I can t bear my first love, what should I do?

In fact, it is not easy to experience a love, but if you can't get together and are still struggling to support yourself, you are abusing yourself. You are still young, it doesn't matter if you don't have a love, it's absolutely okay to use the time to conceive another one in the future, as for the first love, it will definitely not be forgotten. It's okay to think about it when one is nostalgic and just laugh it off.

What is not in a good situation after graduation, what can't give you happiness, that's all an excuse, the landlord should give up on him!!

Let him pass in the past, cherish what you have in front of you, and you will definitely be happy and believe in yourself.

Boyfriend of four years, do you know him?!

Knowing his words, you can definitely tell if he is lying to you?

My opinion. He gritted his teeth and parted with you in order to find a more suitable girl for him, who had just graduated.

Many people believe that men are children, who like the new and hate the old, and love to try. Can you accept such a turning arrow? My advice: Live happily and look confidently! Don't be afraid to fail!

My personal opinion: I especially appreciate girls who will break up voluntarily!

There are two possibilities for this:

One is that his situation is really bad, and he has low self-esteem. I don't feel like I have the face to see you, I don't feel worthy of you!

The second is that he has another heart, and he is afraid that his new girlfriend will know about your relationship.

In view of this, you should not rush to go. You can find out the real situation of him through his colleagues and classmates.

If you belong to the first category, don't rush to go in person! You can communicate with him more with **, text message, let him know what you think, encourage him a lot, and cheer him up! Wait until he is relieved to meet again.

If it's the second one, then let's talk to him bye bye! Don't have any illusions!

He loves face too much. I don't see you if I feel that I am in a bad condition, do I love you or what, or break up, this kind of man is too unconfident.

Maybe he doesn't love you anymore, men always like to use a lot of sweet words to fill the façade, it's really hateful!

He must have something to hide from you, and you'd better make a final effort to find out what he's really trying to do.

Stay away from him. There is no need to find out what the truth is, his approach cannot be accepted and forgiven by ordinary people.

A man. The status now is not important. The most important thing is for him to have self-confidence. There is no self-confidence. More terrible than material nothingness.

It depends on whether you really like him or not. If you like it very much, stick to him. Trust him if he likes you. I will also be soft-hearted when I see you.

This kind of thing is to ask yourself. As.

Do you love him? How much love?

Have you ever heard a saying that if you don't give up, it will be more painful than having it.

Does he love you? How much love?

Don't say how I know if he loves me or not, love can be felt.

Do you believe him? How much do you believe?

If you believe it, it's good to love it again, some feelings will not fade. If you don't believe it, then you will only be troubled together.

May you be happy, even if it is not given to each other.

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, first love means a lot of peace for us.

First of all, first love has a particularly important place in any person's heart; Most people will always remember their first love and will always be concerned about it; Because every fragment that accompanies the first love is the most precious treasure in life; So even if you already have a family, a lover, and a child; However, in my heart, no one can change the sincere feelings for my first love; In anyone's heart, there will always be some time, reminiscing about the sweet time with first love, and feeling how happy it is; Of course, I also feel how sorry it is.

Secondly, in everyone's heart, for the years of innocence, for the innocent heart, will feel so precious; And in everyone's heart, the innocence of first love is something that no one can compare with and no one can replace in social life; So just think about it, the first love of innocence and whiteness; I will always feel that above this world, I can no longer taste that pure feeling; Therefore, in any person's heart, for their first love, they will definitely feel that it is the most perfect and the best; No one can change the first love in their hearts, the most precious everything; There is no one to replace, and the first love is worth cherishing for a lifetime.

Hello, in the hearts of many people, the first love is a good memory, maybe the first love is unforgettable for many people for a lifetime, but for me, the first love just represents an experience in my life, and the first love is not irreplaceable.

First of all, we should be clear that although everyone has their own first love, the reason why this first love does not come to the end for many people also shows that this relationship is not really suitable for themselves, or they are not very mature in the process of blowing the ball and being electrocuted, and they do not really understand feelings, and it is impossible to really understand what love is, so in this case, even if they have enjoyed their first love, this first love has brought themselves a seemingly good memory. Personally, I don't think it really means much to me, so from this point of view, first love is not irreplaceable.

And the real irreplaceable feelings, should still be ** when they really meet their favorite object, and confess to each other, two people together find that they really like each other, really inseparable from each other, and in the process of getting along with each other, they have achieved mutual understanding, mutual respect, mutual tolerance, and mutual appreciation, such feelings are truly irreplaceable, and can make each other feel happy and happy. And this kind of relationship is really what allows us to maintain and maintain it for a long time, compared to the first love, the importance of this relationship in my heart is much higher, and it can even be said that this is the only feeling in my heart that can really be treated with heart, so I personally think that many times we should not be too obsessed with the first love, and the past should try to let go of yourself as much as possible.

Good luck. <>

Before my first love, she was my girlfriend's best friend and often hung out together. It happened out of the blue at a weekend party. While we were chatting, I noticed a detail that I liked about her, and was stunned, after all, she had always been just friends, and I would betray my girlfriend.

After calming down, I decided not to do anything. I can't betray so many years of affection and integrity, my girlfriend is so good to me, I can't hurt her. I also understand that she is the best friend, and their relationship is not only an ordinary friendship, but also a friendship between girlfriends, and this friendship cannot be ignored.

I realized that this impulsive feeling didn't mean that I was truly in love with her.

I need to deal with this feeling, though.

First of all, I chose to talk to my friend in detail, and found a buddy who understood me very well, and I confided in him all about it, and told him that I wanted to maintain the existing relationship, and my purpose was not to destroy anyone's friendship or relationship.

I hope that I can downplay these feelings and thoughts and keep these relationships precious and stable.

While preventing unnecessary problems from arising, I also realized that emotional intuition should be respected and seriously considered.

Some issues that are close to personal emotions require special attention and cannot be easily omitted or ignored. I chose to have an honest conversation with my girlfriend about how I felt about her friend and what I would do in this situation.

My girlfriend gratefully accepted my honest conversation and even gave me a lot of support and advice.

She told me that our relationship is based on trust and respect, and that there is not the slightest sense of distance between us because of this little secret.

In the end, we decided to understand the situation from a deeper perspective and wanted to keep the love and friendship between us.

1. Treat with a normal heart. If people can see life and death, see emotions, and treat anything with a normal heart, it is not a thing.

2. Treat yourself like an old friend. Yes, you can treat him as a friend and confidant, but don't treat him as a lover after marriage. Because we also have a responsibility.

3. Plain memories of the good past. The past has gone away, and we can't go back, and we treat it as a journey in our lives to remember forever.

4. Shouting can't let feelings heat up. Some people can't control their feelings while chatting, and the consequences of deep feelings can be imagined.

5. Don't touch too much. Men and women, especially those who have an unforgettable relationship, may rekindle their old feelings if they have too much contact.