Friends, help me, once again unintentionally speaking deeply hurt her.

First of all, your expression is a little more serious.

I don't say what kind of person I am in your heart, you know it in your own heart. At that time, I said that unintentionally, so feel it yourself. We've been around for so long, and you've heard me say that a few times.

If you break up with me because of my words, then our love is too fake, and I still expect to be with you. You can't get over this bit of ups and downs, and besides, I'm unintentional, but you don't understand me at all?

I'm sorry my words hurt you, I was unintentional, you forgive me.

Don't look for her now. Caring for her from the bottom. I'll be back with her in a few months.

There are usually three aspects that men are more taboo about: women make men lose face in the hall, women are taller than men, and women earn more than men. More than 70% of these men consider the first item to be intolerable.

And your male colleague has made the same joke many times with ill intentions, you have to pay attention to your words and deeds not to misunderstand, you have to adapt to social work, don't destroy your feelings and image because of a few words without brain, make people feel that you are unstable, frivolous, and like to play ambiguous, which is very bad. It's easy to deal with your boyfriend, just don't be a dead duck with a hard mouth. Although a man should be accommodating to you, if you commit a taboo, you need to be a little tolerant, say something nice, and let the other party know that you recognize the seriousness of your mistake.

In the future, you just pay more attention to what you say, this matter is not a big deal, and it will not affect the relationship between the two of you much. Don't let your boyfriend lose face in public in the future. A man's face in front of women is important.

Speaking unintentionally makes your boyfriend misunderstand, pay attention in the future, your boyfriend is unhappy for a while, as long as you explain it to him frankly and sincerely, he will understand, if he still doesn't give up, that's his problem, it means that your boyfriend's heart is relatively small, and he can't tolerate a little thing. You have to be patient first, and then explain it to him when you have a chance. It's just a small issue, and you don't have to be overburdened.

You should calm down and think about this, you have such a character, it is difficult to change, your boyfriend also has to think about it, can he accept it like this, you should both think about it seriously, you are not married yet, you also told him to change it in the future, once you get married, you yourself have said it, you have a hard mouth, and you will not admit your mistakes, so it will hurt the feelings of both parties. If you really want to change, you are not stupid, you can tell your colleagues not to make such jokes in the future, or if you don't pick up, gradually your colleagues will not make such jokes. If you can't control others, you can't control yourself!

If you two want to come together, make some changes in each of you! Good luck.

If you recognize your own problems, you can tell him face to face, and pay attention to what you say in the future! It could also be that he encountered something else that didn't go his way. Make something delicious, and if you want to capture a man's heart, first grab his stomach!

Apologize sincerely, talk to him seriously and honestly about your own thoughts, and pay more attention to yourself in the future, not any joke can be made, at least not in front of your boyfriend, it's best not to make this kind of joke, there is no impermeable wall in the world.

If you always say something to others, you can take it seriously, just remember it in the future, cook him something delicious in the evening, or ask him to watch a movie.

Apologize sincerely and see if they forgive you. Do deep reflection on yourself, and if you should get rid of it, you must control yourself and get rid of it completely.

Make up for it: you can cook some of the dishes he likes to eat, apologize to him, and be coquettish by the way.

In fact, if you hurt your boyfriend, it's very simple, go and explain things clearly to him, tell him that you love him, and you should be able to solve this problem, the key is that you are not married now, talk like those women, don't pay attention to the occasion, don't pay attention to the tone, don't pay attention to proportion, this is what you have to consider.

Many people say that as soon as a woman gets married, she will have no worries about speaking, but before marriage, she is always more shy, which is also a reason why girls attract men, imagine that if a girl has no characteristics of a girl at all, like an aunt, who would dare to associate with her, who knows if what she said is true, who knows if she really has a favorite man outside, everyone is not married, and it must be in the stage of suffering from gains and losses.

Take the initiative to hug him and kiss him! Then she coquettishly told him that she would never joke like this in the future.

What jokes should be made and what should not be made, you have to distinguish clearly, just don't make jokes like this.

It's normal, it's nothing

This means that the EQ is relatively low, and you don't know how to read words? This has to be paid attention to, others have to be cared for, noticed, and don't want to hurt, that's enough. Speaking can not be beautiful, but sincere.

It's going to get better, and they'll all know your temperament.

People who can talk don't usually become good friends.

I understand that I have friends like you by my side. In the future, when you speak, pay more attention to nothing, don't think too much.

A true friend will understand you, and you should try to learn to speak, listen and think.

Talk less, do more! Be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner!

Some words, even unintentionally, in your subconscious, will have some corresponding thoughts.

Psychologically speaking, especially some words that blurt out without thinking about it, can reflect the subconscious.

First of all, you should be honest with yourself, analyze yourself about what you said to your parents, find out whether you have such thoughts in the depths of your mind, whether such thoughts are right, and how to completely solve them.

The deep thoughts of the heart are sometimes not easy to perceive very clearly, or they are not called subconscious. If you can't find out what you really think, it doesn't matter, reflect on it every once in a while, and slowly you will have the answer.

Before you do that, here's what you need to do:

Make a small gift for your parents, such as drawing a card, and apologize in writing. Tell them that you said it unintentionally, and didn't really think that way. You are very sad to inadvertently make your parents sad.

Tell them that they are the most important people in the world to you and that you really want them to be happy.

Small knots between parents and children are easier to eliminate.

Communicate. There is nothing in this world that cannot be communicated, let alone find an opportunity to talk with your parents. I'm sorry to say in person that you can send a letter or a message on your mobile phone

Your current state feels like there's something connected to your personality.

From the analysis of the content you described, you are a person who cares a lot about what others say about you, a person who cares a lot about the outcome of things, a person who pursues perfection in concepts, and even a person who is more stubborn and not easy to accept other people's views on some issues. I don't mean to blame anything, but I want you to know that because of some of your personality traits, you will become more and more unnatural in the process of communicating with the outside world. You are slow to respond, often pause, and run out of words, etc., because you lack self-confidence, and often care too much about what others think and evaluate you, so that you are in a state where you don't know what to say and how to say it, because you want to show your perfect side too much, and you want to be recognized by others.

Of course, there are some things that you may not agree with, because many situations are not your own subjective thoughts, but the content of the subconscious realm.

We are the same!! It seems that I'm normal, uh-huh... I'm doing a recording diary! I find it useful!

Do you lack the courage to believe in yourself? If you love someone, I believe you will hope that he and she will have the same feelings, the same love as you. Why don't you want to speak up for fear of getting hurt?

If the other party also has this kind of thought, then you are not missing a marriage in vain.

Sometimes love is very naughty, and if you don't grasp the timing well, you will miss out on the opportunity to have love.

Be open-minded to yourself, love is love, be free and easy, even if you are hurt, don't always struggle with the scars that have formed scars after being injured. What if you get hurt? At least once brave for love ......This is something that no one else can do, and you have tried to do for yourself!

That's enough, don't run away from it, be honest about your love.

If you can't say it, you may miss a love.

Love should be bold to say it, so that you will not regret it.

This story feels so philosophical.

What! You've got a great boyfriend, so why don't you like him! This will only complicate things, unless you want to step on two boats, but I advise you not to do that, you will regret it!

I can't imagine that there are people who will cry when chatting in QQ, and there is another person in the world. Maybe he touched you with such pure love, and now there are very few of them.

Well said upstairs, since you recognize him as your boyfriend, you just recognize him as the person you are looking for...Stupid.

I think it would be too hasty to say this, as I have tried to say to me.

"People who like you don't make hasty decisions so easily." ”

Hehe, emotional entanglements are very troublesome.

It's better to be my apprentice.

Amitabha. The old man advises you to leave him alone.

Your boyfriend is still the best with you.

I don't know what you think.

Just talk to him about it. Since you've been with your boyfriend for four years, you should cherish it.

There are in the bowl, in the basin, in the pot, but what about the mouth? Now boiled ducks will also fly.

Little hairy child, illusory feelings, cherish what you have. Don't do things you regret.

Emotional matters are not something that can be explained in a few words, and it is not something that those of us who can give advice casually.

We can only give you a little bit of our own experience.

I advise you to be cautious, otherwise maybe you will break the hearts of the two boys.