plan, just take wedding photos, even if you break up, you have to leave happy memories, if there is a problem again, send it here, There will be people who will come up with suggestions to solve it, maturity depends on whether there is space and time to think, come on, you have to stick to his good, it's best to take more **, when you're happy, when you're unhappy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How do I feel that the man you are talking about is me?

    Men's position: It is undeniable that men tend to think about animals with their lower bodies, and they like the new and hate the old, and they prefer beautiful, individual, mysterious women, you have been together for five years, no matter how beautiful you are, you are tired of looking at it, and your personality is also understood, not to mention the sense of mystery. So yes, it's cruel to tell you, he's tired of it, he's annoyed, and he's lost interest in you.

    But man is also kind, tolerant, and responsible (at least I am), so he is in this state of contradiction that has caused you to be in the situation you are in.

    Women's position: Women are naturally very emotional, will be more nostalgic, very emotional, it is easy to take five years of love as a family affection, feel very down-to-earth, very warm. If you say that you will break up, you will feel like losing a loved one, of course, it will feel very painful (a woman's mind will be very complicated, I can't explain it here).

    There is a saying that a man is a child who never grows up... He may still not be mature enough.

    Summary: If you still love each other as you did five years ago, does it matter which of you looks mature? If you are still in love and dead, don't say that he looks younger than you, even if he is really many years younger than you, you will still be together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello friend.

    Is there a difference between heating and not heating?

    Are you hot? The highest level of love is presumptuousness, when you can't be presumptuous in front of a person, it means that your love is still reserved!! When you do: it means that you are 100% in love!!

    However: presumptuous people, only a few people can understand, understand, and accept!! Such as: our parents, the dearest people!! And the rest: we will all smile and keep a proper distance!!

    Elegance is the best lubricant for relationships at the beginning!! When you get acquainted with each other for a long time: when and where do you always maintain 100% elegance, that is not elegance is artificial, it is caused by a long distance!!

    The closer the distance, the more we can discover the shortcomings of others: when two people who have been in close proximity for a long time have a clear understanding of each other's shortcomings, wrinkles, acne, stinky sweats, shortcomings, stinky tempers, etc., you can still love and never give up, then you are the real love!。

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not your husband's problem, it's your own problem, caused by the imbalance in your heart, he used to be inferior to you, you look down on him and don't feel anything, now he is much stronger than you, and you are still stuck in the previous kind of arrogance, and you feel that people who are not as good as you can surpass yourself, so your heart is extremely unbalanced, uncomfortable, landlord, his previous grades were not good, and now it turns out that people are very powerful, you should be glad to have found a potential stock, and so accommodating that you love you, how lucky you are, you must know how to cherish, Lest you regret it later, you should be proud of him when he becomes powerful, not angry. How many women envy you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are many men who are stronger than him, and there are especially many women who are stronger than you. If we are always striving for better, when will it be a head?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Being six years older than you is not necessarily called maturity Whether you are mature or not, just look at whether he loves his family or not, as a wife, you don't have to do anything, you just need to keep a good home, stand silently behind him, and it's OK

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he's tired outside, you should take care of him more at home and work more in life.

    However, if he still loses his temper for no reason while being yourself, it is very unacceptable, and you should talk to him well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find out the specific reasons and see what the problems are.

    What two people need most when they are together is tacit understanding, which takes a long time to run-in and cultivate. Find out more about the specific reasons, then summarize and reflect, and solve it together, you can't keep it in your heart!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Inclusive! Share his worries! Care for him and be considerate of him!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not your business, your husband won't tolerate you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    She hates iron. The vast majority of women are looking for a tree to lean on. Friend, you just pretend to be strong, he quarrels with you, you don't quarrel with him, but you have to do it, he sees that you have no reason to want to quarrel.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There's nothing wrong with such a character! It's not good to be too strong. It's going to be even more annoying.

    You and your wife are not doing a good job in communication, you can ask your wife to say what she thinks after she has finished talking about it, and then ask your wife what she thinks about it. Of course, it's impossible to listen to your wife right or wrong. Have your own ideas!

    The important thing between couples is communication.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A man's has a man's masculinity... Do what you think is right, protect the people and things you want to protect, and see that your wife is very capable.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1. Your husband is an obvious garbage man who needs to restore his confidence.

    2. The reason why you are poor or not doing things, people are stupid, you can be stupid, the bird flies first, you can't fly, what!

    3. Interact and communicate with him, encourage him, and constantly encourage him to do things. Such as: Husband, you xx is the best for this, you can do it. (Praise him more when you're done.) )

    4. Men can't make money, they have to do housework, training. Don't give up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your husband is still immature at the age of 34, and you should be prepared for him to be immature for the rest of his life. But your husband's problem has not reached the point of incorrigible seriousness, as far as I personally think it is inertia, laziness everyone has, it is normal to be very tired at work and rest at home, but who does the housework. Men usually think that it is natural for women to do housework, which in itself is the logic of unequal thinking.

    What's more, your husband doesn't make much money like this, and he is lazy and doesn't do housework, first of all, choose according to your personal situation and wishes, the first is to be a full-time wife at home, and you won't be so tired to do housework without going to work. Second, when you are a strong woman, you earn more than him, so that he can't lift up his face and don't do housework.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The reason why very few people succeed is because they do not persevere to success, and those who succeed succeed because he persevers longer than those who fail until the success is unknown!

    Or in other words, the person who does not complete his goal is not called failure, but can only be said to temporarily stop succeeding, and the person who completes the goal is called success!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Men generally show their childish side in front of the woman they love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    That's because you're too mature in front of him, and you might as well try to be more naïve than him a few times, and you see him change.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's okay, treat him as a younger brother, a son. Let this be more of a little more of him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Why did you choose to marry such a naïve person at that time?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Husbands and wives have their own flaws, and both of them have to tolerate each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The psychological age gap between men and women is three years.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Communicate with him more, grow slowly, and be patient.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's short and thin and still not to be seen?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You feel that he is not very mature, it means that you are more mature than him, he is good to you, you should not treat him as a child, a person who loves you will show his true side in front of you. He must not worry about working outside the home differently, which shows that he really loves you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's just right, you two are making progress in growth, helping each other and working hard for each other!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Cherish the days in front of you and live them well. Contentment.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    People have grown up since childhood, and they all have immaturity and slowly become mature.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Maturity is a ...... honedCan't wait!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    ,, then it's better to be happy like a child until the white head is white.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your question is very simple, if you have a child yourself, whether it is a boy or a girl, what kind of personality will your child be like in your husband and wife? Why is this happening? If you understand this, then what happened to your husband is no longer a problem!

    That is: children are the epitome and expansion of parents! The father is strong, and the son is not too cowardly; But there is a premise, if the child is grown up under the protection of the mother, then. No matter how good the father is, the child will still only learn half of the mother (rarely learn from the father).

    To sum up, your husband is living under the protection of his mother; Therefore, he is immature, willful and childish (very young in mental age), which is not a matter of maturity or maturity! This is a matter of character, once formed, unless there is some very big change that makes your husband's little universe set off and explode; Otherwise, he would have been like this.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Men want to coax, and men who are always scolded will be discouraged.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    A man is always like a child who doesn't grow up.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    A person's immaturity is based on experience.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Men are like this, so you have to tolerate it with love.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Eighteen girls have a flower.

    Forty-one flowers for men.

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